one A lawyer friend is specialized in handling divorce cases. He handles hundreds of cases large and small every year. He has seen all kinds of men and women who tear their faces for divorce, and one of them impressed him. The divorce was proposed by a man, but the woman didn't agree. After the two people deadlocked for a long time, the woman let go. I thought the divorce procedure was over, but the two people's congresses fought because of 20000 yuan. The reason is that the man borrowed 20000 yuan from the woman's relatives, but the man refused to admit it. In a rage, the woman took the man to court. The court spoke of evidence. She couldn't get a debit note, let alone a transfer record. Finally, she divorced, but the money didn't come back. However, she appealed to the people's court at the next higher level, but still upheld the original judgment. She held a breath in her heart and always wanted to make it perfect. The more rogue the man was, the more she wanted to appeal. For the 20000 yuan, she spent five years not going to work or taking care of her children, and spent all her time and energy on appeal. A lawyer friend said that a woman used to be the account manager of a well-known advertising company with a monthly income of 20000, but because she couldn't swallow this tone, she entangled in this matter all day, and finally lost her job and gave up her life. There is a saying that when you stare at the abyss, the abyss also stares at you. If you are entangled with bad things for a lifetime, you will always live in garbage life. two Li Xuelian in the movie "I'm not Pan Jinlian" is fighting with rotten people all her life. Li Xuelian is a rural woman. In order to have a second child, she discussed a fake divorce with her husband. Unexpectedly, the husband turned the fake divorce into a real divorce and took the opportunity to marry the little girl in the hair salon. Li Xuelian went to court to sue her ex husband, asked her ex husband to divorce and remarry with her, and finally divorced her bastard husband seriously. Of course, she lost the lawsuit. Li Xuelian went to her ex husband to argue. Her ex husband scolded and laughed at her in public, saying that she was not Li Xuelian but Pan Jinlian. Because of this sentence, Li Xuelian decided to sue again. A complaint is more than ten years. A young and beautiful woman can start her life again, but she has been entangled and rotten for a lifetime because of a rotten thing and a rotten person. three Don't get entangled with rotten people and things, and stay away from garbage people is something to be warned of all your life. Sometimes because one doesn't pay attention, it will even be life-threatening. I saw a news before that a female college student in Beijing was raped and killed on the way back to Changping campus from Peking University campus. After the suspect was arrested, the police asked why he raped and killed. The suspect replied that during the ride, the female student and the suspect had a dispute because of the detour. The two people quarreled constantly. The female student pointed to his nose and said: wait, I remember you. Unexpectedly, this is the last sentence she left in the world. Life is precious, but rotten people don't think so. Such a person is full of negative energy, irritable, irritable, hatred, revenge, ignorance and hostility. Because of your word and action, he will take your life. four Last year, near the Wuhan train, Hu had a dispute with the noodle shop owner for 1 yuan. The two people abused each other and quarreled with each other. On impulse, Hu ran into the kitchen, picked up a kitchen knife, cut off the boss's head and threw it into the trash can Actor Liu Jie took her boyfriend to visit her sick grandmother in Kunming traditional Chinese medicine hospital. As a result, she met a drunkard on the first floor. After bumping into them, the drunkard still spoke wildly and swearing. Liu Jie and her boyfriend couldn't help scolding back. As a result, the drunk took out his knife and cut at them. Liu Jie fell to the ground and died on the spot, and her boyfriend's leg was injured. Originally, Liu Jie and her boyfriend had just returned from taking wedding photos from Thailand. The wedding date was approaching, but unexpectedly, there was a gap between yin and Yang. When you meet such a rotten person, you'd rather suffer a loss than stay away from it. Just like people, you were bitten by a dog on the road. Do you have to bite back to relieve your anger? I remember such a thing happened in the early years. I went to the food stall to have a late night snack with several colleagues. The business of the night market is very hot. The table is next to the table and the chair covers the chair. A colleague accidentally ran into the guests at the table next door. The guests were either naked or with tattoos. The colleague apologized. After listening, they said with ridicule, "look at that advice..." After hearing this, several other colleagues were angry and looked at them without showing weakness: "all apologized. What's your attitude!" Just after saying this, all the people at the table stood up and looked at us angrily. When my colleague was ready to say it again, I stopped him: "I'm sorry, my friend didn't mean it just now. You drink well. Let's change places." Then I checked out and took some friends away. Along the way, my colleagues were a little depressed and complained to me: "this kind of person should not be used to him and can't admit counseling." I smiled and said, don't try to reason with these people, because they don't know what reason is. five At any time, don't overestimate the other party's humanity and underestimate your own danger. You reason with your mouth and he kills with his fist. Therefore, do not entangle in bad things and bad people. Arguing with them can only lower your IQ; Talking to them can only lower your level. Don't quarrel with drunken people, avoid those who are full of hostility, and don't always think of taking a breath in case of trouble. The sentence "can't afford to hide" is not timid, but a kind of wisdom. When you are abandoned by the slag man and break up, what you want is not to make trouble in his company, tear him up and retaliate against him, but to leave the slag man quickly and start your new life. When you go to dinner and encounter hooligans whistling at you, what you think is not how to scold them, but you should speed up your pace and don't come to this place of right and wrong in the future. When being slandered and attacked by others, what you want to think is not how to seize their handle and slander them, but to be yourself and strive to get out of this circle as soon as possible. Don't try to be quick, so that bad people have the opportunity to approach you and hurt you. Life is short and time is limited. In your life, you should fall in love with interesting people, marry loved ones, do what you like, live a comfortable life, and not tangle with bad people or bad things.

