If you have money, you have to live an ordinary life. Maybe the so-called success is to live in the way you want. One holiday internship to Shanghai, a developer asked us to do activities and arrange to stay in a super five-star hotel. The lobby of the hotel was described in eight words as "magnificent, like a palace". I live alone in a luxurious big bed room. On the bedside table is a delicate vase with a fresh Calla Lily in the middle. The toilet ring in the bathroom keeps the body temperature at all times, and there are several buttons to adjust the amount of water to be washed, as well as the drying function. Fortunately, I saw a more luxurious toilet in the book "the elegance of hedgehogs" before: when the button is washed, there is a surround sound on the top of the head that will play music for you; Otherwise, a loser like me may be constipated by those functions. Standing in the middle of the room, I couldn't help but perform an exaggerated and awkward line of the international chapter (Zhang Ziyi) in the film Jasmine bloom: "ah, such a good room, such a high-end toilet room, and such a soft bed, ah..." On this day, I was so excited that I not only experienced a handful of luxury, but also vaguely found my life goal: "if I could live in such a place in my life, I would be happy to die. Well, I want to fight for this goal, this is the life I want!" I fell asleep with the excitement of finding the direction and goal of life. When I woke up the next morning and opened the quilt, I found that I slept only a small part of such a large bed, only one fifth of the sheets were wrinkled, and the other four fifths of the white sheets were flat and brand-new. I touched them with my hand, and then decided to lie down where I hadn't slept for a while. The loser temperament suddenly poured out like the surging Yangtze River. The price of the buffet breakfast that day was 288 yuan. There were a wide range of things. I ate the same as myself at home: a bowl of porridge, two small meat bags, a few small fried dough sticks, a dish of pickles, and a cup of yogurt. All day long, I was thinking about a question: even if one day, I really become rich, will I really be happier than now? I still only sleep in such a big place and eat those simple breakfasts. My needs don't seem to change much. In fact, I need very little. What else do I need? You see, in only one day, I fell into confusion again, from a life with clear goals to not knowing what I really want. I knew a female boss last year. First of all, she is very beautiful. She is 35 years old and has a beautiful appearance. The skin on her face is smooth and tight, and can be broken by blowing bullets. Her chest is not sagging at all. Her waist circumference has been maintained at 24 for many years. She is dressed in gorgeous clothes and has outstanding temperament; Secondly, her family is very happy. Her husband, who has opened several companies, loves her very much, treats her gently and generously, and gives her gifts every holiday. There is also a very cute daughter who goes to kindergarten; Finally, she was successful in her own business, running a 100 person company with an annual profit of more than 10 million. In the eyes of outsiders, she is really happy, and everyone will envy her life. She is the object of envy and hatred, but one day she actually said to me on the Internet: "I often feel that life is very desperate, really desperate." Mr. Zhang, a friend of my friend, is a big boss in Taiwan. His father founded a large company. He is the second generation of rich people who inherited his father's business and has a fortune of more than 100 million. At the age of 50, he flies around factories in Taiwan, Chinese Mainland, Vietnam, Singapore and other places every month. While traveling on business, he also travels, eats, drinks and plays. He looks very natural and unrestrained. Once, when a friend invited him to dinner and chatted during the dinner, he said that he felt very confused and tired and did not know what he would do next. The passion of doing business has faded a lot, and I can no longer find the passion of working hard when I was young. Then he talked about his experience of a trip. Once when he was traveling in Yangshuo, he met a tramp artist with African drums. He watched each other perform for a long time, and then two people chatted. He knew that this tramp was very free and had been to many places. He admired each other very much, and especially wanted to put down his work and wander with him. He felt that this was the life he wanted. When he came to Yangshuo for the second time, he went to the street to find the wandering artist. He never met him again, and he was disappointed. Here I think of the story of fishermen and merchants: An American businessman was sitting on the dock of a small fishing village on the coast of Mexico, watching a Mexican fisherman pull up a small boat with several big yellowfin tuna on it. The American businessman complimented the Mexican fishermen on catching such high-end fish, and asked how long it would take to catch so many? The Mexican fisherman said he caught it in a short time. Americans ask again, why don't you stay longer and catch