one Walking in the evening, I ran into friend a and looked rather unhappy. Seeing that I was alone, I walked together. You a is an entrepreneur. In recent years, his career has been booming and his character is correct. He is very respected in the circle. At the same time, he is also a calligraphy lover. He studies calligraphy hard in his spare time, which has surpassed professionals. His works have been published and won awards repeatedly. Talking about the reason for tonight's displeasure, it turns out that friend a, out of kindness, thought that some teachers hadn't seen each other for a long time, so he invited them to meet. The atmosphere was originally very good during the dinner, but an old gentleman who had known each other for many years said arrogantly, "little a, I recently heard that you practice calligraphy every day? It's not good to be artful without concentrating on doing business." He said: "after reading your handwriting, I'm still so naive! Why don't you make progress when you contact people who understand calligraphy every day? I heard you've won many awards. They're all bought with money!" Make you a very embarrassed and at a loss. The people at the same table also felt very boring, and the atmosphere became no longer harmonious, so we parted unhappily. Friend a doesn't understand very much. He does business in a down-to-earth manner, operates legally and works according to regulations. He has never had any bad hobbies. Does loving calligraphy become an arty? What he couldn't accept most was that all the award-winning works he regarded as the standard were bought with money! A party originally organized with the mentality of respecting elders and teachers turned out to be boring. You a said that he was not afraid of criticism, nor did he have to agree. It was just such sarcastic and unrealistic blind speculation and slander, which was unacceptable. two In reality, there are always some people who seem to be natural picky experts. They can always find some shortcomings in others, amplify them and gossip. If you really can't find the shortcomings of others and make assumptions, you should also find one or two. If the people around you are famous and developed, and if they are under control, they will always have to make face-to-face sarcasm in public, and it will be very comfortable to see the embarrassment of others. If this person is not very controllable or has a premonition that he will ask others in the future, he will not only dare not satirize and satirize face to face, but will also be very sarcastic and flattering, but turning around will still be a kind of satire and ridicule. "One good word, three warm winters" is good at discovering the strengths of others. Is it so difficult to praise others! This is actually the mentality of some people. Psychologically, it is called "evil pleasure". It is a person's virtue to be good at discovering the beauty of things and understand, appreciate and appreciate others in the way of transposition thinking. The establishment of this virtue is not difficult. As long as the pattern is slightly larger and the mentality is slightly correct, it can be achieved. Anyone who can find the beauty of others must have a beautiful heart. Only when you have beauty in your heart can you find the beauty of the world. If you praise the beauty of others, others will also give you praise and gratitude. In this way, a beautiful ecosystem will be formed around you. How happy it is to live in such a beautiful ecosystem. Friend B is in the food industry. There are many companies that produce the same products as him. Every time he held a meeting with his subordinates, he would say that we should do our products in a down-to-earth manner and don't slander others. If others ask other enterprises, we must say yes. Yes, the world is an echo wall. If you praise others, you will get the same echo. B never slanders his peers. Naturally, few people speak ill of him. You see, learning to praise others benefits you. three Entrepreneurs are also a group, and there should be a platform to connect with each other. People will look down on each other because of the phenomenon of being homogeneous and sarcastic. For example, those engaged in real estate despise those engaged in finance, those engaged in finance despise those engaged in industry, those with large volume despise those with small volume, those with early debut despise those with late debut. If you happen to be a colleague, that's great. "A colleague is an enemy". If you're good, there's less meat in my bowl. How can I accommodate you! It's good not to have a life and death market. Do you want to praise you? There are many such things. In fact, every enterprise is like every family. Each family lives its own life. People don't borrow your money and invade your rights. It's their business to live better than bad, rich or poor. What's your business? Why belittle other people and Zang or not. We should find the strengths and strengths of others. An enterprise must have its advantages to survive in such a competitive environment. Isn't it also a good thing for us to dig, learn, appreciate, and then absorb and digest in our own enterprises. Even if peers will only resent and tear down each other, and create some public opinion against their opponents to the customers and the society, it is at most to show off the pleasure of the moment, and the customers will not look up to you and the society will not agree with you. On the contrary, the opponent will also deal with you in the same or more vicious way, in a vicious circle of evil against evil. If you look at your opponent with praise, even if you can't work together to achieve a win-win situation, you should also ensure that you don't speak ill of your opponent in public and in front of customers, then you may get unexpected respect from others, and your realm will gradually rise. As long as your pattern is big enough, your mind is wide enough and your heart is beautiful enough, it's not difficult to praise others. Knowing how to praise is also a great talent. The degree to which you speak comfortably is the height you can reach.

