(I) A young man came to a strange place and met an old man. The young man asked, "how about here?" The old man asked, "how's your hometown?" The young man said, "it's terrible." The old man then said, "then go quickly. It's as bad as your hometown." Another young man asked the same question, and the old man asked the same question. The young man replied, "my hometown is very good, and I miss my hometown very much..." the old man said, "it's also good here." The bystander was surprised and asked the old man why his statements were inconsistent? The old man said, "you will find what you are looking for!" In the eyes of different people, the world will become different. In fact, the star is still that star, and the world is still that world. If you look with appreciation, you will find many beautiful scenery; If you look at it with resentment, you will feel that the world is good for nothing. (II) "The sea embraces all rivers, and tolerance is great". Appreciating others is an open-minded demeanor. No one is perfect. Everyone has his own strengths and weaknesses. In this regard, it is not advisable to belittle oneself and be arrogant. It will only make people become mediocre. Correctly appreciating others will make mediocrity excellent, inferiority strong, depression enterprising and complacency humble. In the spring and Autumn period, Guan Zhong was poor when he was young. In his early years, he made a living by running small businesses with his good friend Bao Shuya. Guan Zhong doesn't have as much capital as Bao Shuya, but when it comes to dividends, he takes his due share and needs to add a little more. Bao Shuya's men scolded Guan Zhong for being insatiable. Bao Shuya defended him that his family had a large population and large expenses, so I voluntarily gave it to him. Guan Zhong is timid and timid, and his soldiers are dissatisfied. However, Bao Shuya said that Guan Zhong's family has an old mother. He cherishes himself in order to serve his mother. He is not really afraid of death. Bao Shuya protects Guan Zhong in every way because he knows Guan Zhong is a rare talent, but he hasn't had the opportunity to show it. Guan Zhong sighed, "it was my parents who gave birth to me, and it was Bao Shuya who knew me!" In this way, they became close friends. Later, with the strong recommendation of Bao Shuya, Guan Zhong became the Prime Minister of the state of Qi and helped Duke Huan of Qi become the head of the five bullies in the spring and Autumn period. Bao Shuya appreciated Guan Zhong and protected him in every way. Even Duke Huan of Qi gave Guan Zhong the important position, but he was willing. It can be seen how generous and open-minded it will be to appreciate others. This is like the fragrant orchid in the valley, which makes people smell more and more fragrant; Steep rock and strong pine make people stronger and stronger. Hugo, a famous French writer, said: "the widest thing in the world is the ocean. What is wider than the ocean is the sky, and what is wider than the sky is the human mind." Let's smile like the sea and stand tall like a mountain. Let's abandon inferiority, conceit and complacency and appreciate others correctly! (III) Some people believe that in the increasingly personalized social communication, "appreciating yourself" has been accepted and applied by more and more people. This is a good thing, because it at least shows that people have begun to pay attention to the value and role of individuals in society, which is conducive to the publicity of personality and the exertion of subjective initiative. However, things tend to turn when they reach the extreme, and "appreciating yourself" will develop into extreme selfishness to a certain extent; (the perception WW of life has developed into arrogance and domineering; it has developed into a personality perversion that "I would rather lose someone than someone else". In this way, "appreciating yourself" will eventually destroy yourself, lose the help of others, and move towards the bleak, lonely and lonely quagmire of life. Learn to appreciate others. Of course, it's best not to be a "Star chaser" or "money chaser", and turn appreciation into worship. The Star chaser can't even find himself. Isn't this "appreciation" very sad? If we are willing to take back our appreciation from those mirage like "galaxies" and look at the people around you who you have never appreciated before, you will find that although they are not as "fried" by the media as stars and tycoons, they still live seriously, work hard and sincerely Dealing with people. The sympathy, concern, smile and mutual help they show in their communication with others are simple and sincere. These people live around you. They are your relatives, friends, colleagues and neighbors. They comfort you and help you when you fail; When you are excited about your success, you will be encouraged and praised; When it rains, they will pull you under the same roof; When the wind blows, they will put on a windbreaker for you to keep out the cold. These are the people you really should appreciate. Perhaps they also have all kinds of shortcomings and deficiencies. When they are worried, they will shout and scold. They also have to talk about other people's strengths and defects behind their backs. They also drink, smoke, play mahjong and have seven emotions and six desires. They are as complex as society is. But who can guarantee that they will not have these "bad habits"? People who really understand the art of communication know how to turn a pile of thick tree roots into works of art with appreciative eyes, and understand that kind criticism may turn demons into beautiful angels. A person who is good at appreciating others rationally will always be appreciated and helped by more people, creating a loose, harmonious and humane interpersonal environment more suitable for personality development. Learning to appreciate others will help you succeed.

