In a person's lifetime, they can only take advantage of minor benefits, not significant ones. It's impossible to keep a large windfall for long if one is unworthy, especially since the larger the benefit, the less likely it is to retain it.The ancients said that beautiful women are disasters, referring to the fact that a beautiful woman can become a curse only if she is with someone unworthy of her. This is because others will compete for her, and she herself may seek a better partner. So, wh...