There are so many ways of love in the world, but what you said about the oath of eternal love until death is not as real as "avoiding inferiority complex". one Grandma was only fourteen when she married Grandpa. A gold bracelet and a pair of gold earrings put two minors together. Grandma died at the end of 13. Grandpa and I saw her off. The old man was devastated and lost control several times before the holy throne. Grandpa talked about things before and grandma. Their marriage can be divided into two stages. One is before I don't recognize my grandmother, and the other is after I recognize my grandmother. As mentioned earlier, grandma married Grandpa at the age of 14. At that time, Grandpa was the son of the landlord and the childe brother of the village. At that time, he glanced at the poor dowry of his grandmother's family and determined that the other party must have come from a poor family. But grandpa didn't dare not obey the orders of his parents and the words of the matchmaker. It's hard to imagine how feudal the social atmosphere was when two immature children came together. After marriage, Grandpa was lawless and wandered around all day. When he was young, he loved night fishing and often took a group of men and women fishing for a few days and nights. Grandma was timid by nature and didn't dare to say anything. She had to bear it and try her best to serve Grandpa. At that time, Grandpa said that he was trying to lower grandma into the dust. Of course, there is no so-called abuse or domestic violence, and grandpa is not like that. His way is very unique, that is, cold violence and ubiquitous sarcasm. It's ironic that grandma won't give up until she has tears. How bad did you say he was when he was young. And grandma still loves grandpa and doesn't want to humiliate men. Every time the couple attended an important wedding and funeral banquet, grandma prepared the clothes and jewelry carefully. Once, because of the full moon wine of her grandfather's and sister's children, she worked a month in advance and saved money to cut new clothes. In short, no matter how sad people are, they always want scenery in front of them. My grandfather is handsome and my grandmother has beautiful facial features. When they were young, they were solid facade. The love in front of people is a good story for miles around. Until many years later, grandma gave birth to a son for Grandpa, my uncle. When grandma was pregnant, her family came to visit her. Grandpa found that grandma was born rich and even more graceful than himself. This time, Grandpa suddenly realized and asked grandma why she didn't say her identity? He asked people inside and outside why he didn't tell him that his wife was not a poor family. But who knows that? You don't even know as a husband. How do outsiders know? The neighbors who once bullied grandma are also alert. They are all thinking, will she take the opportunity to revenge for robbing her several cabbages last time? But Grandma didn't, but she continued to love grandpa silently. Grandpa said that his grandmother said a word that he would remember all his life. Grandma said that not letting her men feel inferior is the least love of a woman. When I heard this, I was young and didn't understand the reason. And until I graduated from college to work, one thing in my circle of friends made me fully understand this truth. two Swallow is one of the people I know, and the conditions are very good in all aspects. But her husband is not a phoenix man. On the contrary, the man comes from a third tier small city and eats subsistence allowances at home. It was not easy for him to go to college. It was still a second book. This is a big gap from the swallow whose parents are university professors and graduated from a famous 985. Man, I've met a gentle man. Probably because of his birth conditions, he is very quiet in many times. I remember a time when I went to the Hyatt classmate party, when the swallow took him into the banquet hall with full crystal ceiling, when all the men in the room were dressed in suits and leather shoes, while myself, my blue shirts were wrinkled and my white pants were washed white. These shoes on the feet are still swallows. Compared with those men of high temperament, the swallow husband is just like a misfits woodlouse. At that time, I saw swallows, but they were also clean. There are no other women who paint and wear the stars and the moon. But like her husband, a simple dress, although it is not temperament, but it makes people's eyes very comfortable. A female classmate was unfair for her and said, "Alas, how did the swallow become so old-fashioned after marriage? When saying this, she couldn't help looking at her husband, as if she were saying" the husband has no money and the wife suffers ". The swallow did not explain, but smiled lightly. Afterwards, I told her that I believe you can be the Super Queen of the whole audience with your conditions, but you don't. You are willing to be a Cinderella, dress simply and attend such a tall party. The swallow said, I just don't want to make him feel inferior. The best way to like a person is not to make him feel inferior. At that time, I understood what my grandfather said to me in front of my grandmother's holy throne. I understand that no matter how the times change, no matter how many vicissitudes you promise, when you have not given enough time to die and the sea withers and rocks rot, well, if you love someone, don't let him feel inferior. Later, I heard a friend who studied philosophy say that everyone is an individual. If there is an individual, there will be a gap, and if there is a gap, there will be a way to solve the gap. I think this quote to the first two stories is just a subtle love from one side to the other. Grandma loves Grandpa, so even if she is rich and noble, she will only be a woman who keeps her responsibilities. Swallows love their husbands, so even if they can be noble and gorgeous, they are willing to abandon beauty and become an unknown woman behind men. three I also remembered a little story about the trivia between husband and wife. The wife exposed her husband's shortcomings in front of her face to make the other party lose face. Then the marriage lasted nearly six months, and it was gone. Of course, let a person not feel inferior, not just external things. How many grievances and heartaches do you have when you close the door? Don't let the "psychological gap" between you go farther and farther because of the quickness of the moment. Love is worth praising because of its swaying style and thousands of gestures. What is the collapse of the mountains and the earth, the withered sea and the rotten rocks, what is unswerving and inseparable until death, what is holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son. If you want me to say that the best way to love someone, please don't let TA feel inferior.

