Speak through your head and be careful in your words and deeds. I'll tell you important things three times: more words are useless! Many words are useless! Many words are useless! The mouth is just a big horn. You must pay attention to controlling the tone and volume at ordinary times, otherwise you will bring yourself a lot of trouble. Decades of friendship is sometimes broken in a word. Only those who have suffered losses in this regard can really understand it. Don't just talk for a while and talk endlessly, thinking that people give you a smiling face is to love to listen to you, so they will talk out their heartfelt words endlessly. As a result, people will thoroughly find out your family background. They will not only lose interest in you, but also secretly laugh at you for being stupid.

Others ask you for help. If you can't help others to the end, politely refuse. Don't agree. Finally, if you don't help, fail to do it, or retreat halfway for various reasons, you will not only bury the human feelings you have paid before, but also fall into the reputation of being ready to lose the chain and lack of loyalty, which will delay other people's major events.

Don't rush to a conclusion when you encounter something. Even if you have an answer in your heart, don't say it right away. You might as well wait. Maybe someone else has a better solution and say it earlier. What if you make a fool of yourself? Especially when you are in trouble, you must learn to wait and slow down. Many times, not only the trouble is resolved, but also good luck.

If you can bear the villains, you can bear them. If you step back, you can't give them your own space. It doesn't hurt at all. Feel at ease to do your own thing and make them intoxicated like birds singing and dancing. As the saying goes, adults are generous and don't put small things in their hearts. Villains have a small stomach and chicken intestines. If they provoke villains, they will wait and get into trouble. One villain will fight down and countless villains will stand up. Villains have plenty of time to deal with you. Until now, I haven't come up with a better way to defeat villains. The only thing I know is that it's a good way to treat villains at a distance.

In this world, there is no love or hate for no reason. There are reasons why others treat you well and why they treat you badly. Moreover, many situations are your reasons. Don't be too tangled. Don't openly fight against people. Just be aware of them. The so-called smooth way of life is to see through a lot of things without telling them. You can smile when you see someone you hate!

Don't be cynical and conceited all day. Look down on the rich and official second generation. Their parents have the ability, and they don't owe you. You think they are wine bags and dandies. In fact, after you contact them, you will find that their education and ability are better than you! Therefore, if you have the opportunity to contact and make friends with the rich and official second generation, it is much better than making friends with your friends who eat, drink and call brothers every day!

When doing things, we must set our own moral bottom line in advance. Thieves also know that some things must not be stolen. Therefore, no matter what you do, you must never do it. Don't do anything that falls into a well, let alone make way for others, which is tantamount to moving forward; If you set aside steps for others, you are climbing high.

For those who often trouble you or even bully you, if you can bear it, you don't have to fight against him or her again, but you must save it for him or her, record the new and old grudges in the account, and give him or her a thorough lesson when you see the opportunity. Within the legal scope, straighten and beat him or her to death, so that he or she will always remember that no one will get used to your smelly problems except your parents.

If you cause trouble or loss, you must be the first thief to shout to catch the thief. For example, if you break the company's flowerpot and no one sees it, you must be the first to shout: who knocked over the flowerpot! I don't know. Clean it up and let me clean it up! For example, if you steal something and take it home, you can find it first the next day: who sees something, I want to use it, and who sees it? Waiting for others to find something broken or gone, they are likely to doubt you! Although this one is easy to use, but Xiaobian doesn't teach you to learn bad. Don't use it often, and don't do anything illegal!

I don't care how you spend your time outside, flirt with women, don't do business, eat, drink, whore and gamble. In short, when you get home, you must respect the people who love you, and be very attentive and diligent. You look like a good man (woman) at home. No matter how your parents express their dissatisfaction with your other half in front of you, you must speak well of your parents in front of your other half. Never be a herald, and vice versa. That is, speak well of your partner in front of your parents. Xiaobian, this is not to teach you to cheat, but to learn to balance family and career. Don't let career affect family, let alone family affect career. That's not cost-effective. Family and career will be affected or even lost. Marriage needs deception. If there is no deception, China will not have a complete family!

