There is only one kind of people in the world. Because they speak differently, they become two kinds of people, resulting in different destinies. As the saying goes: "details determine success or failure". A small sentence belongs to the smallest details, but it can "make people live and die". For example, on the highway, it is easy for drivers to fight in groups with a casual curse. Speaking is so important, but some chicken soup says, "don't talk about people's mistakes in gossip, sit still and often think about yourself.". This sentence is true, but one can't help talking. Cao Cao and Liu Bei, the famous employment heroes of the Three Kingdoms, both rely on talking to people to find talents and achieve hegemony. Then how can we talk so that talents can be used by themselves and achieve their goals? Look at what little people did in the Warring States period. In that era when all heroes rose together, mothers still loved their children as much. Empress Dowager Zhao dotes on her youngest son, Chang'an Jun. even when the country is about to be destroyed by Qin, she doesn't want to ask the state of Qi for help and let her youngest son be a hostage. To this end, she put up a quick sign: "if anyone urges me to take Chang'an Jun as a hostage in the state of Qi, I'll spit on his face.". All officials thought, it's up to your old lady. The country is not mine. If I live in the state of Qin, you can't tell. Spitting is not terrible. I'm afraid that after the state of Zhao is saved, the Empress Dowager will settle accounts in the autumn and kill the whole family and destroy the three families. Do you think we are stupid x? Well, at this time, loyal officials (gentlemen) show their true colors. Master Zuo (official name) first tells an example of his son: ask the Empress Dowager to arrange an official position for my youngest son Shu Qi. It's better to defend the palace. I didn't expect that there were people who opened the way for their children 3000 years ago. The Empress Dowager immediately became kind: so your men love children so much? Left teacher said: which parents do not love, I love his son more than his mother. The Empress Dowager retorted: No, my mother loves me more. You see, what words can move the stubborn empress dowager Zhao? Like it: you love me more than you do. Here's the common topic. Master Zuo then threw out the words prepared earlier to the Empress Dowager: the minister thought that the Empress Dowager loved empress Yan more (the princess of Zhao who married to the state of Yan). When empress Yan married, the Empress Dowager cried bitterly and missed her day by day. However, when offering sacrifices to her ancestors, he begged her not to return home and let her children ascend the throne. She became the queen Dowager. The queen mother said: Yes. Teacher Zuo asked: do you expect Chang'an Jun to have a good future? If you wish, you must let him do meritorious service. You see, as soon as the topic changed, teacher Zuo introduced maternal love to the future of her children. The Empress Dowager was a mother first. She didn't want her children to be hostages. But the future was even greater love, so the Empress Dowager listened to teacher Zuo's words. Zuo Shi then said: Zhao Guoli has owned the country for three generations. When the country was founded, many royal descendants were awarded. Now most of them have withered and have not become princes and generals (pillars of the country). Why? No ability, no strength, no credit, so I can't keep my title. You think it is love to protect your child from wind and rain, but you don't want him to keep his title and fiefdom without experience? Look, if Zuo Shi wants to live in modern times, he will sum up that "he can't be rich for three generations". Empress Dowager Zhao immediately prepared 100 military vehicles for Chang'an Jun and sent them to the state of Qi as hostages. The state of Qi sent troops to save Zhao, and the Qin army retreated. Why is it useless for a hundred officials to persuade the Empress Dowager in a few words, and he is willing to send his son as a hostage? Throw in their favor and touch the interests of Empress Dowager Zhao. At first you have to say something she can hear, so that she can't be on guard. This is like Dayu's flood control. The first three appointed blocking methods failed. Because there is no channel to vent, as the saying goes, "if you can't bear it, you don't have to bear it anymore". Empress dowager Zhao can't help her temper and is likely to behead the admonishing officials and destroy the three ethnic groups. Therefore, Zuo long must let her accept it in her heart. Then make it clear. Don't you love children? If you think about your daughter every day, will you let her go home? Definitely not willing. The same is true for the younger son, so that he can keep his title and enjoy prosperity for a long time. He must have strength and credit, right? It's not for the country. In the final analysis, it's for your little son's own good. Han Han said, "I have heard a lot of truth, but I can't live a good life", because those principles may not work. Chicken soup taught us that we can succeed without talking. The mute succeeded. In fact, those who are good at networking not only often speak, but also use words to guide others to achieve their goals. This is that smart people pretend to be confused and don't tell others the secret. Real people think that "gossip is not about people." it's better to say less about everything. They strictly require themselves to become stuffy gourds and don't say anything. "Eight poles can't make a stuffy fart". It seems that they can keep a secret and hold their mind, but because they can't drive others, they can only do anything by themselves, "they have to carry their teeth", and in the end, they still achieve nothing.

