Be frank, not capricious. The difference between the two is that frankness is guided by healthy nature, conforms to the ID, and does not care about utilitarianism, customs and public opinion. Self willed is dominated by wrong emotions, stubborn opinions, unable to listen to the voice of conscience and good advice. On specific occasions, the two are easy to be confused. The general rule is that in the eyes of others, willfulness is often regarded as willfulness, and in their own eyes, willfulness is often regarded as willfulness—— Zhou Guoping Some things, don't say, don't ask, don't mean don't care. There is no reason in the world to change you. What really changes you is your greed, persistence, suspicion and jealousy. Life is a self liberation. No one can give it to anyone. The road of life is tortuous. If you lose your way again, what is waiting for you is another fall. The most sad thing is not the lack of ideal, but the lack of everything except ideal, especially perseverance and ability. Later, you find that the dishes you used to hate are no longer so bad, and the failed relationship has now become the capital of talking. Once you thought you met the most sad barrier in life, and then you found that you were more and more sad next. As long as you turn past midnight, all your experiences during the day will become experiences. So, sometimes you have to have the courage to do one thing and love someone. No matter good or bad, tomorrow will come. Life is a loser's excuse; Luck is the modest word of success. The loser said that his life was bad, but he regretted that he didn't try his best at the beginning; The winner says that his life is good, but he knows the price he will pay. Fate is not a mysterious force, but the fruit of self flowers. You pay how much sweat, fate will give you how much harvest. Don't think about how much fruit you have received, just how much effort you have paid. In life, the harder you work, the luckier you are, the more you gain. Only when the mind is clear can it not be entangled by right and wrong, good and evil; "Good heart" the future of life will be full of light; "Sincere heart" can improve learning and make friends; "Kindness" can make people happy and affectionate, and help all living beings; "Mental determination" will not be disturbed by the outside world and will not be ignorant; Everything is created by idealism, everything is unhappy everywhere, and people's life is influenced by heart all the time. Wisdom is not a lot of experience, nor is it a little smart. Wisdom is more calm, tolerant, forgiving and tolerant. The essence of wisdom is to let stereotypes dissipate faintly. We have a natural inertia, always want to eat the least pain, take the shortest detour and get the greatest benefit. There are some things that others can do for you, but they can't feel for you. Without this mental journey, even if you succeed again, the spiritual field is still deserted. The happiness of success and the satisfaction of harvest are not the end of struggle, but in the process of struggle. You should go your own way. Experience is a wealth that others can't take away. Remember, adversity is not an end, but a corner of a better outcome. Don't wait for the wrong person, don't hurt the wrong heart. Some people are destined to be passers-by in life. It is a pity to meet the right person at the wrong time. This is life. Let regret become regret. If you know how to let go, you will get a lifetime of ease; Some things often make us helpless, so don't tangle with the facts that have happened. What happened is right. If you look down on everything and look open, you will have less pain and trouble. In the past, I was so simple that I couldn't sink when I had something to do. When I had fun, I immediately took it out to share, and when I was sad, I also took it out to talk. However, the response is often "ha ha", or cold and painless, so I slowly learned to be silent. Life is a meeting. It's fate to meet anyone at any time. As long as you meet, you're right. (www.lz13. CN) no matter what happens, you are not wrong, he is not wrong, the world of mortals is not wrong, and time is not wrong. We have no right to ask how noble and kind others are. We can only keep ourselves from deviating from kindness and harming others, and live a friendly life, a gentle life and a sincere life. The truth of elders and books is basically correct. You will think of it only when you are broken and bleeding. Living every day well is the greatest happiness. Happiness comes from the good feeling every day. If you always worry about the risks of tomorrow and can't erase the shadow of yesterday, how can you be happy today? Always compare those who can't be compared, always fantasize about those who can't be realized, how can today's mind be quiet? Anything unrealistic is the source of pain. The biggest killer of life is sadness and anxiety. Pain comes from emptiness. If you live a full life, you won't think nonsense! Don't allow people in high joy, and don't answer people's letters in high anger. Words of joy often break faith, and words of anger often lose body--- Master Hongyi You have a bad temper and are easy to jump when you encounter something. You are the king of your own world. You can't learn anything well, but you are domineering and self-taught. You are sentimental. Your dull enthusiasm in your bones is impulsive. These large and small shortcomings make you hated by some people, but you have never changed and don't care, because you know that it is because of your true self, To be loved by the people who stay around now. Only those who do not avoid pain and confusion are qualified to talk about optimism and firmness. Fate will not treat anyone well, nor will sorrow and joy be prepared for you alone.

