I have a friend named Lao Gao, who has become more and more beautiful in the past two years. She threw eight blocks away from her in high school. Seeing Lao Gao's current appearance, the students insisted that Lao Gao had a facelift; I posted the photos on my microblog. I wanted to inspire my ambition, but countless people came up and said "it must be cosmetic surgery". Lao Gao learned to make up when he grew up and greeted his face with all kinds of cosmetics, but he never had cosmetic surgery. Many people ask Lao Gao how he can be so thin and how to keep a good figure. Lao Gao's secret is: fitness, exercise, hard work, more than ten hours a day, all physical work. She opened a restaurant in Japan. She was understaffed and needed to wash dishes, collect money and clean up by herself; At the same time, it also needs to shop, pack, move around and deliver goods. I'm as tired as a dog every day. How can I be fat? Why is there a gap with her? Maybe when she is learning makeup in front of the video, you are sleeping in the sun, and then she will become a beauty. You are still the earthy you when you graduated. It's so simple. Students who were similar in school, after several years of wandering after graduation, are very different in terms of social address, economic income, appearance, figure and living state. One and a half days of hard work can't see any difference, but it's particularly terrible over time. People are constantly developing and changing. If they can't use their abilities when they go to school, they may just use them when they enter the society; The ability of learning in childhood may later become the ability of others to eat. Life is fickle and fate is unbearable. I've been standing still for several years. When I see others prospering, I start to turn sour water. The reason why we turn against sour water is that we have no ability to catch up with others and are unwilling to admit that others are better than ourselves. We always think that it is normal for you to be like me, so we use malicious speculation to make ourselves feel at ease. After thinking like this, shall we have a good time? The first time I met Xiao Ling was a few years ago, a girl who wandered around, gave up Harvard and Yale offer to start a business, and earned a record of 10W a day. Hum, what's so great? She looks so beautiful. It must be either her father or a godfather behind her. Otherwise, how could a college student or a girl have such a great ability. At that time, she and I published books in the same publishing house at the same time. It took us a long time to get acquainted. Today, I still don't know how Xiaoling can start a business in college and earn a pot of gold foil, how to give up the first company at the climax and turn to the fashion customization industry, and how to open three salad shops in the third business in half a year. I've only seen her make every minute efforts to set up a salad shop. Today she travels to several cities to choose an address, tomorrow she plans carefully to set furniture, the day after tomorrow she goes to battle with her bare hands to nail and decorate, and the day after tomorrow she struggles with the overlord clause of the mall. The struggle is just sitting on the roadside crying alone. When I was sitting in the air-conditioned room listening to music, drinking coffee and chatting with my friends, Xiao Ling experienced a very different life from me in the same parallel period. She not only didn't have a godfather, but also helped her family pay off their foreign debts for several years. When such a girl can open three stores alone for half a year, she earns more than me and lives a better life than me, what's my imbalance? Whenever I see someone better than myself, I always remind myself of his advantages, what I don't have, and what I should learn from him. Even if the other party has a background, a relationship and a way, it must have other advantages to succeed. For example, some people like to be sociable and have a wide range of contacts, while I like to stay silent at home when I'm free; For example, if others insist on watching a ted English speech every day, they will be much better than me over time. When you see that others are excellent, your first reaction should be to find your own gap, rather than complaining and running on others' efforts. Even if I put other people's relationships and ways on myself, can I do as well as him? Or is the mud still unable to hold onto the wall? In the environment where we live, most people have the same qualifications and background. When we stand still, there are always some people running forward without stopping. One day, when we meet again, don't feel that others are showing off their wealth with you, and don't feel that others are pretending to force. That's the most common life at their level. Of course, everyone has different aspirations. Some people like the plain life like water, others like the mall with swords and swords. But no matter what the environment, hard work is a required course. Life is not easy. Even if you keep running forward, you will be in a hurry. When you see the efforts and success of others, please give him a Zan for his excellence, rather than stabbing him in the back.

