Once I knew a friend who loved fantasy and had rich feelings, so I was able to enter the play. After watching you from the stars, I immediately felt myself incarnate as the national goddess, living in a luxury house, wearing luxury clothes, worshipped by the audience and having a universal boyfriend loved by everyone... A few days later, I incarnated as the unattractive girl next door in secret garden, enduring humiliation and overcoming all difficulties, Finally use their own strength to realize their dreams, find true love and marry into a rich family. In order to successfully get close to the characters in the play, she spent more than 2000 yuan a month on luxury goods of nearly 10000 yuan, begged her parents who were not rich to buy her famous brand bags, luxury brand cosmetics and skin care products... And naturally took the money saved by her elders to travel abroad... There is only one purpose - to realize her dream. What is the so-called dream? It's probably the rich, beautiful, above all, free life, traveling around the world and marrying a male god portrayed in the play! In fact, her true appearance is not amazing, her figure is average, and her other abilities are just like that. Later, she took a dream to say goodbye to her parents and went to a foreign land, vowing to work hard for a better future. At the end of the story, we thought she would take on a new look when she left with such great determination. Let us snobs who usually despise her for being ambitious and unrealistic look at her with new eyes. One day, we will slap ourselves in the face for having despised her! But when we waited for the opportunity to slap our ears with fear and expectation, she disappointed us again! The new city is colorful. With the money her parents saved hard, she rented a room that met her identity, dressed herself up more like a metropolitan, and successfully became a copywriting intern, which is a big step towards her dream. So she began to imagine herself biting the nib of her pen in the quiet coffee shop in the afternoon, attracting many eyes to stop, and thus met the wonderful love story of male god. However, before long, the boss ruthlessly destroyed her dream, working overtime, staying up late, blaming and aimlessly biting words. Commensurate with this, the income is too low to bear her dream. However, what is more cruel is that no matter what standard is used, it is a reasonable treatment for a newcomer. She spends an average of two hours a day calling home to talk to her parents, recounting her dedication to her dream, lamenting all her efforts, and making a series of lists for realizing her dream: learning English, writing, PPT, makeup, running every morning, working or studying until 12 p.m However, it is funny and ironic that she has never started to implement these dream plans. In addition to wasting two hours on the phone every day, the rest of the time is watching cartoons on the computer, squeezing acne and eating instant noodles... What the hell do you dream of, say it to inspire others! However, if you think she is deceiving her parents' feelings, you are wrong again. She is really dazed by the word dream. She is also painful, hesitant and restless, especially when her purse is empty and a luxury brand comes out in limited edition with the advent of the holiday, the persistence of her dream hurts her heart again! Such a life sounds a little sad, but it is undeniable that this friend's story is not a separate case. In this world, there are too many young people who are dazzled by money, reputation and dazzling life. Coupled with the blind exaggeration of public opinion on the happiness experience of winners, young people rush forward recklessly under the encouragement of what is called "dream", so they naturally overdraw the money of themselves and their families and the trust of their relatives and friends, It doesn't matter whether your ability and effort match what you want. And many of them, like my friend, haven't even paid - they are dwarfs, but they dream of giants. There are too many dreamers in this world who advocate people to dream - "if you have a dream, you must be persistent". They try their best to exaggerate the glory after the realization of their dream - "today you ignore my love, tomorrow I will make you unable to rise." But deliberately concealed the hard price to pay to realize the dream. In fact, nothing in the world can be achieved overnight. What can exchange for a moment of light on the stage is the loneliness and patience of thousands of days and nights under the stage; In exchange for the praise of thousands of people, it is a thousand times of slander; In exchange for one success, it's a new start after countless failures... Generally speaking, it's a process of torturing people into ghosts and turning ghosts into people. It's really not a height that can be achieved by watching a few idol dramas and sitting in front of a computer. It's a simple truth to be a master only after suffering from hardships. I don't understand why so many people don't understand it today. There are two kinds of people in this world who are most likely to get happiness. One is a completely ignorant person, who is fearless because of ignorance, and then has no great desire and no great desire, so there is no great pain; One is fully aware people. They know their height, know what they want, and have the ability to get what they want, so they can get the happiness they want. However, most people in this world are often not the first or the second. Under the cover of the overwhelming halo of desire and the temptation of the surging ode of winners, they lose themselves, deliberately ignore their inferiority and beyond their power, and pursue things that do not belong to them. On the one hand, it is the stimulation of desire; On the other hand, they are powerless. They are powerless to face the reality. They are powerless to earn so much money and live like stars. Therefore, what ultimately dominates their lives becomes desperate inferiority complex and their ridicule of their own incompetence. When most people get to this point, they will wake up and know that they should not pursue any dreams at the beginning, and at least they can live happily. So Chuang Tzu stood up and said: those who are satisfied do not use profit to get tired of themselves, those who judge themselves and gain are not afraid of losing it, and those who practice internally have no position and are not ashamed. For those who have dreams, I want to ask: are you really ready? Can you soar against the wind for your dream without fear of any gossip? Can you bear failure and frustration for your dream? Can you smile calmly and happily in the face of pressure and challenges for your dreams? Can you fight for your dream for several nights in a row, so tired that you can't open your eyes and still keep your original heart unchanged? If the answer is no, you'd better not pursue your so-called dream!