Those who praise you behind your back, you know, you should cherish it in your heart, because there is little water in it. Those who praise you face to face also have sincerity, but most of them are flattery. If you say it's more ugly, it's flattery. You can smile, but forget it later. Maybe I'll fill you with ecstasy and ask you soon. For those who praise you in public, you should be vigilant. Maybe you turn around and poke you with your fingers. Interpersonal communication should master one principle: when meeting people, you should belittle yourself more, praise others less in person and praise others more behind their back. Don't worry that it won't reach the ears of the parties. Of course, when choosing the first person to evaluate you, remember to introduce yourself, and when it's time to recommend someone, don't be stingy with your praise.

Some people are used to taking advantage of small things. For these people, they can't be killed with a stick. They should take advantage of what they should do. Small people have small intestines. Adults are generous. Don't haggle over trivial things. These people often take advantage of small things and suffer big losses. You should find a big opportunity to pit them (her) for a big one and make them bleed a lot, At the same time, let him (her) remember: there is no free lunch in the world. There is no bargain for you to earn. Similarly, saving more small favors from others is a big hole. As long as you accept them, you must find opportunities to return. When you go down the spring breeze and look at the summer rain, you pay for harvest. In fact, it is a simple relationship between seeds and fruits. Don't let innocence hurt you. Remember: contacts are the exchange of interests. They are all looking for the balance of interests. Only a balanced game can be played.

As the saying goes: hearing is believing, seeing is believing. In fact, from the perspective of reality, what you see may not be true. Life is like a play, all depends on acting skills. You give 10 yuan to a ragged beggar in the street. Maybe at the meal point, people roll up their clothes and go back to the villa for dinner, and the wife and children heat the Kang! In fact, some people who look very poor have a much higher income than you, and you look very painful. In fact, they are just showing you for fear of envy, jealousy and hatred or borrowing money from others. Therefore, some people like to say that they are bad here and where they are bad. Just listen and laugh. Don't be silly and credulous, as if people were crying in a BMW and you were laughing on your bike.

The so-called fate is nothing more than good and evil. Cherish the good and don't absolutely reject the evil. I believe it's fate to pass you by. With nearly 7 billion people in the world, it's not easy to meet anyone. Therefore, when you meet villains, you should also try to be tolerant and give each other a chance. You can't deny them completely. There is no reason for you to respect the people who suffer from social diseases. Although there is no reason for you to respect the people who suffer from social diseases, there is no reason for you to stay away from them.

When friends of different social status are present, don't just curry favor with those dignified figures. Pay attention to those friends who are low status, introverted, unnoticed and may have a sense of inferiority. Helping the vulnerable in social life will get special gratitude from these people. For 30 years, Feng Shui has changed in turn. Maybe the loser who you said hello and looked up to counter attacked, you must be the first to think of! This is the so-called: poor, you are not, who are you; If you have nothing, you will never forget you!

When others do something wrong, if you can't give reasonable suggestions and correct methods, please don't simply criticize people. It's useless! Everyone knows the truth. The key is how to do it. If you want to criticize people, avoid criticizing others in an emotional way, pay special attention to the case, and do not involve other people's personality, character, personality and family upbringing. Don't criticize blindly. When criticizing, don't forget to first affirm the strengths of others, for example: Although you do this..., but. If the criticism can be humorous, the negative effects will be less.

When dealing with people, you should put yourself in a correct position. You can't always treat yourself as a character and take yourself seriously. You always feel good about yourself. Even if you are really a person with great achievements, you should be cautious, keep a low profile and be wise as a fool. In fact, the final outcome of people is the same. That small box is the destination of everyone, but you see yourself as complex, so the world is complex, As the saying goes: don't take yourself seriously. In fact, you're not the same thing. When you have this state of mind, you really become one thing!