more fish? Mexican fishermen don't think so: these fish are enough for my family! The American asked again: what are you doing with so much time left in the day? The Mexican fisherman explained: me? I wake up naturally after sleeping every day, catch a few fish at sea, and come back to play with the children; Take another nap with your wife, go to the village to have a drink at dusk, and play guitar with your friends. My life is full and busy! The American didn't think so and gave him advice. He said: I'm a master of business administration from Harvard University, and I can help you! You should spend more time catching fish every day, and then you will have money to buy a bigger boat. Naturally, you can catch more fish and buy more fishing boats. Then you can have a fishing fleet. At that time, you don't have to sell fish to fishmongers, but directly to processing plants. Then you can open a cannery by yourself. In this way, you can control the whole production, processing and marketing. Then you can leave this small fishing village, move to Mexico City, then move to Los Angeles, and finally to New York, where you can run your expanding business. The Mexican fisherman asked: how long does it take? Americans answer: fifteen to twenty years. The Mexican fisherman asked: and then? The American laughed and said: then you can be the emperor at home! As soon as the time comes, you can announce the listing of your shares and sell your shares to the investing public. Then you will send them! You can earn hundreds of millions! so what? Americans say: then you can retire! You can move to a small fishing village by the sea. Wake up naturally after sleeping every day, catch a few fish at sea, play with the children, and then take a nap with your wife. At dusk, go to the village to drink some wine and play guitar with your friends. The Mexican fisherman said in doubt: isn't that what I am now? In this story, I don't think anyone's choice is right or wrong. It's just different choices and different lives. If you feel content with the status quo is what you want, then choosing a life that is content with the status quo will make you happy and satisfied; If you are not willing to be mediocre and choose a path of change, progress and struggle, you will also feel happy in the process of this pursuit. The so-called success may be living according to the lifestyle you want. The worst state is when you want to choose a path that is not mediocre, change, progress and struggle, but live in a way that is content with the status quo, and finally complain that you have not got the life you want!

If you have money, you have to live an ordinary life. Maybe the so-called success is to live in the way you want. One holiday internship to Shanghai, a developer asked us to do activities and arrange to stay in a super five-star hotel. The lobby of the hotel was described in eight words as "magnificent, like a palace". I live alone in a luxurious big bed room. On the bedside table is a delicate vase with a fresh Calla Lily in the middle. The toilet ring in the bathroom keeps the body temperature at all times, and there are several buttons to adjust the amount of water to be washed, as well as the drying function. Fortunately, I saw a more luxurious toilet in the book "the elegance of hedgehogs" before: when the button is washed, there is a surround sound on the top of the head that will play music for you; Otherwise, a loser like me may be constipated by those functions. Standing in the middle of the room, I couldn't help but perform an exaggerated and awkward line of the international chapter (Zhang Ziyi) in the film Jasmine bloom: "ah, such a good room, such a high-end toilet room, and such a soft bed, ah..." On this day, I was so excited that I not only experienced a handful of luxury, but also vaguely found my life goal: "if I could live in such a place in my life, I would be happy to die. Well, I want to fight for this goal, this is the life I want!" I fell asleep with the excitement of finding the direction and goal of life. When I woke up the next morning and opened the quilt, I found that I slept only a small part of such a large bed, only one fifth of the sheets were wrinkled, and the other four fifths of the white sheets were flat and brand-new. I touched them with my hand, and then decided to lie down where I hadn't slept for a while. The loser temperament suddenly poured out like the surging Yangtze River. The price of the buffet breakfast that day was 288 yuan. There were a wide range of things. I ate the same as myself at home: a bowl of porridge, two small meat bags, a few small fried dough sticks, a dish of pickles, and a cup of yogurt. All day long, I was thinking about a question: even if one day, I really become rich, will I really be happier than now? I still only sleep in such a big place and eat those simple breakfasts. My needs don't seem to change much. In fact, I need very little. What else do I need? You see, in only one day, I fell into confusion again, from a life with clear goals to not knowing what I really want. I knew a female boss last year. First of all, she is very beautiful. She is 35 years old and has a beautiful appearance. The skin