I have a friend named Lao Gao, who has become more and more beautiful in the past two years. She threw eight blocks away from her in high school. Seeing Lao Gao's current appearance, the students insisted that Lao Gao had a facelift; I posted the photos on my microblog. I wanted to inspire my ambition, but countless people came up and said "it must be cosmetic surgery". Lao Gao learned to make up when he grew up and greeted his face with all kinds of cosmetics, but he never had cosmetic surgery. Many people ask Lao Gao how he can be so thin and how to keep a good figure. Lao Gao's secret is: fitness, exercise, hard work, more than ten hours a day, all physical work. She opened a restaurant in Japan. She was understaffed and needed to wash dishes, collect money and clean up by herself; At the same time, it also needs to shop, pack, move around and deliver goods. I'm as tired as a dog every day. How can I be fat? Why is there a gap with her? Maybe when she is learning makeup in front of the video, you are sleeping in the sun, and then she will become a beauty. You are still the earthy you when you graduated. It's so simple. Students who were similar in school, after several years of wandering after graduation, are very different in terms of social address, economic income, appearance, figure and living state. One and a half days of hard work can't see any difference, but it's particularly terrible over time. People are constantly developing and changing. If they can't use their abilities when they go to school, they may just use them when they enter the society; The ability of learning in childhood may later become the ability of others to eat. Life is fickle and fate is unbearable. I've been standing still for several years. When I see others prospering, I start to turn sour water. The reason why we turn against sour water is that we have no ability to catch up with others and are unwilling to admit that others are better than ourselves. We always think that it is normal for you to be like me, so we use malicious speculation to make ourselves feel at ease. After thinking like this, shall we have a good time? The first time I met Xiao Ling was a few years ago, a girl who wandered around, gave up Harvard and Yale offer to start a business, and earned a record of 10W a day. Hum, what's so great? She looks so beautiful. It must be either her father or a godfather behind her. Otherwise, how could a college student or a girl have such a great ability. At that time, she and I published books in the same publishing house at the same time. It took us a long time to get acquainted. Today, I still don't know how Xiaoling can start a business in college and earn a pot of gold foil, how to give up the first company at the climax and turn to the fashion customization industry, and how to open three salad shops in the third business in half a year. I've only seen her make every minute efforts to set up a salad shop. Today she travels to several cities to choose an address, tomorrow she plans carefully to set furniture, the day after tomorrow she goes to battle with her bare hands to nail and decorate, and the day after tomorrow she struggles with the overlord clause of the mall. The struggle is just sitting on the roadside crying alone. When I was sitting in the air-conditioned room listening to music, drinking coffee and chatting with my friends, Xiao Ling experienced a very different life from me in the same parallel period. She not only didn't have a godfather, but also helped her family pay off their foreign debts for several years. When such a girl can open three stores alone for half a year, she earns more than me and lives a better life than me, what's my imbalance? Whenever I see someone better than myself, I always remind myself of his advantages, what I don't have, and what I should learn from him. Even if the other party has a background, a relationship and a way, it must have other advantages to succeed. For example, some people like to be sociable and have a wide range of contacts, while I like to stay silent at home when I'm free; For example, if others insist on watching a ted English speech every day, they will be much better than me over time. When you see that others are excellent, your first reaction should be to find your own gap, rather than complaining and running on others' efforts. Even if I put other people's relationships and ways on myself, can I do as well as him? Or is the mud still unable to hold onto the wall? In the environment where we live, most people have the same qualifications and background. When we stand still, there are always some people running forward without stopping. One day, when we meet again, don't feel that others are showing off their wealth with you, and don't feel that others are pretending to force. That's the most common life at their level. Of course, everyone has different aspirations. Some people like the plain life like water, others like the mall with swords and swords. But no matter what the environment, hard work is a required course. Life is not easy. Even if you keep running forward, you will be in a hurry. When you see the efforts and success of others, please give him a Zan for his excellence, rather than stabbing him in the back.