Speak through your head and be careful in your words and deeds. I'll tell you important things three times: more words are useless! Many words are useless! Many words are useless! The mouth is just a big horn. You must pay attention to controlling the tone and volume at ordinary times, otherwise you will bring yourself a lot of trouble. Decades of friendship is sometimes broken in a word. Only those who have suffered losses in this regard can really understand it. Don't just talk for a while and talk endlessly, thinking that people give you a smiling face is to love to listen to you, so they will talk out their heartfelt words endlessly. As a result, people will thoroughly find out your family background. They will not only lose interest in you, but also secretly laugh at you for being stupid.

Others ask you for help. If you can't help others to the end, politely refuse. Don't agree. Finally, if you don't help, fail to do it, or retreat halfway for various reasons, you will not only bury the human feelings you have paid before, but also fall into the reputation of being ready to lose the chain and lack of loyalty, which will delay other people's major events.

Don't rush to a conclusion when you encounter something. Even if you have an answer in your heart, don't say it right away. You might as well wait. Maybe someone else has a better solution and say it earlier. What if you make a fool of yourself? Especially when you are in trouble, you must learn to wait and slow down. Many times, not only the trouble is resolved, but also good luck.

If you can bear the villains, you can bear them. If you step back, you can't give them your own space. It doesn't hurt at all. Feel at ease to do your own thing and make them intoxicated like birds singing and dancing. As the saying goes, adults are generous and don't put small things in their hearts. Villains have a small stomach and chicken intestines. If they provoke villains, they will wait and get into trouble. One villain will fight down and countless villains will stand up. Villains have plenty of time to deal with you. Until now, I haven't come up with a better way to defeat villains. The only thing I know is that it's a good way to treat villains at a distance.

In this world, there is no love or hate for no reason. There are reasons why others treat you well and why they treat you badly. Moreover, many situations are your reasons. Don't be too tangled. Don't openly fight against people. Just be aware of them. The so-called smooth way of life is to see through a lot of things without telling them. You can smile when you see someone you hate!

Don't be cynical and conceited all day. Look down on the rich and official second generation. Their parents have the ability, and they don't owe you. You think they are wine bags and dandies. In fact, after you contact them, you will find that their education and ability are better than you! Therefore, if you have the opportunity to contact and make friends with the rich and official second generation, it is much better than making friends with your friends who eat, drink and call brothers every day!

When doing things, we must set our own moral bottom line in advance. Thieves also know that some things must not be stolen. Therefore, no matter what you do, you must never do it. Don't do anything that falls into a well, let alone make way for others, which is tantamount to moving forward; If you set aside steps for others, you are climbing high.

For those who often trouble you or even bully you, if you can bear it, you don't have to fight against him or her again, but you must save it for him or her, record the new and old grudges in the account, and give him or her a thorough lesson when you see the opportunity. Within the legal scope, straighten and beat him or her to death, so that he or she will always remember that no one will get used to your smelly problems except your parents.

If you cause trouble or loss, you must be the first thief to shout to catch the thief. For example, if you break the company's flowerpot and no one sees it, you must be the first to shout: who knocked over the flowerpot! I don't know. Clean it up and let me clean it up! For example, if you steal something and take it home, you can find it first the next day: who sees something, I want to use it, and who sees it? Waiting for others to find something broken or gone, they are likely to doubt you! Although this one is easy to use, but Xiaobian doesn't teach you to learn bad. Don't use it often, and don't do anything illegal!

I don't care how you spend your time outside, flirt with women, don't do business, eat, drink, whore and gamble. In short, when you get home, you must respect the people who love you, and be very attentive and diligent. You look like a good man (woman) at home. No matter how your parents express their dissatisfaction with your other half in front of you, you must speak well of your parents in front of your other half. Never be a herald, and vice versa. That is, speak well of your partner in front of your parents. Xiaobian, this is not to teach you to cheat, but to learn to balance family and career. Don't let career affect family, let alone family affect career. That's not cost-effective. Family and career will be affected or even lost. Marriage needs deception. If there is no deception, China will not have a complete family!