on her face is smooth and tight, and can be broken by blowing bullets. Her chest is not sagging at all. Her waist circumference has been maintained at 24 for many years. She is dressed in gorgeous clothes and has outstanding temperament; Secondly, her family is very happy. Her husband, who has opened several companies, loves her very much, treats her gently and generously, and gives her gifts every holiday. There is also a very cute daughter who goes to kindergarten; Finally, she was successful in her own business, running a 100 person company with an annual profit of more than 10 million. In the eyes of outsiders, she is really happy, and everyone will envy her life. She is the object of envy and hatred, but one day she actually said to me on the Internet: "I often feel that life is very desperate, really desperate." Mr. Zhang, a friend of my friend, is a big boss in Taiwan. His father founded a large company. He is the second generation of rich people who inherited his father's business and has a fortune of more than 100 million. At the age of 50, he flies around factories in Taiwan, Chinese Mainland, Vietnam, Singapore and other places every month. While traveling on business, he also travels, eats, drinks and plays. He looks very natural and unrestrained. Once, when a friend invited him to dinner and chatted during the dinner, he said that he felt very confused and tired and did not know what he would do next. The passion of doing business has faded a lot, and I can no longer find the passion of working hard when I was young. Then he talked about his experience of a trip. Once when he was traveling in Yangshuo, he met a tramp artist with African drums. He watched each other perform for a long time, and then two people chatted. He knew that this tramp was very free and had been to many places. He admired each other very much, and especially wanted to put down his work and wander with him. He felt that this was the life he wanted. When he came to Yangshuo for the second time, he went to the street to find the wandering artist. He never met him again, and he was disappointed. Here I think of the story of fishermen and merchants: An American businessman was sitting on the dock of a small fishing village on the coast of Mexico, watching a Mexican fisherman pull up a small boat with several big yellowfin tuna on it. The American businessman complimented the Mexican fishermen on catching such high-end fish, and asked how long it would take to catch so many? The Mexican fisherman said he caught it in a short time. Americans ask again, why don't you stay longer and catch more fish? Mexican fishermen don't think so: these fish are enough for my family! The American asked again: what are you doing with so much time left in the day? The Mexican fisherman explained: me? I wake up naturally after sleeping every day, catch a few fish at sea, and come back to play with the children; Take another nap with your wife, go to the village to have a drink at dusk, and play guitar with your friends. My life is full and busy! The American didn't think so and gave him advice. He said: I'm a master of business administration from Harvard University, and I can help you! You should spend more time catching fish every day, and then you will have money to buy a bigger boat. Naturally, you can catch more fish and buy more fishing boats. Then you can have a fishing fleet. At that time, you don't have to sell fish to fishmongers, but directly to processing plants. Then you can open a cannery by yourself. In this way, you can control the whole production, processing and marketing. Then you can leave this small fishing village, move to Mexico City, then move to Los Angeles, and finally to New York, where you can run your expanding business. The Mexican fisherman asked: how long does it take? Americans answer: fifteen to twenty years. The Mexican fisherman asked: and then? The American laughed and said: then you can be the emperor at home! As soon as the time comes, you can announce the listing of your shares and sell your shares to the investing public. Then you will send them! You can earn hundreds of millions! so what? Americans say: then you can retire! You can move to a small fishing village by the sea. Wake up naturally after sleeping every day, catch a few fish at sea, play with the children, and then take a nap with your wife. At dusk, go to the village to drink some wine and play guitar with your friends. The Mexican fisherman said in doubt: isn't that what I am now? In this story, I don't think anyone's choice is right or wrong. It's just different choices and different lives. If you feel content with the status quo is what you want, then choosing a life that is content with the status quo will make you happy and satisfied; If you are not willing to be mediocre and choose a path of change, progress and struggle, you will also feel happy in the process of this pursuit. The so-called success may be living according to the lifestyle you want. The worst state is when you want to choose a path that is not mediocre, change, progress and struggle, but live in a way that is content with the status quo, and finally complain that you have not got the life you want!