Be frank, not capricious. The difference between the two is that frankness is guided by healthy nature, conforms to the ID, and does not care about utilitarianism, customs and public opinion. Self willed is dominated by wrong emotions, stubborn opinions, unable to listen to the voice of conscience and good advice. On specific occasions, the two are easy to be confused. The general rule is that in the eyes of others, willfulness is often regarded as willfulness, and in their own eyes, willfulness is often regarded as willfulness—— Zhou Guoping Some things, don't say, don't ask, don't mean don't care. There is no reason in the world to change you. What really changes you is your greed, persistence, suspicion and jealousy. Life is a self liberation. No one can give it to anyone. The road of life is tortuous. If you lose your way again, what is waiting for you is another fall. The most sad thing is not the lack of ideal, but the lack of everything except ideal, especially perseverance and ability. Later, you find that the dishes you used to hate are no longer so bad, and the failed relationship has now become the capital of talking. Once you thought you met the most sad barrier in life, and then you found that you were more and more sad next. As long as you turn past midnight, all your experiences during the day will become experiences. So, sometimes you have to have the courage to do one thing and love someone. No matter good or bad, tomorrow will come. Life is a loser's excuse; Luck is the modest word of success. The loser said that his life was bad, but he regretted that he didn't try his best at the beginning; The winner says that his life is good, but he knows the price he will pay. Fate is not a mysterious force, but the fruit of self flowers. You pay how much sweat, fate will give you how much harvest. Don't think about how much fruit you have received, just how much effort you have paid. In life, the harder you work, the luckier you are, the more you gain. Only when the mind is clear can it not be entangled by right and wrong, good and evil; "Good heart" the future of life will be full of light; "Sincere heart" can improve learning and make friends; "Kindness" can make people happy and affectionate, and help all living beings; "Mental determination" will not be disturbed by the outside world and will not be ignorant; Everything is created by idealism, everything is unhappy everywhere, and people's life is influenced by heart all the time. Wisdom is not a lot of experience, nor is it a little smart. Wisdom is more calm, tolerant, forgiving and tolerant. The essence of wisdom is to let stereotypes dissipate faintly. We have a natural inertia, always want to eat the least pain, take the shortest detour and get the greatest benefit. There are some things that others can do for you, but they can't feel for you. Without this mental journey, even if you succeed again, the spiritual field is still deserted. The happiness of success and the satisfaction of harvest are not the end of struggle, but in the process of struggle. You should go your own way. Experience is a wealth that others can't take away. Remember, adversity is not an end, but a corner of a better outcome. Don't wait for the wrong person, don't hurt the wrong heart. Some people are destined to be passers-by in life. It is a pity to meet the right person at the wrong time. This is life. Let regret become regret. If you know how to let go, you will get a lifetime of ease; Some things often make us helpless, so don't tangle with the facts that have happened. What happened is right. If you look down on everything and look open, you will have less pain and trouble. In the past, I was so simple that I couldn't sink when I had something to do. When I had fun, I immediately took it out to share, and when I was sad, I also took it out to talk. However, the response is often "ha ha", or cold and painless, so I slowly learned to be silent. Life is a meeting. It's fate to meet anyone at any time. As long as you meet, you're right. (www.lz13. CN) no matter what happens, you are not wrong, he is not wrong, the world of mortals is not wrong, and time is not wrong. We have no right to ask how noble and kind others are. We can only keep ourselves from deviating from kindness and harming others, and live a friendly life, a gentle life and a sincere life. The truth of elders and books is basically correct. You will think of it only when you are broken and bleeding. Living every day well is the greatest happiness. Happiness comes from the good feeling every day. If you always worry about the risks of tomorrow and can't erase the shadow of yesterday, how can you be happy today? Always compare those who can't be compared, always fantasize about those who can't be realized, how can today's mind be quiet? Anything unrealistic is the source of pain. The biggest killer of life is sadness and anxiety. Pain comes from emptiness. If you live a full life, you won't think nonsense! Don't allow people in high joy, and don't answer people's letters in high anger. Words of joy often break faith, and words of anger often lose body--- Master Hongyi You have a bad temper and are easy to jump when you encounter something. You are the king of your own world. You can't learn anything well, but you are domineering and self-taught. You are sentimental. Your dull enthusiasm in your bones is impulsive. These large and small shortcomings make you hated by some people, but you have never changed and don't care, because you know that it is because of your true self, To be loved by the people who stay around now. Only those who do not avoid pain and confusion are qualified to talk about optimism and firmness. Fate will not treat anyone well, nor will sorrow and joy be prepared for you alone.