one Walking in the evening, I ran into friend a and looked rather unhappy. Seeing that I was alone, I walked together. You a is an entrepreneur. In recent years, his career has been booming and his character is correct. He is very respected in the circle. At the same time, he is also a calligraphy lover. He studies calligraphy hard in his spare time, which has surpassed professionals. His works have been published and won awards repeatedly. Talking about the reason for tonight's displeasure, it turns out that friend a, out of kindness, thought that some teachers hadn't seen each other for a long time, so he invited them to meet. The atmosphere was originally very good during the dinner, but an old gentleman who had known each other for many years said arrogantly, "little a, I recently heard that you practice calligraphy every day? It's not good to be artful without concentrating on doing business." He said: "after reading your handwriting, I'm still so naive! Why don't you make progress when you contact people who understand calligraphy every day? I heard you've won many awards. They're all bought with money!" Make you a very embarrassed and at a loss. The people at the same table also felt very boring, and the atmosphere became no longer harmonious, so we parted unhappily. Friend a doesn't understand very much. He does business in a down-to-earth manner, operates legally and works according to regulations. He has never had any bad hobbies. Does loving calligraphy become an arty? What he couldn't accept most was that all the award-winning works he regarded as the standard were bought with money! A party originally organized with the mentality of respecting elders and teachers turned out to be boring. You a said that he was not afraid of criticism, nor did he have to agree. It was just such sarcastic and unrealistic blind speculation and slander, which was unacceptable. two In reality, there are always some people who seem to be natural picky experts. They can always find some shortcomings in others, amplify them and gossip. If you really can't find the shortcomings of others and make assumptions, you should also find one or two. If the people around you are famous and developed, and if they are under control, they will always have to make face-to-face sarcasm in public, and it will be very comfortable to see the embarrassment of others. If this person is not very controllable or has a premonition that he will ask others in the future, he will not only dare not satirize and satirize face to face, but will also be very sarcastic and flattering, but turning around will still be a kind of satire and ridicule. "One good word, three warm winters" is good at discovering the strengths of others. Is it so difficult to praise others! This is actually the mentality of some people. Psychologically, it is called "evil pleasure". It is a person's virtue to be good at discovering the beauty of things and understand, appreciate and appreciate others in the way of transposition thinking. The establishment of this virtue is not difficult. As long as the pattern is slightly larger and the mentality is slightly correct, it can be achieved. Anyone who can find the beauty of others must have a beautiful heart. Only when you have beauty in your heart can you find the beauty of the world. If you praise the beauty of others, others will also give you praise and gratitude. In this way, a beautiful ecosystem will be formed around you. How happy it is to live in such a beautiful ecosystem. Friend B is in the food industry. There are many companies that produce the same products as him. Every time he held a meeting with his subordinates, he would say that we should do our products in a down-to-earth manner and don't slander others. If others ask other enterprises, we must say yes. Yes, the world is an echo wall. If you praise others, you will get the same echo. B never slanders his peers. Naturally, few people speak ill of him. You see, learning to praise others benefits you. three Entrepreneurs are also a group, and there should be a platform to connect with each other. People will look down on each other because of the phenomenon of being homogeneous and sarcastic. For example, those engaged in real estate despise those engaged in finance, those engaged in finance despise those engaged in industry, those with large volume despise those with small volume, those with early debut despise those with late debut. If you happen to be a colleague, that's great. "A colleague is an enemy". If you're good, there's less meat in my bowl. How can I accommodate you! It's good not to have a life and death market. Do you want to praise you? There are many such things. In fact, every enterprise is like every family. Each family lives its own life. People don't borrow your money and invade your rights. It's their business to live better than bad, rich or poor. What's your business? Why belittle other people and Zang or not. We should find the strengths and strengths of others. An enterprise must have its advantages to survive in such a competitive environment. Isn't it also a good thing for us to dig, learn, appreciate, and then absorb and digest in our own enterprises. Even if peers will only resent and tear down each other, and create some public opinion against their opponents to the customers and the society, it is at most to show off the pleasure of the moment, and the customers will not look up to you and the society will not agree with you. On the contrary, the opponent will also deal with you in the same or more vicious way, in a vicious circle of evil against evil. If you look at your opponent with praise, even if you can't work together to achieve a win-win situation, you should also ensure that you don't speak ill of your opponent in public and in front of customers, then you may get unexpected respect from others, and your realm will gradually rise. As long as your pattern is big enough, your mind is wide enough and your heart is beautiful enough, it's not difficult to praise others. Knowing how to praise is also a great talent. The degree to which you speak comfortably is the height you can reach.