This paper explores the philosophical tension between entitlement and the belief in self-creation. It argues that the myth of the “self-made man” conceals human interdependence and thus breeds entitlement where gratitude and social awareness should exist. Using moral philosophy, sociology, and psychology, it shows that the denial of collective foundations perpetuates inequality and moral distortion in modern life.
1. Introduction
Western culture venerates the “self-made man” as an emblem of autonomy and moral worth. The figure appears to embody effort, discipline, and self-determination. Yet this belief conflicts with the reality that no person succeeds in isolation. Entitlement—an expectation of reward without proportionate acknowledgment of context—emerges precisely when interdependence is denied. This paper investigates how the self-made myth sustains entitlement and obscures moral responsibility.
2. The Structure of Entitlement
Entitlement combines psychological bias and moral illusion. Campbell, Bonacci, Shelton, Exline, and Bushman (2004) define it as an enduring sense of deservedness that often distorts social perception and empathy. Philosophically, entitlement rests on an atomistic ontology: the assumption that the individual is self-caused and self-justified. When success is interpreted solely as a personal triumph, the social fabric that supports achievement becomes invisible. This erasure enables moral rationalizations of privilege.
3. The Myth of the Self-Made Man
The “self-made” narrative arose during the Enlightenment and solidified in 19th-century industrial society. Benjamin Franklin and Horatio Alger popularized stories equating virtue with economic success. Weber (1904-1905/1930) traced this ethic to Protestant theology, where worldly prosperity signified divine favor. The concept was later absorbed into capitalist ideology, transforming social cooperation into a private moral test.
Philosophical critics exposed its flaw. Marx (1867/1976) demonstrated that all production depends on collective labor and inherited infrastructure. Simone de Beauvoir (1947/1976) argued that human freedom only exists within a shared situation—dependence is not weakness but condition. The “self-made man” thus represents an ontological error: he denies the network of relations that constitute his very possibility.
4. Interdependence as Reality
Sociology and moral philosophy show that every individual act is embedded in systemic cooperation. Durkheim (1893/1997) described the division of labor as the moral basis of society; autonomy emerges through mutual reliance. Nussbaum (2011) demonstrated that human capability depends on social, educational, and institutional structures that precede personal agency. Even the entrepreneur or artist who imagines independence relies on public infrastructure, cultural knowledge, and collective trust. True freedom is relational autonomy: action within interdependence.
5. The Paradox of Invisible Dependence
The paradox is that entitlement grows strongest where dependence is deepest but unacknowledged. Those who benefit most from social stability—economic elites, corporate leaders, and citizens of privileged nations—are most likely to claim self-sufficiency. The denial of dependence serves as ideological armor, protecting status and moral self-image. As Young (2011) observed, structural injustice persists when individuals overlook their role within collective systems. The self-made illusion thus converts shared achievement into private credit.
6. Ethical Implications
Recognizing interdependence transforms entitlement into responsibility. Levinas (1969) described ethics as arising in the face of the Other—obligation precedes autonomy. Similarly, Nussbaum (2011) framed justice as the cultivation of capabilities for all, not just for oneself. To see oneself as self-made is to deny this moral relation; to see oneself as co-made is to recover it. Gratitude replaces possession as the ethical posture of the mature self.
7. Conclusion
The “self-made man” is a cultural fiction sustained by selective amnesia. Entitlement flourishes in that amnesia, mistaking collective inheritance for personal virtue. Philosophical realism demands a different view: all success is co-authored, all freedom relational. By exposing the myth, societies can replace entitlement with stewardship—an ethic grounded in acknowledgment, reciprocity, and truth.
References
Beauvoir, S. de. (1976). The Ethics of Ambiguity (B. Frechtman, Trans.). Citadel Press. (Original work published 1947)
Campbell, W. K., Bonacci, A. M., Shelton, J., Exline, J. J., & Bushman, B. J. (2004). Psychological entitlement: Interpersonal consequences and validation of a self-report measure. Journal of Personality Assessment, 83(1), 29-45.
Durkheim, É. (1997). The Division of Labor in Society (W. D. Halls, Trans.). Free Press. (Original work published 1893)
Levinas, E. (1969). Totality and Infinity (A. Lingis, Trans.). Duquesne University Press.
Marx, K. (1976). Capital: A Critique of Political Economy, Vol. 1 (B. Fowkes, Trans.). Penguin Books. (Original work published 1867)
Nussbaum, M. C. (2011). Creating Capabilities: The Human Development Approach. Harvard University Press.
Weber, M. (1930). The Protestant Ethic and the Spirit of Capitalism (T. Parsons, Trans.). Scribner. (Original work published 1904-1905)
Young, I. M. (2011). Responsibility for Justice. Oxford University Press.