one A lawyer friend is specialized in handling divorce cases. He handles hundreds of cases large and small every year. He has seen all kinds of men and women who tear their faces for divorce, and one of them impressed him. The divorce was proposed by a man, but the woman didn't agree. After the two people deadlocked for a long time, the woman let go. I thought the divorce procedure was over, but the two people's congresses fought because of 20000 yuan. The reason is that the man borrowed 20000 yuan from the woman's relatives, but the man refused to admit it. In a rage, the woman took the man to court. The court spoke of evidence. She couldn't get a debit note, let alone a transfer record. Finally, she divorced, but the money didn't come back. However, she appealed to the people's court at the next higher level, but still upheld the original judgment. She held a breath in her heart and always wanted to make it perfect. The more rogue the man was, the more she wanted to appeal. For the 20000 yuan, she spent five years not going to work or taking care of her children, and spent all her time and energy on appeal. A lawyer friend said that a woman used to be the account manager of a well-known advertising company with a monthly income of 20000, but because she couldn't swallow this tone, she entangled in this matter all day, and finally lost her job and gave up her life. There is a saying that when you stare at the abyss, the abyss also stares at you. If you are entangled with bad things for a lifetime, you will always live in garbage life. two Li Xuelian in the movie "I'm not Pan Jinlian" is fighting with rotten people all her life. Li Xuelian is a rural woman. In order to have a second child, she discussed a fake divorce with her husband. Unexpectedly, the husband turned the fake divorce into a real divorce and took the opportunity to marry the little girl in the hair salon. Li Xuelian went to court to sue her ex husband, asked her ex husband to divorce and remarry with her, and finally divorced her bastard husband seriously. Of course, she lost the lawsuit. Li Xuelian went to her ex husband to argue. Her ex husband scolded and laughed at her in public, saying that she was not Li Xuelian but Pan Jinlian. Because of this sentence, Li Xuelian decided to sue again. A complaint is more than ten years. A young and beautiful woman can start her life again, but she has been entangled and rotten for a lifetime because of a rotten thing and a rotten person. three Don't get entangled with rotten people and things, and stay away from garbage people is something to be warned of all your life. Sometimes because one doesn't pay attention, it will even be life-threatening. I saw a news before that a female college student in Beijing was raped and killed on the way back to Changping campus from Peking University campus. After the suspect was arrested, the police asked why he raped and killed. The suspect replied that during the ride, the female student and the suspect had a dispute because of the detour. The two people quarreled constantly. The female student pointed to his nose and said: wait, I remember you. Unexpectedly, this is the last sentence she left in the world. Life is precious, but rotten people don't think so. Such a person is full of negative energy, irritable, irritable, hatred, revenge, ignorance and hostility. Because of your word and action, he will take your life. four Last year, near the Wuhan train, Hu had a dispute with the noodle shop owner for 1 yuan. The two people abused each other and quarreled with each other. On impulse, Hu ran into the kitchen, picked up a kitchen knife, cut off the boss's head and threw it into the trash can Actor Liu Jie took her boyfriend to visit her sick grandmother in Kunming traditional Chinese medicine hospital. As a result, she met a drunkard on the first floor. After bumping into them, the drunkard still spoke wildly and swearing. Liu Jie and her boyfriend couldn't help scolding back. As a result, the drunk took out his knife and cut at them. Liu Jie fell to the ground and died on the spot, and her boyfriend's leg was injured. Originally, Liu Jie and her boyfriend had just returned from taking wedding photos from Thailand. The wedding date was approaching, but unexpectedly, there was a gap between yin and Yang. When you meet such a rotten person, you'd rather suffer a loss than stay away from it. Just like people, you were bitten by a dog on the road. Do you have to bite back to relieve your anger? I remember such a thing happened in the early years. I went to the food stall to have a late night snack with several colleagues. The business of the night market is very hot. The table is next to the table and the chair covers the chair. A colleague accidentally ran into the guests at the table next door. The guests were either naked or with tattoos. The colleague apologized. After listening, they said with ridicule, "look at that advice..." After hearing this, several other colleagues were angry and looked at them without showing weakness: "all apologized. What's your attitude!" Just after saying this, all the people at the table stood up and looked at us angrily. When my colleague was ready to say it again, I stopped him: "I'm sorry, my friend didn't mean it just now. You drink well. Let's change places." Then I checked out and took some friends away. Along the way, my colleagues were a little depressed and complained to me: "this kind of person should not be used to him and can't admit counseling." I smiled and said, don't try to reason with these people, because they don't know what reason is. five At any time, don't overestimate the other party's humanity and underestimate your own danger. You reason with your mouth and he kills with his fist. Therefore, do not entangle in bad things and bad people. Arguing with them can only lower your IQ; Talking to them can only lower your level. Don't quarrel with drunken people, avoid those who are full of hostility, and don't always think of taking a breath in case of trouble. The sentence "can't afford to hide" is not timid, but a kind of wisdom. When you are abandoned by the slag man and break up, what you want is not to make trouble in his company, tear him up and retaliate against him, but to leave the slag man quickly and start your new life. When you go to dinner and encounter hooligans whistling at you, what you think is not how to scold them, but you should speed up your pace and don't come to this place of right and wrong in the future. When being slandered and attacked by others, what you want to think is not how to seize their handle and slander them, but to be yourself and strive to get out of this circle as soon as possible. Don't try to be quick, so that bad people have the opportunity to approach you and hurt you. Life is short and time is limited. In your life, you should fall in love with interesting people, marry loved ones, do what you like, live a comfortable life, and not tangle with bad people or bad things.