In life, many people like to stand in their own perspective, think they know others well, criticize others casually, and think the world is right. In fact, you don't know other people's life, and you can't sympathize with other people's ups and downs, so don't criticize others or criticize others easily. What kind of life others have and what kind of road they take will never be truly understood by others. Therefore, no one has the right to criticize or comment on others, because you can't experience everything without real experience. Maybe you are a little smarter than others. Others' life may not be much in your eyes, but you should not look at and criticize others from your own position. Don't say everything too absolutely and don't be too subjective. In fact, sometimes we should know how to look at problems from another angle. There is a fable that says "a pig, a sheep and a cow are locked in the same corral. Once, the owner caught the pig, and the pig shouted and resisted violently. The sheep and the cow hated its cry and accused them angrily:" you are too exaggerated. He often came to catch us, and we don't shout. "The pig answered," catching you is totally different from catching me. He only wants your hair and milk when he catches you, but catching me will kill me! "The sheep and the cow were silent when they heard this. This story shows that it is difficult for people with different positions and environments to understand each other's feelings. If we are good at looking at problems from the position of others, we can understand others from the bottom of our heart, which is closer and more in line with the facts. It is also easy to make people more compassionate and easy for others to accept. In this way, there will be less misunderstandings and contradictions between people. All the results of this world are not produced for no reason. Anyone who does anything has his reasons and reasons. Everyone's life has unknown joys and sorrows. The reason why some people always like to blame others without asking questions is often because they don't understand the reasons behind it. Before you blame others, be sure to get a comprehensive understanding of the situation. If you are eager to blame and criticize without distinction, it is easy to hurt others. From another angle, you will find that you are not the only protagonist in the world. There are thousands of people and thousands of kinds. Everyone has his own story and everyone is the protagonist in his own story. No matter whether the story is ordinary or tortuous, everyone has experienced different stories, or sadness or happiness. Life is changeable. Everyone will have tears and sadness. We should learn to appreciate and sympathize with others and be kind to others. There is such a truth. A doctor rushed to the hospital as soon as possible after receiving the call for emergency surgery and changed into surgical clothes. The boy's (patient's) father shouted to him out of control: "Why are you so late? Don't you know my son is in danger? Why don't you have a sense of responsibility? "The doctor smiled calmly and said," I'm sorry. I was not in the hospital just now. I came immediately after receiving the call. Please calm down. "" calm down? If your son is lying in the operating room, can you calm down? What would you do if your son died now? "Said the boy's father angrily. The doctor smiled calmly and said, "I will recite the prayer 'we come from the dust and return to the dust. Blessing is the name of the Lord." Please pray for your son! "The boy's father said angrily," only when a person is indifferent to other people's life and death. "A few hours later, the operation was successfully completed. The doctor happily came out of the operating room and said to the boy's father," thank God, your son has been saved! "Before the boy's father answered, he hurried away and said," if you have any questions, you can ask the nurse! "Why is he so arrogant? Can't he wait a few minutes for me to ask about his son? "The boy's father said angrily to the nurse. The nurse's tears came out at once: "his son died in a traffic accident yesterday. When we asked him to operate on your son, he was on his way to the funeral home. Now he has saved your son and wants to finish his son's funeral. “ You don't know other people's lives. Please don't blame at will. What happened in other people's lives, what twists and turns they are experiencing and suffering, you may not know from your own position, what you see is only the appearance. Don't blame others easily, because we don't have enough wisdom to know the joys and sorrows of other people's life and truly understand the ups and downs of others. It is difficult for everyone to understand each other's feelings because of their different positions and environments. Therefore, don't blindly blame and criticize at will, otherwise it will hurt others. A real cultured person, Being able to achieve others with "compassion and tolerance" is actually achieving yourself. A "obedience" phenomenon "The person who can know how to extricate himself is the one who really knows self-cultivation. Think about the hardships we have experienced in our mental journey, and then we can know the suffering of others. Think about how many unknown sadness and suffering we have, and we know that other people's lives actually have the same content and experience ups and downs on the way of life. Think about us If you walk through the ups and downs, you know how others walk through the ups and downs. A person who really knows self-cultivation should know "the use and harm of language", and know not to look at problems unilaterally from his own perspective, so that the harm between people will be reduced a lot. One flower, one world, one leaf, one Bodhi. In fact, it is not difficult to do this. If you are kind to others and considerate of others, you can get inner peace in this secular world. As a saying goes, "happiness does not depend on wealth, power and appearance, but on how you get along with the people around you. "Be a happy person and be kind to others!