Once I knew a friend who loved fantasy and had rich feelings, so I was able to enter the play. After watching you from the stars, I immediately felt myself incarnate as the national goddess, living in a luxury house, wearing luxury clothes, worshipped by the audience and having a universal boyfriend loved by everyone... A few days later, I incarnated as the unattractive girl next door in secret garden, enduring humiliation and overcoming all difficulties, Finally use their own strength to realize their dreams, find true love and marry into a rich family. In order to successfully get close to the characters in the play, she spent more than 2000 yuan a month on luxury goods of nearly 10000 yuan, begged her parents who were not rich to buy her famous brand bags, luxury brand cosmetics and skin care products... And naturally took the money saved by her elders to travel abroad... There is only one purpose - to realize her dream. What is the so-called dream? It's probably the rich, beautiful, above all, free life, traveling around the world and marrying a male god portrayed in the play! In fact, her true appearance is not amazing, her figure is average, and her other abilities are just like that. Later, she took a dream to say goodbye to her parents and went to a foreign land, vowing to work hard for a better future. At the end of the story, we thought she would take on a new look when she left with such great determination. Let us snobs who usually despise her for being ambitious and unrealistic look at her with new eyes. One day, we will slap ourselves in the face for having despised her! But when we waited for the opportunity to slap our ears with fear and expectation, she disappointed us again! The new city is colorful. With the money her parents saved hard, she rented a room that met her identity, dressed herself up more like a metropolitan, and successfully became a copywriting intern, which is a big step towards her dream. So she began to imagine herself biting the nib of her pen in the quiet coffee shop in the afternoon, attracting many eyes to stop, and thus met the wonderful love story of male god. However, before long, the boss ruthlessly destroyed her dream, working overtime, staying up late, blaming and aimlessly biting words. Commensurate with this, the income is too low to bear her dream. However, what is more cruel is that no matter what standard is used, it is a reasonable treatment for a newcomer. She spends an average of two hours a day calling home to talk to her parents, recounting her dedication to her dream, lamenting all her efforts, and making a series of lists for realizing her dream: learning English, writing, PPT, makeup, running every morning, working or studying until 12 p.m However, it is funny and ironic that she has never started to implement these dream plans. In addition to wasting two hours on the phone every day, the rest of the time is watching cartoons on the computer, squeezing acne and eating instant noodles... What the hell do you dream of, say it to inspire others! However, if you think she is deceiving her parents' feelings, you are wrong again. She is really dazed by the word dream. She is also painful, hesitant and restless, especially when her purse is empty and a luxury brand comes out in limited edition with the advent of the holiday, the persistence of her dream hurts her heart again! Such a life sounds a little sad, but it is undeniable that this friend's story is not a separate case. In this world, there are too many young people who are dazzled by money, reputation and dazzling life. Coupled with the blind exaggeration of public opinion on the happiness experience of winners, young people rush forward recklessly under the encouragement of what is called "dream", so they naturally overdraw the money of themselves and their families and the trust of their relatives and friends, It doesn't matter whether your ability and effort match what you want. And many of them, like my friend, haven't even paid - they are dwarfs, but they dream of giants. There are too many dreamers in this world who advocate people to dream - "if you have a dream, you must be persistent". They try their best to exaggerate the glory after the realization of their dream - "today you ignore my love, tomorrow I will make you unable to rise." But deliberately concealed the hard price to pay to realize the dream. In fact, nothing in the world can be achieved overnight. What can exchange for a moment of light on the stage is the loneliness and patience of thousands of days and nights under the stage; In exchange for the praise of thousands of people, it is a thousand times of slander; In exchange for one success, it's a new start after countless failures... Generally speaking, it's a process of torturing people into ghosts and turning ghosts into people. It's really not a height that can be achieved by watching a few idol dramas and sitting in front of a computer. It's a simple truth to be a master only after suffering from hardships. I don't understand why so many people don't understand it today. There are two kinds of people in this world who are most likely to get happiness. One is a completely ignorant person, who is fearless because of ignorance, and then has no great desire and no great desire, so there is no great pain; One is fully aware people. They know their height, know what they want, and have the ability to get what they want, so they can get the happiness they want. However, most people in this world are often not the first or the second. Under the cover of the overwhelming halo of desire and the temptation of the surging ode of winners, they lose themselves, deliberately ignore their inferiority and beyond their power, and pursue things that do not belong to them. On the one hand, it is the stimulation of desire; On the other hand, they are powerless. They are powerless to face the reality. They are powerless to earn so much money and live like stars. Therefore, what ultimately dominates their lives becomes desperate inferiority complex and their ridicule of their own incompetence. When most people get to this point, they will wake up and know that they should not pursue any dreams at the beginning, and at least they can live happily. So Chuang Tzu stood up and said: those who are satisfied do not use profit to get tired of themselves, those who judge themselves and gain are not afraid of losing it, and those who practice internally have no position and are not ashamed. For those who have dreams, I want to ask: are you really ready? Can you soar against the wind for your dream without fear of any gossip? Can you bear failure and frustration for your dream? Can you smile calmly and happily in the face of pressure and challenges for your dreams? Can you fight for your dream for several nights in a row, so tired that you can't open your eyes and still keep your original heart unchanged? If the answer is no, you'd better not pursue your so-called dream!