When I was a child, there was a neighbor in the village where I lived, Aunt Liu, who was super capable. She ran a cotton shop. She got up at 5 a.m. to work in the shop and didn't go home until 10 p.m. Her hands are also clever and she looks good at everything. Every time my mother changes clothes and quilts from her, she comes back full of praise. At that time, there were about six or seven cotton shops in the town, and her family was the most popular. So smart and capable, you should have a good life, right? But no. Her family's house is in a dilapidated condition, the window glass is never complete, and the food and clothing are far less than those of ordinary people. She has always wanted to change a bigger shop, but she has never been able to do so. If I remember correctly, her family has always been in debt. It's strange that every time she saves money to pay off her debt, she will spend more money. Her family is stolen, her husband is in a car accident, her son makes trouble and breaks her classmates, and she goes to see a doctor for her serious illness People say it's evil every time she goes home. A fortune teller said that although she had good fortune, she was too fierce and easy to lose money, so she was destined to have a bad life. When I was young, I couldn't figure out why such a clever, hardworking, thrifty and frugal person had such a miserable life. 01 It was not until I came home on holidays this year that I heard my mother say that Aunt Liu's son was jailed for theft. She asked for help everywhere, but it didn't help. Many past events reappeared before I finally understood something. Her son was also very smart when he was a child, but he didn't like learning. He often skipped classes and hardly did his homework. He was a problem child in the eyes of teachers. The teacher asked Aunt Liu to go to school to communicate. She said there was a pile of work waiting in the store and she couldn't go. When the teacher visited her home, she was never at home. Once, the teacher waited until more than 10 p.m. and repeatedly told her to take good care of her children. She promised, but the next day the child was still asleep and left. The child didn't come back until he fell asleep. Her husband is out all year round. It is conceivable that a child who is out of the control of his parents will grow up at will and finally grow into what kind of child? In fact, there are traces of other so-called "money breaking" things in her family: The lock at home was broken, so she neglected to repair it, so she hired a thief; She is too tired to eat, so she has a bad stomach, eyes, waist and joints After thinking carefully, I found that Aunt Liu's hard life was not because of the fierce eight characters, but because she only focused on the present and ignored the long-term. The so-called people without foresight must have immediate worries. If a person is short-sighted, his life will not be very good. 02 Yesterday, I had dinner with my friends and talked about my dog. The friend asked suspiciously: you see, you are busy working all day during the day. After working for more than half an hour, I came home tired and hungry and had to take care of the dog. Aren't you tired? If you raise it, you have to bathe it, give her an injection, trim her hair, and buy dog food regularly. It's troublesome and expensive. How can you have such time and energy. "I feel it's hard for me to support myself. How can I have the time and energy to support it!" The friend laughed and laughed at himself. I smiled and said: I think it's a lack of patience. I also need to improve my sense of responsibility. So I want to have a dog. Since I have this dog, I can't turn a blind eye to it, so I have to take responsibility for it. He joked: "don't tell me. I really feel that raising a dog is the same as raising a child from the small matter of raising a dog. Now how do I treat it? It's likely that I will treat my future children with what attitude." The dog made a mess at home when he went out. The protagonist of this matter is likely to be his own child in the future. Do you throw the child out because of anger? Raising a dog improves my patience, cultivates my sense of responsibility, enriches my life and adds a temperature to my life. This matter may be of great help to me in the future. I'm preparing for the rain. I joked. In fact, life is also testing a person's ability to control energy and distribution. Some things are very important, but because he is not urgent, we can easily ignore it. It doesn't seem urgent to exercise and maintain your body. If you don't do it, you will eventually fall ill, painful, expensive and energy-consuming. It doesn't seem urgent to educate and train children. If you don't do it, you can't recover how much money you earn if your children don't follow the right path in the end. Fire prevention is easy, but fire fighting is difficult. If you only focus on fire fighting all day and don't spend time on fire prevention, it is estimated that you will always be anxious, anxious and unhappy in your life. Don't be held back by things that seem to have to be done at the moment but are not really useful. Make more time to do long-term and real events, read, exercise, plan the future, improve skills and educate children... In this way, life will be better and easier. 