Those who praise you behind your back, you know, you should cherish it in your heart, because there is little water in it. Those who praise you face to face also have sincerity, but most of them are flattery. If you say it's more ugly, it's flattery. You can smile, but forget it later. Maybe I'll fill you with ecstasy and ask you soon. For those who praise you in public, you should be vigilant. Maybe you turn around and poke you with your fingers. Interpersonal communication should master one principle: when meeting people, you should belittle yourself more, praise others less in person and praise others more behind their back. Don't worry that it won't reach the ears of the parties. Of course, when choosing the first person to evaluate you, remember to introduce yourself, and when it's time to recommend someone, don't be stingy with your praise.

Some people are used to taking advantage of small things. For these people, they can't be killed with a stick. They should take advantage of what they should do. Small people have small intestines. Adults are generous. Don't haggle over trivial things. These people often take advantage of small things and suffer big losses. You should find a big opportunity to pit them (her) for a big one and make them bleed a lot, At the same time, let him (her) remember: there is no free lunch in the world. There is no bargain for you to earn. Similarly, saving more small favors from others is a big hole. As long as you accept them, you must find opportunities to return. When you go down the spring breeze and look at the summer rain, you pay for harvest. In fact, it is a simple relationship between seeds and fruits. Don't let innocence hurt you. Remember: contacts are the exchange of interests. They are all looking for the balance of interests. Only a balanced game can be played.

As the saying goes: hearing is believing, seeing is believing. In fact, from the perspective of reality, what you see may not be true. Life is like a play, all depends on acting skills. You give 10 yuan to a ragged beggar in the street. Maybe at the meal point, people roll up their clothes and go back to the villa for dinner, and the wife and children heat the Kang! In fact, some people who look very poor have a much higher income than you, and you look very painful. In fact, they are just showing you for fear of envy, jealousy and hatred or borrowing money from others. Therefore, some people like to say that they are bad here and where they are bad. Just listen and laugh. Don't be silly and credulous, as if people were crying in a BMW and you were laughing on your bike.

The so-called fate is nothing more than good and evil. Cherish the good and don't absolutely reject the evil. I believe it's fate to pass you by. With nearly 7 billion people in the world, it's not easy to meet anyone. Therefore, when you meet villains, you should also try to be tolerant and give each other a chance. You can't deny them completely. There is no reason for you to respect the people who suffer from social diseases. Although there is no reason for you to respect the people who suffer from social diseases, there is no reason for you to stay away from them.

When friends of different social status are present, don't just curry favor with those dignified figures. Pay attention to those friends who are low status, introverted, unnoticed and may have a sense of inferiority. Helping the vulnerable in social life will get special gratitude from these people. For 30 years, Feng Shui has changed in turn. Maybe the loser who you said hello and looked up to counter attacked, you must be the first to think of! This is the so-called: poor, you are not, who are you; If you have nothing, you will never forget you!

When others do something wrong, if you can't give reasonable suggestions and correct methods, please don't simply criticize people. It's useless! Everyone knows the truth. The key is how to do it. If you want to criticize people, avoid criticizing others in an emotional way, pay special attention to the case, and do not involve other people's personality, character, personality and family upbringing. Don't criticize blindly. When criticizing, don't forget to first affirm the strengths of others, for example: Although you do this..., but. If the criticism can be humorous, the negative effects will be less.

When dealing with people, you should put yourself in a correct position. You can't always treat yourself as a character and take yourself seriously. You always feel good about yourself. Even if you are really a person with great achievements, you should be cautious, keep a low profile and be wise as a fool. In fact, the final outcome of people is the same. That small box is the destination of everyone, but you see yourself as complex, so the world is complex, As the saying goes: don't take yourself seriously. In fact, you're not the same thing. When you have this state of mind, you really become one thing!