What is "respect"? A lot of people will say polite, equal, friendly discussion, sensible sharing of opinions... Yes, these are respect. In fact, we all have a bottom line that is not open- - If the things we encounter are beyond our common sense, will we still have the tolerance described above? Will we still discuss everything unknown with him politely?

A newspaper director brought an intern reporter to the home of the interviewee for an interview. This is an old painter who has no children and lives alone. When they entered, they were surprised - the room smelled of musty; socks and underwear were piled up casually, and a few cockroaches sprang from time to time; many eaten instant noodle boxes were thrown on the table, and they were piled with soot , has grown green hair and looks terrible.

They almost "opened" a path through various debris before they walked to the sofa. In order to be able to sit more spaciously, they had to do their own work to remove the paintbrushes and palettes covered with dyes, as well as the large piles of paint on the sofa. The waste paper was moved to the ground. When all this was over and she could finally sit down and chat, the intern reporter was about to frown her brows.

The old painter was not ashamed and accepted the interview calmly. After the interview, the two said goodbye to him. He said, "Thank you for coming to interview me, but please reset those things on the sofa before leaving. I will use them later, I'm afraid I won't be able to find them." The director said yes, Then put those brushes and paper balls back to their original positions one by one.

After going out, the intern reporter didn't understand very much, and said angrily, "What can be restored in such a messy home? Wouldn't he be embarrassed?"

The director smiled and said, "Don't be angry, because maybe he really thinks that is the most reasonable way of life. What we see is messy, but in his eyes it is orderly."

"No one would live such a terrible life!" She was still indignant.

"We don't live like this, but he lives like this, and we are not qualified to criticize and hostile, because he doesn't rely on us, he has his own values ​​and ideas. It may not be correct, but it must be respected."

Many times we cannot achieve "respect", just because the things we face are beyond "common sense", subverting our recognized outlook on life and the world, and running counter to our education.

However, calm down and think again, everyone is a free individual and has the right to choose a way of life. Even if it is recognized as absurd or bizarre, as long as it does not violate human morality and laws, it cannot obliterate the meaning of its existence.

A Taiwanese scholar wrote an article "What the Earthquake in Japan Teach Us". In his article, he summed up the calmness, objectivity and professionalism of Japanese TV media when disaster strikes. All the footage was strictly kept at a certain distance, and the people in front of the TV could hardly see blood, death and hoarse wailing.

One day, NHK wanted to interview a father and his surviving son's reunion after the disaster. When asking his father's opinion, the father thought about it, and then apologetically asked the media to wait for a while. He wanted to ask his son's opinion, and then turned around and entered the ward. The camera was on, and there was a white curtain in front of it. For two full minutes, during the broadcast, there was no movement or cut, until the father came out to signal that he could go in and shoot. The whole process is intriguing and thought-provoking.

While giving the interviewees enough understanding, it also gives the viewers enough right to know, which is the double respect given by the media. This elegant and prudent interview has been unanimously praised by global public opinion, and NHK's reporting has been evaluated as "gentleman-like reporting style".

Many times, respect is by no means the etiquette of social occasions, but comes from one person's natural equal-mindedness towards another person, an equal dialogue from the heart, simple and clear, neither utilitarian nor cheap.

It is not difficult to respect everything that is reasonable, but it is difficult to respect everything that is unreasonable. To be able to overcome this difficulty is a kind of greatness in itself.

Do not discriminate against other people's attitude towards life, do not interfere with other people's living conditions, give each other independent personal space, and consider each other's existence in this society in any form, and accept the existence of all seemingly "unbelievable" things with a peaceful mind. This is the real nobility and the elegance of the soul.

What is "respect"? A lot of people will say polite, equal, friendly discussion, sensible sharing of opinions... Yes, these are respect. In fact, we all have a bottom line that is not open- - If the things we encounter are beyond our common sense, will we still have the tolerance described above? Will we still discuss everything unknown with him politely?

A newspaper director brought an intern reporter to the home of the interviewee for an interview. This is an old painter who has no children and lives alone. When they entered, they were surprised - the room smelled of musty; socks and underwear were piled up casually, and a few cockroaches sprang from time to time; many eaten instant noodle boxes were thrown on the table, and they were piled with soot , has grown green hair and looks terrible.

They almost "opened" a path through various debris before they walked to the sofa. In order to be able to sit more spaciously, they had to do their own work to remove the paintbrushes and palettes covered with dyes, as well as the large piles of paint on the sofa. The waste paper was moved to the ground. When all this was over and she could finally sit down and chat, the intern reporter was about to frown her brows.

The old painter was not ashamed and accepted the interview calmly. After the interview, the two said goodbye to him. He said, "Thank you for coming to interview me, but please reset those things on the sofa before leaving. I will use them later, I'm afraid I won't be able to find them." The director said yes, Then put those brushes and paper balls back to their original positions one by one.

After going out, the intern reporter didn't understand very much, and said angrily, "What can be restored in such a messy home? Wouldn't he be embarrassed?"

The director smiled and said, "Don't be angry, because maybe he really thinks that is the most reasonable way of life. What we see is messy, but in his eyes it is orderly."

"No one would live such a terrible life!" She was still indignant.

"We don't live like this, but he lives like this, and we are not qualified to criticize and hostile, because he doesn't rely on us, he has his own values ​​and ideas. It may not be correct, but it must be respected."

Many times we cannot achieve "respect", just because the things we face are beyond "common sense", subverting our recognized outlook on life and the world, and running counter to our education.

However, calm down and think again, everyone is a free individual and has the right to choose a way of life. Even if it is recognized as absurd or bizarre, as long as it does not violate human morality and laws, it cannot obliterate the meaning of its existence.

A Taiwanese scholar wrote an article "What the Earthquake in Japan Teach Us". In his article, he summed up the calmness, objectivity and professionalism of Japanese TV media when disaster strikes. All the footage was strictly kept at a certain distance, and the people in front of the TV could hardly see blood, death and hoarse wailing.

One day, NHK wanted to interview a father and his surviving son's reunion after the disaster. When asking his father's opinion, the father thought about it, and then apologetically asked the media to wait for a while. He wanted to ask his son's opinion, and then turned around and entered the ward. The camera was on, and there was a white curtain in front of it. For two full minutes, during the broadcast, there was no movement or cut, until the father came out to signal that he could go in and shoot. The whole process is intriguing and thought-provoking.

While giving the interviewees enough understanding, it also gives the viewers enough right to know, which is the double respect given by the media. This elegant and prudent interview has been unanimously praised by global public opinion, and NHK's reporting has been evaluated as "gentleman-like reporting style".

Many times, respect is by no means the etiquette of social occasions, but comes from one person's natural equal-mindedness towards another person, an equal dialogue from the heart, simple and clear, neither utilitarian nor cheap.

It is not difficult to respect everything that is reasonable, but it is difficult to respect everything that is unreasonable. To be able to overcome this difficulty is a kind of greatness in itself.

Do not discriminate against other people's attitude towards life, do not interfere with other people's living conditions, give each other independent personal space, and consider each other's existence in this society in any form, and accept the existence of all seemingly "unbelievable" things with a peaceful mind. This is the real nobility and the elegance of the soul.