03 In fact, there are basically four things we face every day in life: Arrange these four things, life will be better and better. Urgent and important things, such as writing a graduation thesis, going to the hospital when you are seriously ill, and the leaders call you to talk about things, must be done at the first time, and we all understand. Things that are neither urgent nor important, such as listening to songs, chasing dramas and playing games, are the least important compared with other things. Naturally, we will put it last. Of course, whether you can do it or not is another matter. But what confuses us most is the order of "urgent not important" and "important not urgent". Urgent and unimportant matters, such as sudden invitations from friends, visits from strangers, work to be handled at hand, etc. Important but not urgent things, such as reading, exercising, improving skills, educating children, etc. In life, we tend to reverse the importance of the two. Most of the time, we are Aunt Liu. We put down the important and unimportant things and do the urgent and unimportant things. It seems reasonable to say: with so much work to do at hand, guests will come to pick up clothes in a moment. How can you have time to exercise and do homework with your children? But the fact is that if you are held up by urgent things and ignore important things, the important things will become particularly important and urgent sooner or later, so that you have to pay a much higher price to make up for it, and it may not be able to make up for it. I think this is the best interpretation of "people have no foresight, there must be immediate worries". There is a classic dialogue in the killer is not too cold: The little girl Mathilda looked at Leon with an unrequited and expectant look and asked, "is life always so hard, or is it just like childhood?" "It's always so hard," Lyon affirmed. Yes, whose circle of friends is not quiet, whose life is not a chicken feather. Since life is always like this, should we let life tease us and drift with the tide? I don't think so. If we live such a casual life, let it berth and cross without modification. Then we can only float like duckweed in the water without direction. How can a ship without a target find the post station it wants to stop? If there is no light in the heart, how can the darkness in life fade away? It is precisely because we have hopes for life that we will move towards that goal. Mr. Russell once said, "for people, an unprincipled life is not worth living." I feel that it is irresponsible to live by Podu. And I dare to let the leaves fall and the duckweed float away, because I'm afraid that in the future, I will look down on myself now.

When I was a child, there was a neighbor in the village where I lived, Aunt Liu, who was super capable. She ran a cotton shop. She got up at 5 a.m. to work in the shop and didn't go home until 10 p.m. Her hands are also clever and she looks good at everything. Every time my mother changes clothes and quilts from her, she comes back full of praise. At that time, there were about six or seven cotton shops in the town, and her family was the most popular. So smart and capable, you should have a good life, right? But no. Her family's house is in a dilapidated condition, the window glass is never complete, and the food and clothing are far less than those of ordinary people. She has always wanted to change a bigger shop, but she has never been able to do so. If I remember correctly, her family has always been in debt. It's strange that every time she saves money to pay off her debt, she will spend more money. Her family is stolen, her husband is in a car accident, her son makes trouble and breaks her classmates, and she goes to see a doctor for her serious illness People say it's evil every time she goes home. A fortune teller said that although she had good fortune, she was too fierce and easy to lose money, so she was destined to have a bad life. When I was young, I couldn't figure out why such a clever, hardworking, thrifty and frugal person had such a miserable life. 01 It was not until I came home on holidays this year that I heard my mother say that Aunt Liu's son was jailed for theft. She asked for help everywhere, but it didn't help. Many past events reappeared before I finally understood something. Her son was also very smart when he was a child, but he didn't like learning. He often skipped classes and hardly did his homework. He was a problem child in the eyes of teachers. The teacher asked Aunt Liu to go to school to communicate. She said there was a pile of work waiting in the store and she couldn't go. When the teacher visited her home, she was never at home. Once, the teacher waited until more than 10 p.m. and repeatedly told her to take good care of her children. She promised, but the next day the child was still asleep and left. The child didn't come back until he fell asleep. Her husband is out all year round. It is conceivable that a child who is out of the control of his parents will grow up at will and finally grow into what kind of child? In fact, there are traces of other so-called "money breaking" things in her family: The lock at home was broken, so she neglected to repair it, so she hired a thief; She is too tired to eat, so she has a bad stomach, eyes, waist and joints After thinking carefully, I found that Aunt Liu's hard