A mental treatment center invited me to have a discussion with patients, hoping that I could help patients find the outlet of their souls from the perspective of a writer. The patients who participated in the discussion included high-level intellectuals and workers and citizens, but they all shared the same disease characteristics. They all believed that they had been forced to live by life, abandoned by the world, and rejected by their families. ​​ One of them was an associate professor of the archaeology department of the university. Because Professor Zhengzheng was not selected, he believed that the leaders of the college discriminated against him, and the judges believed that he had no academic achievements, and then he began to doubt his interpersonal and professional ability, and even began to complain that he had let him I chose this boring professional tutor by myself. Because of this professional relationship, I will not be able to deal with many things in life, and my ability to live is getting worse and worse. Thinking about it like this, he gradually finds it difficult to get out of the shackles of his own thinking, and complains about himself every day. In the end, he can't even carry on his research, and he can't even live a basic life. ​​

I have been patiently listening to their complaints and understanding everyone's mental journey. Finally, I told the doctors at the center that if they were allowed to keep complaining in the ward like this, the patient's condition would not only not be relieved, but would worsen. They should be allowed to go to life and nature. ​​ I also have a lot of the same experience with them. Many times, when I suffer setbacks, I have the same emotional ups and downs, the same mental state as them. However, I am different from them in that I can always find the outlet of my soul in time. Whenever I suffer from unhappiness caused by frame-ups, doubts, and misunderstandings, I have a method, which is to drive my car to the countryside in the suburbs, to the quiet hillside, and to the quiet lake. In such an environment, seeing the jungle swaying in the wind, seeing the happy birds flying freely, and seeing the rippling lake water in the tranquility, I always suddenly have this thought: "Everything is the same as before, The world is not as bad as I thought, and my own life is not hopeless, everything is still in time." Or, when I feel that I am helpless in a thing, I try to make myself forget it, Start doing new things, and life opens up new windows. ​​

I feel that my communication with my patients is having some effect because I see the relief of understanding in their faces. In fact, most of the people in their lives have encountered the problems they encountered. Such encounters are as normal as there are clear skies and heavy rain and lightning. Don't we believe in a rainbow after a heavy rain? ​​ I had an in-depth conversation with the associate professor alone. I asked him a few questions: "Is there anyone in your college who is older than you and has not been rated as a professor? How is your child learning now? Do your students recognize your lectures? Peers and partners in your hometown Do you know how your life is now?" These questions immediately made the associate professor excited, and his eyes flashed with sparkling light. He said that there are several associate professors in the college who are a few years older than him and have not been rated as professors. His children are in the third year of high school and are the top students in their grades. He is the only college student in the village, always the pride and glory of his hometown, and a model for the neighbors to educate their children. After this series of words, he fell into deep thought. After a long time, he said to me: "Yes, I am a very lucky person, I am also a successful person, how did I get to this stage?" I said: "You are a very lucky person, but only , your higher purpose obscures your luck and light." He was suddenly enlightened. On that day, he returned to the academy and resumed his life and research. ​​ Many things in life, if you realize that you have done something wrong, it is already a signal of the beginning of a new life.

A mental treatment center invited me to have a discussion with patients, hoping that I could help patients find the outlet of their souls from the perspective of a writer. The patients who participated in the discussion included high-level intellectuals and workers and citizens, but they all shared the same disease characteristics. They all believed that they had been forced to live by life, abandoned by the world, and rejected by their families. ​​ One of them was an associate professor of the archaeology department of the university. Because Professor Zhengzheng was not selected, he believed that the leaders of the college discriminated against him, and the judges believed that he had no academic achievements, and then he began to doubt his interpersonal and professional ability, and even began to complain that he had let him I chose this boring professional tutor by myself. Because of this professional relationship, I will not be able to deal with many things in life, and my ability to live is getting worse and worse. Thinking about it like this, he gradually finds it difficult to get out of the shackles of his own thinking, and complains about himself every day. In the end, he can't even carry on his research, and he can't even live a basic life. ​​

I have been patiently listening to their complaints and understanding everyone's mental journey. Finally, I told the doctors at the center that if they were allowed to keep complaining in the ward like this, the patient's condition would not only not be relieved, but would worsen. They should be allowed to go to life and nature. ​​ I also have a lot of the same experience with them. Many times, when I suffer setbacks, I have the same emotional ups and downs, the same mental state as them. However, I am different from them in that I can always find the outlet of my soul in time. Whenever I suffer from unhappiness caused by frame-ups, doubts, and misunderstandings, I have a method, which is to drive my car to the countryside in the suburbs, to the quiet hillside, and to the quiet lake. In such an environment, seeing the jungle swaying in the wind, seeing the happy birds flying freely, and seeing the rippling lake water in the tranquility, I always suddenly have this thought: "Everything is the same as before, The world is not as bad as I thought, and my own life is not hopeless, everything is still in time." Or, when I feel that I am helpless in a thing, I try to make myself forget it, Start doing new things, and life opens up new windows. ​​

I feel that my communication with my patients is having some effect because I see the relief of understanding in their faces. In fact, most of the people in their lives have encountered the problems they encountered. Such encounters are as normal as there are clear skies and heavy rain and lightning. Don't we believe in a rainbow after a heavy rain? ​​ I had an in-depth conversation with the associate professor alone. I asked him a few questions: "Is there anyone in your college who is older than you and has not been rated as a professor? How is your child learning now? Do your students recognize your lectures? Peers and partners in your hometown Do you know how your life is now?" These questions immediately made the associate professor excited, and his eyes flashed with sparkling light. He said that there are several associate professors in the college who are a few years older than him and have not been rated as professors. His children are in the third year of high school and are the top students in their grades. He is the only college student in the village, always the pride and glory of his hometown, and a model for the neighbors to educate their children. After this series of words, he fell into deep thought. After a long time, he said to me: "Yes, I am a very lucky person, I am also a successful person, how did I get to this stage?" I said: "You are a very lucky person, but only , your higher purpose obscures your luck and light." He was suddenly enlightened. On that day, he returned to the academy and resumed his life and research. ​​ Many things in life, if you realize that you have done something wrong, it is already a signal of the beginning of a new life.