For a period of time, I was in a bad mood and unconsciously brought my bad mood to work. One day, my boss assigned me a task that didn't have much to do with my work function. I refused in front of my colleagues that I didn't have time. Don't put such work on me in the future. This made the boss lose face, but he didn't say anything at that time. Not only did he have any unhappy expression on his face, but he smiled at me frankly. I walked out of his office unnaturally. When I went to work the next morning, I found a bunch of small flowers inserted in a glass beverage bottle on my desk. The small flower buds were hidden between the green leaves, just like a ray of sunshine leaking from the haze, which brightened people's eyes. Whenever I am tired from work, I observe this bunch of flowers from a close distance, and my mood slowly becomes clear, no longer impatient and depressed. I asked my colleagues who put the flowers, and they said they didn't know, which warmed my heart. Maybe the work pressure is a little high. Some colleagues sometimes have disputes with their superiors, which makes the working atmosphere very dull. But I found that if a colleague had an unpleasant quarrel with his boss the day before, there would be a bunch of flowers on his desk the next day. In a few days, the unhappiness in the office dissipated. Everyone was very involved in their work and their performance was obvious. Looking at the flowers blooming day by day, I am grateful. After a long time, I realized my fault and took the initiative to send a short message to my boss, asking him to forgive my impulse and youthful spirit. He gave me a message back: being angry means you can't get along with yourself. Before being angry, please go to the bathroom, stare at the mirror and smile for a minute, and then be angry with me again. I can forgive everything. I was ashamed of my boss's generosity. Since then, whenever there are misunderstandings and disputes with the people around me at work or in life, even if they are wrong, I am right. I will not argue with them and defend them, and keep smiling all the time. Then I will remind them: please keep smiling first. Our face to face is longer than who smiles in silence, Even if who wins. As a result, the one who is unreasonable or at fault speaks to me first, and smiles less than me. Finally, we made up as before. This reminds me of an anecdote of US President Lincoln. When the enemy was captured in a battle, his subordinates asked to severely punish the enemy, but Lincoln disagreed. He not only exempted the enemy from all crimes, but treated the enemy as his own people. Some subordinates asked puzzledly: they are enemies. It is the best way to eliminate future troubles and severely punish enemy talents. Lincoln smiled and said, "you are wrong. Even the enemy has become our friend. What else can we not overcome?" The wisdom of a military strategist does not lie in tactics, but in some subtle things. Combined with my previous mistakes, I understand what is true wisdom. I admire my boss's silent enlightenment more and more. If we can't change other people's mistakes, we should first change what we can change. For example, starting with a smile, although the smile is sometimes insignificant, it is like a water drop through a stone or an ant's nest on a levee. One day it will break through the stone and collapse the levee. To be a man and do things, we should strive for strength and wisdom. If strength and wisdom are not enough to defeat our opponents, we should start with a smile

For a period of time, I was in a bad mood and unconsciously brought my bad mood to work. One day, my boss assigned me a task that didn't have much to do with my work function. I refused in front of my colleagues that I didn't have time. Don't put such work on me in the future. This made the boss lose face, but he didn't say anything at that time. Not only did he have any unhappy expression on his face, but he smiled at me frankly. I walked out of his office unnaturally. When I went to work the next morning, I found a bunch of small flowers inserted in a glass beverage bottle on my desk. The small flower buds were hidden between the green leaves, just like a ray of sunshine leaking from the haze, which brightened people's eyes. Whenever I am tired from work, I observe this bunch of flowers from a close distance, and my mood slowly becomes clear, no longer impatient and depressed. I asked my colleagues who put the flowers, and they said they didn't know, which warmed my heart. Maybe the work pressure is a little high. Some colleagues sometimes have disputes with their superiors, which makes the working atmosphere very dull. But I found that if a colleague had an unpleasant quarrel with his boss the day before, there would be a bunch of flowers on his desk the next day. In a few days, the unhappiness in the office dissipated. Everyone was very involved in their work and their performance was obvious. Looking at the flowers blooming day by day, I am grateful. After a long time, I realized my fault and took the initiative to send a short message to my boss, asking him to forgive my impulse and youthful spirit. He gave me a message back: being angry means you can't get along with yourself. Before being angry, please go to the bathroom, stare at the mirror and smile for a minute, and then be angry with me again. I can forgive everything. I was ashamed of my boss's generosity. Since then, whenever there are misunderstandings and disputes with the people around me at work or in life, even if they are wrong, I am right. I will not argue with them and defend them, and keep smiling all the time. Then I will remind them: please keep smiling first. Our face to face is longer than who smiles in silence, Even if who wins. As a result, the one who is unreasonable or at fault speaks to me first, and smiles less than me. Finally, we made up as before. This reminds me of an anecdote of US President Lincoln. When the enemy was captured in a battle, his subordinates asked to severely punish the enemy, but Lincoln disagreed. He not only exempted the enemy from all crimes, but treated the enemy as his own people. Some subordinates asked puzzledly: they are enemies. It is the best way to eliminate future troubles and severely punish enemy talents. Lincoln smiled and said, "you are wrong. Even the enemy has become our friend. What else can we not overcome?" The wisdom of a military strategist does not lie in tactics, but in some subtle things. Combined with my previous mistakes, I understand what is true wisdom. I admire my boss's silent enlightenment more and more. If we can't change other people's mistakes, we should first change what we can change. For example, starting with a smile, although the smile is sometimes insignificant, it is like a water drop through a stone or an ant's nest on a levee. One day it will break through the stone and collapse the levee. To be a man and do things, we should strive for strength and wisdom. If strength and wisdom are not enough to defeat our opponents, we should start with a smile