In life, many people like to stand in their own perspective, think they know others well, criticize others casually, and think the world is right. In fact, you don't know other people's life, and you can't sympathize with other people's ups and downs, so don't criticize others or criticize others easily. What kind of life others have and what kind of road they take will never be truly understood by others. Therefore, no one has the right to criticize or comment on others, because you can't experience everything without real experience. Maybe you are a little smarter than others. Others' life may not be much in your eyes, but you should not look at and criticize others from your own position. Don't say everything too absolutely and don't be too subjective. In fact, sometimes we should know how to look at problems from another angle. There is a fable that says "a pig, a sheep and a cow are locked in the same corral. Once, the owner caught the pig, and the pig shouted and resisted violently. The sheep and the cow hated its cry and accused them angrily:" you are too exaggerated. He often came to catch us, and we don't shout. "The pig answered," catching you is totally different from catching me. He only wants your hair and milk when he catches you, but catching me will kill me! "The sheep and the cow were silent when they heard this. This story shows that it is difficult for people with different positions and environments to understand each other's feelings. If we are good at looking at problems from the position of others, we can understand others from the bottom of our heart, which is closer and more in line with the facts. It is also easy to make people more compassionate and easy for others to accept. In this way, there will be less misunderstandings and contradictions between people. All the results of this world are not produced for no reason. Anyone who does anything has his reasons and reasons. Everyone's life has unknown joys and sorrows. The reason why some people always like to blame others without asking questions is often because they don't understand the reasons behind it. Before you blame others, be sure to get a comprehensive understanding of the situation. If you are eager to blame and criticize without distinction, it is easy to hurt others. From another angle, you will find that you are not the only protagonist in the world. There are thousands of people and thousands of kinds. Everyone has his own story and everyone is the protagonist in his own story. No matter whether the story is ordinary or tortuous, everyone has experienced different stories, or sadness or happiness. Life is changeable. Everyone will have tears and sadness. We should learn to appreciate and sympathize with others and be kind to others. There is such a truth. A doctor rushed to the hospital as soon as possible after receiving the call for emergency surgery and changed into surgical clothes. The boy's (patient's) father shouted to him out of control: "Why are you so late? Don't you know my son is in danger? Why don't you have a sense of responsibility? "The doctor smiled calmly and said," I'm sorry. I was not in the hospital just now. I came immediately after receiving the call. Please calm down. "" calm down? If your son is lying in the operating room, can you calm down? What would you do if your son died now? "Said the boy's father angrily. The doctor smiled calmly and said, "I will recite the prayer 'we come from the dust and return to the dust. Blessing is the name of the Lord." Please pray for your son! "The boy's father said angrily," only when a person is indifferent to other people's life and death. "A few hours later, the operation was successfully completed. The doctor happily came out of the operating room and said to the boy's father," thank God, your son has been saved! "Before the boy's father answered, he hurried away and said," if you have any questions, you can ask the nurse! "Why is he so arrogant? Can't he wait a few minutes for me to ask about his son? "The boy's father said angrily to the nurse. The nurse's tears came out at once: "his son died in a traffic accident yesterday. When we asked him to operate on your son, he was on his way to the funeral home. Now he has saved your son and wants to finish his son's funeral. “ You don't know other people's lives. Please don't blame at will. What happened in other people's lives, what twists and turns they are experiencing and suffering, you may not know from your own position, what you see is only the appearance. Don't blame others easily, because we don't have enough wisdom to know the joys and sorrows of other people's life and truly understand the ups and downs of others. It is difficult for everyone to understand each other's feelings because of their different positions and environments. Therefore, don't blindly blame and criticize at will, otherwise it will hurt others. A real cultured person, Being able to achieve others with "compassion and tolerance" is actually achieving yourself. A "obedience" phenomenon "The person who can know how to extricate himself is the one who really knows self-cultivation. Think about the hardships we have experienced in our mental journey, and then we can know the suffering of others. Think about how many unknown sadness and suffering we have, and we know that other people's lives actually have the same content and experience ups and downs on the way of life. Think about us If you walk through the ups and downs, you know how others walk through the ups and downs. A person who really knows self-cultivation should know "the use and harm of language", and know not to look at problems unilaterally from his own perspective, so that the harm between people will be reduced a lot. One flower, one world, one leaf, one Bodhi. In fact, it is not difficult to do this. If you are kind to others and considerate of others, you can get inner peace in this secular world. As a saying goes, "happiness does not depend on wealth, power and appearance, but on how you get along with the people around you. "Be a happy person and be kind to others!