This paper explores the philosophical tension between entitlement and the belief in self-creation. It argues that the myth of the “self-made man” conceals human interdependence and thus breeds entitlement where gratitude and social awareness should exist. Using moral philosophy, sociology, and psychology, it shows that the denial of collective foundations perpetuates inequality and moral distortion in modern life.
1. Introduction
Western culture venerates the “self-made man” as an emblem of autonomy and moral worth. The figure appears to embody effort, discipline, and self-determination. Yet this belief conflicts with the reality that no person succeeds in isolation. Entitlement—an expectation of reward without proportionate acknowledgment of context—emerges precisely when interdependence is denied. This paper investigates how the self-made myth sustains entitlement and obscures moral responsibility.
2. The Structure of Entitlement
Entitlement combines psychological bias and moral illusion. Campbell, Bonacci, Shelton, Exline, and Bushman (2004) define it as an enduring sense of deservedness that often distorts social perception and empathy. Philosophically, entitlement rests on an atomistic ontology: the assumption that the individual is self-caused and self-justified. When success is interpreted solely as a personal triumph, the social fabric that supports achievement becomes invisible. This erasure enables moral rationalizations of privilege.
3. The Myth of the Self-Made Man
The “self-made” narrative arose during the Enlightenment and solidified in 19th-century industrial society. Benjamin Franklin and Horatio Alger popularized stories equating virtue with economic success. Weber (1904-1905/1930) traced this ethic to Protestant theology, where worldly prosperity signified divine favor. The concept was later absorbed into capitalist ideology, transforming social cooperation into a private moral test.
Philosophical critics exposed its flaw. Marx (1867/1976) demonstrated that all production depends on collective labor and inherited infrastructure. Simone de Beauvoir (1947/1976) argued that human freedom only exists within a shared situation—dependence is not weakness but condition. The “self-made man” thus represents an ontological error: he denies the network of relations that constitute his very possibility.
4. Interdependence as Reality
Sociology and moral philosophy show that every individual act is embedded in systemic cooperation. Durkheim (1893/1997) described the division of labor as the moral basis of society; autonomy emerges through mutual reliance. Nussbaum (2011) demonstrated that human capability depends on social, educational, and institutional structures that precede personal agency. Even the entrepreneur or artist who imagines independence relies on public infrastructure, cultural knowledge, and collective trust. True freedom is relational autonomy: action within interdependence.
5. The Paradox of Invisible Dependence
The paradox is that entitlement grows strongest where dependence is deepest but unacknowledged. Those who benefit most from social stability—economic elites, corporate leaders, and citizens of privileged nations—are most likely to claim self-sufficiency. The denial of dependence serves as ideological armor, protecting status and moral self-image. As Young (2011) observed, structural injustice persists when individuals overlook their role within collective systems. The self-made illusion thus converts shared achievement into private credit.
6. Ethical Implications
Recognizing interdependence transforms entitlement into responsibility. Levinas (1969) described ethics as arising in the face of the Other—obligation precedes autonomy. Similarly, Nussbaum (2011) framed justice as the cultivation of capabilities for all, not just for oneself. To see oneself as self-made is to deny this moral relation; to see oneself as co-made is to recover it. Gratitude replaces possession as the ethical posture of the mature self.
7. Conclusion
The “self-made man” is a cultural fiction sustained by selective amnesia. Entitlement flourishes in that amnesia, mistaking collective inheritance for personal virtue. Philosophical realism demands a different view: all success is co-authored, all freedom relational. By exposing the myth, societies can replace entitlement with stewardship—an ethic grounded in acknowledgment, reciprocity, and truth.
References
Beauvoir, S. de. (1976). The Ethics of Ambiguity (B. Frechtman, Trans.). Citadel Press. (Original work published 1947)
Campbell, W. K., Bonacci, A. M., Shelton, J., Exline, J. J., & Bushman, B. J. (2004). Psychological entitlement: Interpersonal consequences and validation of a self-report measure. Journal of Personality Assessment, 83(1), 29-45.
Durkheim, É. (1997). The Division of Labor in Society (W. D. Halls, Trans.). Free Press. (Original work published 1893)
Levinas, E. (1969). Totality and Infinity (A. Lingis, Trans.). Duquesne University Press.
Marx, K. (1976). Capital: A Critique of Political Economy, Vol. 1 (B. Fowkes, Trans.). Penguin Books. (Original work published 1867)
Nussbaum, M. C. (2011). Creating Capabilities: The Human Development Approach. Harvard University Press.
Weber, M. (1930). The Protestant Ethic and the Spirit of Capitalism (T. Parsons, Trans.). Scribner. (Original work published 1904-1905)
Young, I. M. (2011). Responsibility for Justice. Oxford University Press.


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Entitlement and the Myth of the Self-Made Man
Self made?
Working on it 😉 I’m playing, I feel we all stand on the shoulders of giants. Now that doesn’t mean hard work and perseverance don’t pay off. It’s more saying that everyone has some help one way or the other along the way.