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People, the greatest accomplishment is to learn to respect. Respect is not a mere yes or gratuitous praise, nor is it a flattery. True respect is to take the other party seriously from the heart. It is a natural expression of involuntarily noble personality.
The higher the level of people, the more they know how to respect others At a banquet, the famous American satirist Mark Twain met a rich man and his wife. Out of politeness, Mark Twain complimented the rich man's wife and said, "madam, you are so beautiful!" Unexpectedly, the rich man's wife glanced at Mark Twain and said arrogantly, "I'm sorry I can't answer you in the same words." Mark Twain, a sharp witted man with sharp words, smiled and replied, "it doesn't matter. You can lie like me." How you define others reflects your own accomplishments. The higher the level of people, the more they know how to respect others. In fact, in life, such irrationality happens from time to time, but sometimes it is not so obvious. You and I are all mortals. We have no right to despise and laugh at others with an arrogant attitude. Arrogance and rudeness will hurt others' face, ridicule and despise, and hurt others' self-esteem. Only those who know how to respect, are not aggressive, have appropriate and intimate language, and are worthy of communication. Being with them, like smelling faint orchids and seeing green mountains in spring, is always comfortable and warm.
Respecting others is actually honoring yourself Su Shi is a great talent and Foyin is an eminent monk. They often meditate and meditate together. Su Shi is sometimes very happy to take advantage and likes to talk to his talented sister Su Xiaomei. One day, they meditated together again. Su Shi asked: Master, what do you think I look like? Buddha seal said: I think you look like a Buddha. Su Shi laughed and said to the Buddha seal: do you know what I think you look like sitting there? It's like a pool of cow dung. This time, the Buddha seal was dumb again. Su Shi showed it off to his little sister when he came home. Su Xiaomei said to her brother, you're a savvy person who still participates in Zen. Do you know what people who participate in Zen pay most attention to? Is to see the heart and see the sex, you have eyes in your heart. Buddha seal says that if you look like a Buddha, it means that he has a Buddha in his heart; You say the Buddha seal is like cow dung. Think about what you have in mind! Looking at people is like looking in a mirror. What you see is yourself. The world will see you as you see the world. What you are, what your world is. Those who do not respect others first do not respect themselves.
True respect is recognition and understanding of others After Zhuge Liang died, Jiang Wan took office and presided over the government. Jiang Wan has a subordinate named Yang Xi, who is withdrawn and slow in speech. Every time Jiang Wan talks to him, he should not answer. Someone couldn't stand it, so he muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "Yang Xi is so disrespectful to you!" Jiang Wan smiled frankly and said, "people have their own temperaments and temperament. It's not his nature to let Yang Xi praise me face to face; if he told me I'm not in front of everyone, he would think I can't stand down. Therefore, he had to keep quiet. In fact, this is the value of him." Everyone is an independent individual. For everything, learn to be tolerant, understand and treat each decision of others in good faith. This is the greatest respect. As Kant, a classical German philosopher, said: I respect any independent soul. Although I don't recognize some, I can understand them as much as possible.
Respect can reflect a person's character. When you raise your hands and feet, when you look at each other, it is also in every word you say. Miss Gong er said such a passage in the film "a generation of masters", In this life, people should see all living beings, heaven and earth and themselves. See all living beings, understand the appearance of all living beings, so be tolerant; Seeing heaven and earth, I feel great and small, so I am humble; See yourself, feel the ID and true self, so open-minded. A person who really knows how to respect others must be a tolerant, humble and open-minded person. Such a person will always make people feel warm, just like the air after the rain, fresh and natural, more like a friend for many years, easy to take heart! Those who win people's hearts will be supported by others. Those who are recognized will have good luck!
People, the greatest accomplishment is to learn to respect. Respect is not a mere yes or gratuitous praise, nor is it a flattery. True respect is to take the other party seriously from the heart. It is a natural expression of involuntarily noble personality.
The higher the level of people, the more they know how to respect others At a banquet, the famous American satirist Mark Twain met a rich man and his wife. Out of politeness, Mark Twain complimented the rich man's wife and said, "madam, you are so beautiful!" Unexpectedly, the rich man's wife glanced at Mark Twain and said arrogantly, "I'm sorry I can't answer you in the same words." Mark Twain, a sharp witted man with sharp words, smiled and replied, "it doesn't matter. You can lie like me." How you define others reflects your own accomplishments. The higher the level of people, the more they know how to respect others. In fact, in life, such irrationality happens from time to time, but sometimes it is not so obvious. You and I are all mortals. We have no right to despise and laugh at others with an arrogant attitude. Arrogance and rudeness will hurt others' face, ridicule and despise, and hurt others' self-esteem. Only those who know how to respect, are not aggressive, have appropriate and intimate language, and are worthy of communication. Being with them, like smelling faint orchids and seeing green mountains in spring, is always comfortable and warm.
Respecting others is actually honoring yourself Su Shi is a great talent and Foyin is an eminent monk. They often meditate and meditate together. Su Shi is sometimes very happy to take advantage and likes to talk to his talented sister Su Xiaomei. One day, they meditated together again. Su Shi asked: Master, what do you think I look like? Buddha seal said: I think you look like a Buddha. Su Shi laughed and said to the Buddha seal: do you know what I think you look like sitting there? It's like a pool of cow dung. This time, the Buddha seal was dumb again. Su Shi showed it off to his little sister when he came home. Su Xiaomei said to her brother, you're a savvy person who still participates in Zen. Do you know what people who participate in Zen pay most attention to? Is to see the heart and see the sex, you have eyes in your heart. Buddha seal says that if you look like a Buddha, it means that he has a Buddha in his heart; You say the Buddha seal is like cow dung. Think about what you have in mind! Looking at people is like looking in a mirror. What you see is yourself. The world will see you as you see the world. What you are, what your world is. Those who do not respect others first do not respect themselves.
True respect is recognition and understanding of others After Zhuge Liang died, Jiang Wan took office and presided over the government. Jiang Wan has a subordinate named Yang Xi, who is withdrawn and slow in speech. Every time Jiang Wan talks to him, he should not answer. Someone couldn't stand it, so he muttered in front of Jiang Wan: "Yang Xi is so disrespectful to you!" Jiang Wan smiled frankly and said, "people have their own temperaments and temperament. It's not his nature to let Yang Xi praise me face to face; if he told me I'm not in front of everyone, he would think I can't stand down. Therefore, he had to keep quiet. In fact, this is the value of him." Everyone is an independent individual. For everything, learn to be tolerant, understand and treat each decision of others in good faith. This is the greatest respect. As Kant, a classical German philosopher, said: I respect any independent soul. Although I don't recognize some, I can understand them as much as possible.
Respect can reflect a person's character. When you raise your hands and feet, when you look at each other, it is also in every word you say. Miss Gong er said such a passage in the film "a generation of masters", In this life, people should see all living beings, heaven and earth and themselves. See all living beings, understand the appearance of all living beings, so be tolerant; Seeing heaven and earth, I feel great and small, so I am humble; See yourself, feel the ID and true self, so open-minded. A person who really knows how to respect others must be a tolerant, humble and open-minded person. Such a person will always make people feel warm, just like the air after the rain, fresh and natural, more like a friend for many years, easy to take heart! Those who win people's hearts will be supported by others. Those who are recognized will have good luck!
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