(I) A young man came to a strange place and met an old man. The young man asked, "how about here?" The old man asked, "how's your hometown?" The young man said, "it's terrible." The old man then said, "then go quickly. It's as bad as your hometown." Another young man asked the same question, and the old man asked the same question. The young man replied, "my hometown is very good, and I miss my hometown very much..." the old man said, "it's also good here." The bystander was surprised and asked the old man why his statements were inconsistent? The old man said, "you will find what you are looking for!" In the eyes of different people, the world will become different. In fact, the star is still that star, and the world is still that world. If you look with appreciation, you will find many beautiful scenery; If you look at it with resentment, you will feel that the world is good for nothing. (II) "The sea embraces all rivers, and tolerance is great". Appreciating others is an open-minded demeanor. No one is perfect. Everyone has his own strengths and weaknesses. In this regard, it is not advisable to belittle oneself and be arrogant. It will only make people become mediocre. Correctly appreciating others will make mediocrity excellent, inferiority strong, depression enterprising and complacency humble. In the spring and Autumn period, Guan Zhong was poor when he was young. In his early years, he made a living by running small businesses with his good friend Bao Shuya. Guan Zhong doesn't have as much capital as Bao Shuya, but when it comes to dividends, he takes his due share and needs to add a little more. Bao Shuya's men scolded Guan Zhong for being insatiable. Bao Shuya defended him that his family had a large population and large expenses, so I voluntarily gave it to him. Guan Zhong is timid and timid, and his soldiers are dissatisfied. However, Bao Shuya said that Guan Zhong's family has an old mother. He cherishes himself in order to serve his mother. He is not really afraid of death. Bao Shuya protects Guan Zhong in every way because he knows Guan Zhong is a rare talent, but he hasn't had the opportunity to show it. Guan Zhong sighed, "it was my parents who gave birth to me, and it was Bao Shuya who knew me!" In this way, they became close friends. Later, with the strong recommendation of Bao Shuya, Guan Zhong became the Prime Minister of the state of Qi and helped Duke Huan of Qi become the head of the five bullies in the spring and Autumn period. Bao Shuya appreciated Guan Zhong and protected him in every way. Even Duke Huan of Qi gave Guan Zhong the important position, but he was willing. It can be seen how generous and open-minded it will be to appreciate others. This is like the fragrant orchid in the valley, which makes people smell more and more fragrant; Steep rock and strong pine make people stronger and stronger. Hugo, a famous French writer, said: "the widest thing in the world is the ocean. What is wider than the ocean is the sky, and what is wider than the sky is the human mind." Let's smile like the sea and stand tall like a mountain. Let's abandon inferiority, conceit and complacency and appreciate others correctly! (III) Some people believe that in the increasingly personalized social communication, "appreciating yourself" has been accepted and applied by more and more people. This is a good thing, because it at least shows that people have begun to pay attention to the value and role of individuals in society, which is conducive to the publicity of personality and the exertion of subjective initiative. However, things tend to turn when they reach the extreme, and "appreciating yourself" will develop into extreme selfishness to a certain extent; (the perception WW of life has developed into arrogance and domineering; it has developed into a personality perversion that "I would rather lose someone than someone else". In this way, "appreciating yourself" will eventually destroy yourself, lose the help of others, and move towards the bleak, lonely and lonely quagmire of life. Learn to appreciate others. Of course, it's best not to be a "Star chaser" or "money chaser", and turn appreciation into worship. The Star chaser can't even find himself. Isn't this "appreciation" very sad? If we are willing to take back our appreciation from those mirage like "galaxies" and look at the people around you who you have never appreciated before, you will find that although they are not as "fried" by the media as stars and tycoons, they still live seriously, work hard and sincerely Dealing with people. The sympathy, concern, smile and mutual help they show in their communication with others are simple and sincere. These people live around you. They are your relatives, friends, colleagues and neighbors. They comfort you and help you when you fail; When you are excited about your success, you will be encouraged and praised; When it rains, they will pull you under the same roof; When the wind blows, they will put on a windbreaker for you to keep out the cold. These are the people you really should appreciate. Perhaps they also have all kinds of shortcomings and deficiencies. When they are worried, they will shout and scold. They also have to talk about other people's strengths and defects behind their backs. They also drink, smoke, play mahjong and have seven emotions and six desires. They are as complex as society is. But who can guarantee that they will not have these "bad habits"? People who really understand the art of communication know how to turn a pile of thick tree roots into works of art with appreciative eyes, and understand that kind criticism may turn demons into beautiful angels. A person who is good at appreciating others rationally will always be appreciated and helped by more people, creating a loose, harmonious and humane interpersonal environment more suitable for personality development. Learning to appreciate others will help you succeed.