life was not because of the fierce eight characters, but because she only focused on the present and ignored the long-term. The so-called people without foresight must have immediate worries. If a person is short-sighted, his life will not be very good. 02 Yesterday, I had dinner with my friends and talked about my dog. The friend asked suspiciously: you see, you are busy working all day during the day. After working for more than half an hour, I came home tired and hungry and had to take care of the dog. Aren't you tired? If you raise it, you have to bathe it, give her an injection, trim her hair, and buy dog food regularly. It's troublesome and expensive. How can you have such time and energy. "I feel it's hard for me to support myself. How can I have the time and energy to support it!" The friend laughed and laughed at himself. I smiled and said: I think it's a lack of patience. I also need to improve my sense of responsibility. So I want to have a dog. Since I have this dog, I can't turn a blind eye to it, so I have to take responsibility for it. He joked: "don't tell me. I really feel that raising a dog is the same as raising a child from the small matter of raising a dog. Now how do I treat it? It's likely that I will treat my future children with what attitude." The dog made a mess at home when he went out. The protagonist of this matter is likely to be his own child in the future. Do you throw the child out because of anger? Raising a dog improves my patience, cultivates my sense of responsibility, enriches my life and adds a temperature to my life. This matter may be of great help to me in the future. I'm preparing for the rain. I joked. In fact, life is also testing a person's ability to control energy and distribution. Some things are very important, but because he is not urgent, we can easily ignore it. It doesn't seem urgent to exercise and maintain your body. If you don't do it, you will eventually fall ill, painful, expensive and energy-consuming. It doesn't seem urgent to educate and train children. If you don't do it, you can't recover how much money you earn if your children don't follow the right path in the end. Fire prevention is easy, but fire fighting is difficult. If you only focus on fire fighting all day and don't spend time on fire prevention, it is estimated that you will always be anxious, anxious and unhappy in your life. Don't be held back by things that seem to have to be done at the moment but are not really useful. Make more time to do long-term and real events, read, exercise, plan the future, improve skills and educate children... In this way, life will be better and easier. 03 In fact, there are basically four things we face every day in life: Arrange these four things, life will be better and better. Urgent and important things, such as writing a graduation thesis, going to the hospital when you are seriously ill, and the leaders call you to talk about things, must be done at the first time, and we all understand. Things that are neither urgent nor important, such as listening to songs, chasing dramas and playing games, are the least important compared with other things. Naturally, we will put it last. Of course, whether you can do it or not is another matter. But what confuses us most is the order of "urgent not important" and "important not urgent". Urgent and unimportant matters, such as sudden invitations from friends, visits from strangers, work to be handled at hand, etc. Important but not urgent things, such as reading, exercising, improving skills, educating children, etc. In life, we tend to reverse the importance of the two. Most of the time, we are Aunt Liu. We put down the important and unimportant things and do the urgent and unimportant things. It seems reasonable to say: with so much work to do at hand, guests will come to pick up clothes in a moment. How can you have time to exercise and do homework with your children? But the fact is that if you are held up by urgent things and ignore important things, the important things will become particularly important and urgent sooner or later, so that you have to pay a much higher price to make up for it, and it may not be able to make up for it. I think this is the best interpretation of "people have no foresight, there must be immediate worries". There is a classic dialogue in the killer is not too cold: The little girl Mathilda looked at Leon with an unrequited and expectant look and asked, "is life always so hard, or is it just like childhood?" "It's always so hard," Lyon affirmed. Yes, whose circle of friends is not quiet, whose life is not a chicken feather. Since life is always like this, should we let life tease us and drift with the tide? I don't think so. If we live such a casual life, let it berth and cross without modification. Then we can only float like duckweed in the water without direction. How can a ship without a target find the post station it wants to stop? If there is no light in the heart, how can the darkness in life fade away? It is precisely because we have hopes for life that we will move towards that goal. Mr. Russell once said, "for people, an unprincipled life is not worth living." I feel that it is irresponsible to live by Podu. And I dare to let the leaves fall and the duckweed float away, because I'm afraid that in the future, I will look down on myself now.