A few days ago, a blogger sent me a message saying: I read many of your articles and want to tell you about my current situation. I'm a little confused. Now I can't jump out of my own way of thinking. Can you spare some time to analyze it for me? To tell you the truth, I'm very moved! Moved by her trust in me. But what I want to say is: first, I'm not a spiritual leader. I still have a lot of problems to solve. 2、 I can help you. I'll try my best to help you, but that's not the decisive factor. 3、 In other words, there is no standard answer in life. Everything can only go according to your own wishes, and you have no regrets! There is no standard answer in life! Behind everyone, there are different backgrounds, different experiences, different feelings and different consciousness. We are all trying to improve ourselves, so we have a lot of questions. This is understandable. However, there is confusion. Who hasn't been confused? Don't even philosophers come from confusion? There are even many people who are still confused to death! He inquires into what the original ecological world is, because he inquires into the original essence of life. You think, can he not be confused? We don't think so much, but we still like to ask a few more "100000 why?" Therefore, in the process of moving, I can't help wondering. It's like going to a strange place. On the way, you have a kind of joy and a kind of desire; At the same time, there is also a kind of worry and anxiety. This is normal! As long as you stick to your goal, the confusion must be temporary. When you arrive at your destination, everything will be natural. You will feel that your worries and anxieties are so superfluous, just as the ancients said: there is nothing in the world, and no one bothers himself! There is no standard answer in life! Everyone's path may be different, but it must be the same way, that is to be the most real yourself! Only if you do, you will feel at ease and have a sense of achievement. There are thousands of roads in the world, each of which can reach the end. But when you are on the road, there will be ups and downs, fetters, cliffs and abysses. But this will not be your desperate situation! "Thousands of sails pass by the side of a sunken boat, and thousands of trees spring in front of a diseased tree". (www.lz13. CN) adjust your mood and slow down when you are in a hurry; When you are lazy, you can't help adding a few lashes to yourself. Enlarge your mind as much as possible and put your confusion into a big environment. Then you will find that your personal pain is so worthless. At that time, you will really achieve "not to rejoice in things, not to grieve for yourself". You will really mature. There is no standard answer in life! When you are confused, say to yourself: there is no standard answer in life! Even if the rain is thin and the muddy waves are empty, even if the world seems to turn around in front of you all at once, you only face your face scalded by your tears, and you only come to the dock lonely without a ferry. Then you should also believe in yourself and ask for the answer from your heart. Is it a faint drift, or a solid climb? There is no mountain you can't climb on the road of life. When you climb over this mountain, there is another day of Liuan Huaming in front of you. There are many times, it is necessary to stick to that minute. As long as you stick to that minute, the scenery in front of you will be different. And most people died a minute ago! Therefore, understanding life is not more heroic, but more tenacious! There is no standard answer in life! You are actually the answer to your own life!

A few days ago, a blogger sent me a message saying: I read many of your articles and want to tell you about my current situation. I'm a little confused. Now I can't jump out of my own way of thinking. Can you spare some time to analyze it for me? To tell you the truth, I'm very moved! Moved by her trust in me. But what I want to say is: first, I'm not a spiritual leader. I still have a lot of problems to solve. 2、 I can help you. I'll try my best to help you, but that's not the decisive factor. 3、 In other words, there is no standard answer in life. Everything can only go according to your own wishes, and you have no regrets! There is no standard answer in life! Behind everyone, there are different backgrounds, different experiences, different feelings and different consciousness. We are all trying to improve ourselves, so we have a lot of questions. This is understandable. However, there is confusion. Who hasn't been confused? Don't even philosophers come from confusion? There are even many people who are still confused to death! He inquires into what the original ecological world is, because he inquires into the original essence of life. You think, can he not be confused? We don't think so much, but we still like to ask a few more "100000 why?" Therefore, in the process of moving, I can't help wondering. It's like going to a strange place. On the way, you have a kind of joy and a kind of desire; At the same time, there is also a kind of worry and anxiety. This is normal! As long as you stick to your goal, the confusion must be temporary. When you arrive at your destination, everything will be natural. You will feel that your worries and anxieties are so superfluous, just as the ancients said: there is nothing in the world, and no one bothers himself! There is no standard answer in life! Everyone's path may be different, but it must be the same way, that is to be the most real yourself! Only if you do, you will feel at ease and have a sense of achievement. There are thousands of roads in the world, each of which can reach the end. But when you are on the road, there will be ups and downs, fetters, cliffs and abysses. But this will not be your desperate situation! "Thousands of sails pass by the side of a sunken boat, and thousands of trees spring in front of a diseased tree". (www.lz13. CN) adjust your mood and slow down when you are in a hurry; When you are lazy, you can't help adding a few lashes to yourself. Enlarge your mind as much as possible and put your confusion into a big environment. Then you will find that your personal pain is so worthless. At that time, you will really achieve "not to rejoice in things, not to grieve for yourself". You will really mature. There is no standard answer in life! When you are confused, say to yourself: there is no standard answer in life! Even if the rain is thin and the muddy waves are empty, even if the world seems to turn around in front of you all at once, you only face your face scalded by your tears, and you only come to the dock lonely without a ferry. Then you should also believe in yourself and ask for the answer from your heart. Is it a faint drift, or a solid climb? There is no mountain you can't climb on the road of life. When you climb over this mountain, there is another day of Liuan Huaming in front of you. There are many times, it is necessary to stick to that minute. As long as you stick to that minute, the scenery in front of you will be different. And most people died a minute ago! Therefore, understanding life is not more heroic, but more tenacious! There is no standard answer in life! You are actually the answer to your own life!