There are so many ways of love in the world, but what you said about the oath of eternal love until death is not as real as "avoiding inferiority complex". one Grandma was only fourteen when she married Grandpa. A gold bracelet and a pair of gold earrings put two minors together. Grandma died at the end of 13. Grandpa and I saw her off. The old man was devastated and lost control several times before the holy throne. Grandpa talked about things before and grandma. Their marriage can be divided into two stages. One is before I don't recognize my grandmother, and the other is after I recognize my grandmother. As mentioned earlier, grandma married Grandpa at the age of 14. At that time, Grandpa was the son of the landlord and the childe brother of the village. At that time, he glanced at the poor dowry of his grandmother's family and determined that the other party must have come from a poor family. But grandpa didn't dare not obey the orders of his parents and the words of the matchmaker. It's hard to imagine how feudal the social atmosphere was when two immature children came together. After marriage, Grandpa was lawless and wandered around all day. When he was young, he loved night fishing and often took a group of men and women fishing for a few days and nights. Grandma was timid by nature and didn't dare to say anything. She had to bear it and try her best to serve Grandpa. At that time, Grandpa said that he was trying to lower grandma into the dust. Of course, there is no so-called abuse or domestic violence, and grandpa is not like that. His way is very unique, that is, cold violence and ubiquitous sarcasm. It's ironic that grandma won't give up until she has tears. How bad did you say he was when he was young. And grandma still loves grandpa and doesn't want to humiliate men. Every time the couple attended an important wedding and funeral banquet, grandma prepared the clothes and jewelry carefully. Once, because of the full moon wine of her grandfather's and sister's children, she worked a month in advance and saved money to cut new clothes. In short, no matter how sad people are, they always want scenery in front of them. My grandfather is handsome and my grandmother has beautiful facial features. When they were young, they were solid facade. The love in front of people is a good story for miles around. Until many years later, grandma gave birth to a son for Grandpa, my uncle. When grandma was pregnant, her family came to visit her. Grandpa found that grandma was born rich and even more graceful than himself. This time, Grandpa suddenly realized and asked grandma why she didn't say her identity? He asked people inside and outside why he didn't tell him that his wife was not a poor family. But who knows that? You don't even know as a husband. How do outsiders know? The neighbors who once bullied grandma are also alert. They are all thinking, will she take the opportunity to revenge for robbing her several cabbages last time? But Grandma didn't, but she continued to love grandpa silently. Grandpa said that his grandmother said a word that he would remember all his life. Grandma said that not letting her men feel inferior is the least love of a woman. When I heard this, I was young and didn't understand the reason. And until I graduated from college to work, one thing in my circle of friends made me fully understand this truth. two Swallow is one of the people I know, and the conditions are very good in all aspects. But her husband is not a phoenix man. On the contrary, the man comes from a third tier small city and eats subsistence allowances at home. It was not easy for him to go to college. It was still a second book. This is a big gap from the swallow whose parents are university professors and graduated from a famous 985. Man, I've met a gentle man. Probably because of his birth conditions, he is very quiet in many times. I remember a time when I went to the Hyatt classmate party, when the swallow took him into the banquet hall with full crystal ceiling, when all the men in the room were dressed in suits and leather shoes, while myself, my blue shirts were wrinkled and my white pants were washed white. These shoes on the feet are still swallows. Compared with those men of high temperament, the swallow husband is just like a misfits woodlouse. At that time, I saw swallows, but they were also clean. There are no other women who paint and wear the stars and the moon. But like her husband, a simple dress, although it is not temperament, but it makes people's eyes very comfortable. A female classmate was unfair for her and said, "Alas, how did the swallow become so old-fashioned after marriage? When saying this, she couldn't help looking at her husband, as if she were saying" the husband has no money and the wife suffers ". The swallow did not explain, but smiled lightly. Afterwards, I told her that I believe you can be the Super Queen of the whole audience with your conditions, but you don't. You are willing to be a Cinderella, dress simply and attend such a tall party. The swallow said, I just don't want to make him feel inferior. The best way to like a person is not to make him feel inferior. At that time, I understood what my grandfather said to me in front of my grandmother's holy throne. I understand that no matter how the times change, no matter how many vicissitudes you promise, when you have not given enough time to die and the sea withers and rocks rot, well, if you love someone, don't let him feel inferior. Later, I heard a friend who studied philosophy say that everyone is an individual. If there is an individual, there will be a gap, and if there is a gap, there will be a way to solve the gap. I think this quote to the first two stories is just a subtle love from one side to the other. Grandma loves Grandpa, so even if she is rich and noble, she will only be a woman who keeps her responsibilities. Swallows love their husbands, so even if they can be noble and gorgeous, they are willing to abandon beauty and become an unknown woman behind men. three I also remembered a little story about the trivia between husband and wife. The wife exposed her husband's shortcomings in front of her face to make the other party lose face. Then the marriage lasted nearly six months, and it was gone. Of course, let a person not feel inferior, not just external things. How many grievances and heartaches do you have when you close the door? Don't let the "psychological gap" between you go farther and farther because of the quickness of the moment. Love is worth praising because of its swaying style and thousands of gestures. What is the collapse of the mountains and the earth, the withered sea and the rotten rocks, what is unswerving and inseparable until death, what is holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son. If you want me to say that the best way to love someone, please don't let TA feel inferior.