I remember once when I was a child, when I saw the sunflower in front of the courtyard with its head down, I had a whim. I found a rope and bamboo pole to fix one of the sunflowers, let it stand tall and look directly at the sun. I childishly think that it can save the trouble of turning around, better absorb the sun, and the particles will be fuller in the future. In autumn, the sunflower is mature. I can't wait to come to the sunflower with its head high. I think it's the best. What makes me depressed is that the sunflower is empty. There is no full seed in it, and it also emits a pungent smell of mildew. I asked my father, "why do sunflowers with their heads held high have no harvest?" The father smiled and said, "silly child, the sunflower heads up and the excess rain and dew in it can't be discharged. It's easy to breed bacteria, so it will rot. you're kind to help. In fact, the sunflower lowers its head slightly, one is to express its piety and respect for the sun, and the other is to protect itself." After listening to my father's words, I nodded vaguely. Later, through observation, I found that not only sunflowers, but also many other plants understand this truth. For example, when the wheat is green, they always hold their heads high and look fearless; But when they are mature, they always bow their heads humbly and look like they are free from struggle with the world. (personal signature www.lz13. CN) because this can not only effectively avoid the risk of being broken, but also make the birds unable to find the focus, so as to preserve the fruits they have come through thousands of hardships. At this time, I suddenly realized that lowering my head is also a kind of big mind, great realm and great wisdom. I have a friend who has always adhered to the principle of "people are good to be bullied and horses are good to be ridden". Therefore, he is very tough. As a result, he offended many people. In the unit, he has not been valued by leaders and welcomed by colleagues for a long time. Every time, he was not promoted, and the promotion passed him by. After more than ten years, he was still a small clerk. The friend was very puzzled. He said, "I just defend my rights. What's wrong with this?" Indeed, there is nothing wrong with this. It's just a matter of being a man. Zuo Zongtang has a wise saying: "when you are poor, you will not be deceived; when you are prosperous, you will not be envied." A person should know when to fight, when to put down, blindly compromise, that is a kind of cowardice; It is foolish to be arrogant. A person who is aggressive, arrogant and arrogant is difficult to be recognized and affirmed by others, and it is also difficult to make achievements in his career. He is either bruised and bruised in front of reality, or he is excluded, isolated and depressed. The ancients said: it is hard and easy to break, and the best is like water. A gentleman is always good at dealing with all things, but he is not good at dealing with them, just as a gentleman is always good at dealing with them. Because they understand that those who can be low can be high; He who can bend can stretch; Only those who can be soft can be strong; Those who can retreat can enter.

I remember once when I was a child, when I saw the sunflower in front of the courtyard with its head down, I had a whim. I found a rope and bamboo pole to fix one of the sunflowers, let it stand tall and look directly at the sun. I childishly think that it can save the trouble of turning around, better absorb the sun, and the particles will be fuller in the future. In autumn, the sunflower is mature. I can't wait to come to the sunflower with its head high. I think it's the best. What makes me depressed is that the sunflower is empty. There is no full seed in it, and it also emits a pungent smell of mildew. I asked my father, "why do sunflowers with their heads held high have no harvest?" The father smiled and said, "silly child, the sunflower heads up and the excess rain and dew in it can't be discharged. It's easy to breed bacteria, so it will rot. you're kind to help. In fact, the sunflower lowers its head slightly, one is to express its piety and respect for the sun, and the other is to protect itself." After listening to my father's words, I nodded vaguely. Later, through observation, I found that not only sunflowers, but also many other plants understand this truth. For example, when the wheat is green, they always hold their heads high and look fearless; But when they are mature, they always bow their heads humbly and look like they are free from struggle with the world. (personal signature www.lz13. CN) because this can not only effectively avoid the risk of being broken, but also make the birds unable to find the focus, so as to preserve the fruits they have come through thousands of hardships. At this time, I suddenly realized that lowering my head is also a kind of big mind, great realm and great wisdom. I have a friend who has always adhered to the principle of "people are good to be bullied and horses are good to be ridden". Therefore, he is very tough. As a result, he offended many people. In the unit, he has not been valued by leaders and welcomed by colleagues for a long time. Every time, he was not promoted, and the promotion passed him by. After more than ten years, he was still a small clerk. The friend was very puzzled. He said, "I just defend my rights. What's wrong with this?" Indeed, there is nothing wrong with this. It's just a matter of being a man. Zuo Zongtang has a wise saying: "when you are poor, you will not be deceived; when you are prosperous, you will not be envied." A person should know when to fight, when to put down, blindly compromise, that is a kind of cowardice; It is foolish to be arrogant. A person who is aggressive, arrogant and arrogant is difficult to be recognized and affirmed by others, and it is also difficult to make achievements in his career. He is either bruised and bruised in front of reality, or he is excluded, isolated and depressed. The ancients said: it is hard and easy to break, and the best is like water. A gentleman is always good at dealing with all things, but he is not good at dealing with them, just as a gentleman is always good at dealing with them. Because they understand that those who can be low can be high; He who can bend can stretch; Only those who can be soft can be strong; Those who can retreat can enter.