作者：魏剑峰 链接：https://www.zhihu.com/question/35250665/answer/62753748 来源：知乎 著作权归作者所有。商业转载请联系作者获得授权，非商业转载请注明出处。 We convince ourselves that life will be better after we get married, have a baby, then another. Then we’re frustrated that the kids aren’t old enough and we’ll be more content when they are. After that, we’re frustrated that we have teenagers to deal with. We’ll certainly be happy when they’re out of that stage. We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or...