I often hear many friends complain about various "problems" in life. Later, I simply studied all the "problems". Finally, I came to this conclusion: There are two kinds of problems in the world. The first is called temporary problems, and the other is called permanent problems. For example, when you are eating, you accidentally spilled soy sauce on your clothes and soiled a piece. What is the problem? Of course, it's called a temporary problem, because as soon as you wash the clothes, the problem will be solved, so it's a temporary problem. Since it is temporary, it is not a "problem", do you think so? But what if it doesn't wash off? This becomes a permanent problem. Since it is a permanent problem, is it still a problem? Of course not! So I would like to ask you: is there a problem in life? The answer is: no problem! Yes, it doesn't matter whether things happen well or not. What matters is ideas and opinions. Please imagine that when you were 46 years old, you were burned out of shape by a terrible locomotive accident, and four years later, after a plane crash, you were paralyzed below your waist. What would you do? Later, can you imagine yourself becoming a millionaire, a beloved public speaker, a complacent bridegroom and a successful entrepreneur? Can you imagine yourself going boating, skydiving and competing for a place in politics? Mitchell did it all, even better. After two terrible accidents, his face became a color board due to skin grafting. His fingers were gone, and his legs were so small that he could not move, so he was paralyzed in a wheelchair. The locomotive accident burned more than 65% of his skin. Therefore, he had 16 operations. After the operation, he could not pick up the fork, dial the phone or go to the bathroom alone, but Mitchell, who was a former Marine, never thought he had been defeated. He said: "I can completely control my own boat of life. That is my ups and downs. I can choose to see the current situation as a new starting point. Six months later, he can fly a plane again! " Mitchell bought himself a Victorian house in Colorado, as well as real estate, an airplane and a bar. Later, he and two friends set up a joint venture to produce wood fueled stoves, which later became the second largest private company in Vermont. Four years after the locomotive accident, Mitchell's plane fell back to the runway when taking off, crushing all his 12 vertebrae and paralyzing forever below his waist! "What I don't understand is why these things always happen to me. What evil have I done? Will I suffer such retribution?" Mitchell was still indomitable and worked hard day and night to achieve the highest degree of independence. He was elected mayor of gufengding Town, Colorado, to protect the beauty and environment of the town from being damaged by mineral exploitation. Mitchell later ran for Congress. With the slogan "not just another white face", he reconstituted his ugly face into a favorable asset. Despite his appalling appearance and lack of mobility at first, Mitchell began boating. He fell in love and completed his life. He also received a master of public administration and continued his flying activities, environmental protection campaigns and public speeches. Mitchell's unyielding positive attitude enabled him to appear on the show today and Good Morning America. At the same time, Mitchell's close-up characters were also featured in forward magazine, Time magazine, the New York Times and other publications. Mitchell said: "Before I was paralyzed, I could do 10000 things. Now I can only do 9000. I can focus on the 1000 things I can't do anymore, or on the 9000 things I can do. I tell you that I have suffered two major setbacks in my life. If I can choose not to use setbacks as an excuse to give up my efforts, maybe you can use one Take a new look at some of the experiences that have been holding you back. You can step back and open up a little, and then you have a chance to say, 'maybe that's no big deal!'. We humans all have the nature to give special meaning to encounters. Tend to frame everything around you with past experience. If you can change your habitual cognitive style, you can have greater choices in life. Here you have to remember: cognition is by no means invariable. If we think something is bad for us, we will send this message to our brain, and the result will produce an attitude that is bad for us. If we take the initiative to change the frame, we will have different attitudes towards the original matter.

I often hear many friends complain about various "problems" in life. Later, I simply studied all the "problems". Finally, I came to this conclusion: There are two kinds of problems in the world. The first is called temporary problems, and the other is called permanent problems. For example, when you are eating, you accidentally spilled soy sauce on your clothes and soiled a piece. What is the problem? Of course, it's called a temporary problem, because as soon as you wash the clothes, the problem will be solved, so it's a temporary problem. Since it is temporary, it is not a "problem", do you think so? But what if it doesn't wash off? This becomes a permanent problem. Since it is a permanent problem, is it still a problem? Of course not! So I would like to ask you: is there a problem in life? The answer is: no problem! Yes, it doesn't matter whether things happen well or not. What matters is ideas and opinions. Please imagine that when you were 46 years old, you were burned out of shape by a terrible locomotive accident, and four years later, after a plane crash, you were paralyzed below your waist. What would you do? Later, can you imagine yourself becoming a millionaire, a beloved public speaker, a complacent bridegroom and a successful entrepreneur? Can you imagine yourself going boating, skydiving and competing for a place in politics? Mitchell did it all, even better. After two terrible accidents, his face became a color board due to skin grafting. His fingers were gone, and his legs were so small that he could not move, so he was paralyzed in a wheelchair. The locomotive accident burned more than 65% of his skin. Therefore, he had 16 operations. After the operation, he could not pick up the fork, dial the phone or go to the bathroom alone, but Mitchell, who was a former Marine, never thought he had been defeated. He said: "I can completely control my own boat of life. That is my ups and downs. I can choose to see the current situation as a new starting point. Six months later, he can fly a plane again! " Mitchell bought himself a Victorian house in Colorado, as well as real estate, an airplane and a bar. Later, he and two friends set up a joint venture to produce wood fueled stoves, which later became the second largest private company in Vermont. Four years after the locomotive accident, Mitchell's plane fell back to the runway when taking off, crushing all his 12 vertebrae and paralyzing forever below his waist! "What I don't understand is why these things always happen to me. What evil have I done? Will I suffer such retribution?" Mitchell was still indomitable and worked hard day and night to achieve the highest degree of independence. He was elected mayor of gufengding Town, Colorado, to protect the beauty and environment of the town from being damaged by mineral exploitation. Mitchell later ran for Congress. With the slogan "not just another white face", he reconstituted his ugly face into a favorable asset. Despite his appalling appearance and lack of mobility at first, Mitchell began boating. He fell in love and completed his life. He also received a master of public administration and continued his flying activities, environmental protection campaigns and public speeches. Mitchell's unyielding positive attitude enabled him to appear on the show today and Good Morning America. At the same time, Mitchell's close-up characters were also featured in forward magazine, Time magazine, the New York Times and other publications. Mitchell said: "Before I was paralyzed, I could do 10000 things. Now I can only do 9000. I can focus on the 1000 things I can't do anymore, or on the 9000 things I can do. I tell you that I have suffered two major setbacks in my life. If I can choose not to use setbacks as an excuse to give up my efforts, maybe you can use one Take a new look at some of the experiences that have been holding you back. You can step back and open up a little, and then you have a chance to say, 'maybe that's no big deal!'. We humans all have the nature to give special meaning to encounters. Tend to frame everything around you with past experience. If you can change your habitual cognitive style, you can have greater choices in life. Here you have to remember: cognition is by no means invariable. If we think something is bad for us, we will send this message to our brain, and the result will produce an attitude that is bad for us. If we take the initiative to change the frame, we will have different attitudes towards the original matter.