There is only one kind of people in the world. Because they speak differently, they become two kinds of people, resulting in different destinies. As the saying goes: "details determine success or failure". A small sentence belongs to the smallest details, but it can "make people live and die". For example, on the highway, it is easy for drivers to fight in groups with a casual curse. Speaking is so important, but some chicken soup says, "don't talk about people's mistakes in gossip, sit still and often think about yourself.". This sentence is true, but one can't help talking. Cao Cao and Liu Bei, the famous employment heroes of the Three Kingdoms, both rely on talking to people to find talents and achieve hegemony. Then how can we talk so that talents can be used by themselves and achieve their goals? Look at what little people did in the Warring States period. In that era when all heroes rose together, mothers still loved their children as much. Empress Dowager Zhao dotes on her youngest son, Chang'an Jun. even when the country is about to be destroyed by Qin, she doesn't want to ask the state of Qi for help and let her youngest son be a hostage. To this end, she put up a quick sign: "if anyone urges me to take Chang'an Jun as a hostage in the state of Qi, I'll spit on his face.". All officials thought, it's up to your old lady. The country is not mine. If I live in the state of Qin, you can't tell. Spitting is not terrible. I'm afraid that after the state of Zhao is saved, the Empress Dowager will settle accounts in the autumn and kill the whole family and destroy the three families. Do you think we are stupid x? Well, at this time, loyal officials (gentlemen) show their true colors. Master Zuo (official name) first tells an example of his son: ask the Empress Dowager to arrange an official position for my youngest son Shu Qi. It's better to defend the palace. I didn't expect that there were people who opened the way for their children 3000 years ago. The Empress Dowager immediately became kind: so your men love children so much? Left teacher said: which parents do not love, I love his son more than his mother. The Empress Dowager retorted: No, my mother loves me more. You see, what words can move the stubborn empress dowager Zhao? Like it: you love me more than you do. Here's the common topic. Master Zuo then threw out the words prepared earlier to the Empress Dowager: the minister thought that the Empress Dowager loved empress Yan more (the princess of Zhao who married to the state of Yan). When empress Yan married, the Empress Dowager cried bitterly and missed her day by day. However, when offering sacrifices to her ancestors, he begged her not to return home and let her children ascend the throne. She became the queen Dowager. The queen mother said: Yes. Teacher Zuo asked: do you expect Chang'an Jun to have a good future? If you wish, you must let him do meritorious service. You see, as soon as the topic changed, teacher Zuo introduced maternal love to the future of her children. The Empress Dowager was a mother first. She didn't want her children to be hostages. But the future was even greater love, so the Empress Dowager listened to teacher Zuo's words. Zuo Shi then said: Zhao Guoli has owned the country for three generations. When the country was founded, many royal descendants were awarded. Now most of them have withered and have not become princes and generals (pillars of the country). Why? No ability, no strength, no credit, so I can't keep my title. You think it is love to protect your child from wind and rain, but you don't want him to keep his title and fiefdom without experience? Look, if Zuo Shi wants to live in modern times, he will sum up that "he can't be rich for three generations". Empress Dowager Zhao immediately prepared 100 military vehicles for Chang'an Jun and sent them to the state of Qi as hostages. The state of Qi sent troops to save Zhao, and the Qin army retreated. Why is it useless for a hundred officials to persuade the Empress Dowager in a few words, and he is willing to send his son as a hostage? Throw in their favor and touch the interests of Empress Dowager Zhao. At first you have to say something she can hear, so that she can't be on guard. This is like Dayu's flood control. The first three appointed blocking methods failed. Because there is no channel to vent, as the saying goes, "if you can't bear it, you don't have to bear it anymore". Empress dowager Zhao can't help her temper and is likely to behead the admonishing officials and destroy the three ethnic groups. Therefore, Zuo long must let her accept it in her heart. Then make it clear. Don't you love children? If you think about your daughter every day, will you let her go home? Definitely not willing. The same is true for the younger son, so that he can keep his title and enjoy prosperity for a long time. He must have strength and credit, right? It's not for the country. In the final analysis, it's for your little son's own good. Han Han said, "I have heard a lot of truth, but I can't live a good life", because those principles may not work. Chicken soup taught us that we can succeed without talking. The mute succeeded. In fact, those who are good at networking not only often speak, but also use words to guide others to achieve their goals. This is that smart people pretend to be confused and don't tell others the secret. Real people think that "gossip is not about people." it's better to say less about everything. They strictly require themselves to become stuffy gourds and don't say anything. "Eight poles can't make a stuffy fart". It seems that they can keep a secret and hold their mind, but because they can't drive others, they can only do anything by themselves, "they have to carry their teeth", and in the end, they still achieve nothing.