When I was in my mid-20s, I remember thinking and stating to my wife that I was one of the smartest people I knew. I was one of those arrogant dudes who thought he knew everything, lacking many important soft social skills.
This arrogance, combined with an intense drive to prove myself to the world, caused me to work nonstop on side hustles, neglecting very important things in life and rarely living in the moment. I tried a lot of things, from reselling books on Amazon to professional window cleaning, and finally did pretty decent launching a private label brand on Amazon.
One of the people I followed while building the private label brand was Ryan Moran, and he finally helped me learn how to keep my ego in check. It was this specific podcast episode that did it for me: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0JiHCZSKryiqtwmC4fnr6o?si=050a1e1e26a74ae0
This single podcast episode helped me understand that my whole life, I never thought I was enough, which is why I had such a high ego. I was building a wall of illusion to prove to myself and the world that I was enough.
Since listening to this in 2018, it's been so freeing for me. This realization, combined with finding my faith around the same time, has allowed me to slowly break down those walls I've built up and be more of my true self. Because this hit so close to home, I took an extremely deep dive of introspection.
It's allowed me to understand where my weaknesses are and work on them.
It's given me much more social confidence. I'm no longer the quiet dude who gets nervous in big groups of new people or the guy who gets social anxiety leading a meeting with 2 or 3 of my coworkers.
It's shut down my drive to chase shiny new objects, but instead, focus on purpose, live more in the moment, and truly understand what I should spend my time on RIGHT NOW.
It's given me new opportunities and challenges to test my newly found skills and self.
It's given me the confidence to be such a good hiring candidate that I can easily win the interviewer over when given a chance.
It's improved my current relationships because I'm no longer that annoying dude who thinks too highly of himself.
We're all broken in our own unique ways, just trying to do our best in this thing we call life.
Tim
Couldn't fit this story in one cast so I had to post a paragraph 😬 https://paragraph.xyz/@cryptim.eth/a-success-story-on-how-i-learned-to-keep-my-own-ego-in-check-and-become-a-better-person
Wow dude, thanks for sharing. I think the same thing happened to me when my brother died. Realized the pointlessness in a lot of the chase. Further reaffirmed with my dad’s Alzheimer’s diagnosis. Appreciate you sharing your story mate!
Sometimes it just takes one very unexpected thing to force you think about what really matters and start living. I could have made this super long going all the way back to high school but didn’t want to go on a soap box lol Very proud of you for what you’re doing and have accomplished so far
bookmarked so as to check later thank you
thanks for sharing brother! 🍖 x 50
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Just read your story 💜
It kinda goes against the hustle culture but if you do that you can be wasting a lot of time and sacrificing what matters
You've come a long way since your introduction to humility.
Definitely not perfect and still struggle but it’s a journey
Great growth my fren! Very proud of you! 500✨
Appreciate you Widow! 42 $degen
Really inspiring story bro and good personal growth. Proud of your accomplishment my fren.🫡
Thanks Adam, so happy I made the change
Welcome bro, happy you made a great decision.🫡
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and the wonderful reference! Will be listening tomorrow 👍 10 $degen
Let me know how you like it, I just relistened as I wrote this and it starts off a little slow but there’s so many great points to reflect on 20 $degen