Yijia, author of The Good Life Business Guide, offers a good lesson in how she handles emotions with her husband. The first step is to lose yourself in listening to the other person. In the process, there is no judgment, no debate, no right or wrong. I put myself completely in the position of the other side and see the world through the eyes of the other side. The second step is to share from the "I" point of view, only stating your objective feelings without blaming the other person or telli...

Yijia, author of The Good Life Business Guide, offers a good lesson in how she handles emotions with her husband. The first step is to lose yourself in listening to the other person. In the process, there is no judgment, no debate, no right or wrong. I put myself completely in the position of the other side and see the world through the eyes of the other side. The second step is to share from the "I" point of view, only stating your objective feelings without blaming the other person or telli...

You must remember the story of the farmer and the Snake from Aesop's Fables. The story goes that a farmer found a frozen snake by the side of the road on a cold winter's day. Feeling sorry for it, he took it into his arms and warmed it with the heat of his body. When the snake woke up, instead of thanking the farmer, it bit him. Before he died, the farmer regretted and said, "I have compassion on the wicked. I deserve to die and be recompensed." Unfortunately, if the farmer had know...

You must remember the story of the farmer and the Snake from Aesop's Fables. The story goes that a farmer found a frozen snake by the side of the road on a cold winter's day. Feeling sorry for it, he took it into his arms and warmed it with the heat of his body. When the snake woke up, instead of thanking the farmer, it bit him. Before he died, the farmer regretted and said, "I have compassion on the wicked. I deserve to die and be recompensed." Unfortunately, if the farmer had know...

Don't talk about gender, just opinions. I think of one of my predecessors, who was a very senior media person and then turned to advertising. Once, she had an argument with a brand customer. Both of them were a little upset. The other person suddenly said, "You call your boss. I won't talk to a whining woman like you." The senior immediately responded, "We both have emotions in this dispute. It has nothing to do with gender. At the same time, I represent the interests of the company...

Don't talk about gender, just opinions. I think of one of my predecessors, who was a very senior media person and then turned to advertising. Once, she had an argument with a brand customer. Both of them were a little upset. The other person suddenly said, "You call your boss. I won't talk to a whining woman like you." The senior immediately responded, "We both have emotions in this dispute. It has nothing to do with gender. At the same time, I represent the interests of the company...

On the day of leaving, she hid in her room and cried all the time. I thought she was afraid that she would be lonely and insecure without me, just like she was before I came. I told her that the parents who adopted you love you very much, and they will treat you very well. You will have many new children when you go to America. But this time, she said, if I leave, I will never have a chance to repay you. At that time, I really felt my heart tremble, a child's growth really far beyond our...

On the day of leaving, she hid in her room and cried all the time. I thought she was afraid that she would be lonely and insecure without me, just like she was before I came. I told her that the parents who adopted you love you very much, and they will treat you very well. You will have many new children when you go to America. But this time, she said, if I leave, I will never have a chance to repay you. At that time, I really felt my heart tremble, a child's growth really far beyond our...

'The important thing is to be able to find work that is worth risking your life on,' Mr. Matsuura said. After all, you have to work 60,000 hours in your lifetime, so it's better to find a career you're passionate about than 3.6 million minutes. Who wouldn't love it a little more if they could? Who wouldn't, if they could, find something they love and make a career out of it? But how do you find what you love? Where does love come from? We believe that love comes ...

'The important thing is to be able to find work that is worth risking your life on,' Mr. Matsuura said. After all, you have to work 60,000 hours in your lifetime, so it's better to find a career you're passionate about than 3.6 million minutes. Who wouldn't love it a little more if they could? Who wouldn't, if they could, find something they love and make a career out of it? But how do you find what you love? Where does love come from? We believe that love comes ...

Call a friend, he is not at home, his roommate picks up, this roommate is also my friend. "Huh? Why are you at home?" I said, "I remember you should go to the kiln today!" He then explained the reason and said that he couldn't go today. Then, when the conversation changed, he said with great pleasure, "You know what? I like this situation the most, and the thing is canceled - you suddenly have an extra day." His voice was almost cheering with excitement. I couldn't help laughing whe...

Call a friend, he is not at home, his roommate picks up, this roommate is also my friend. "Huh? Why are you at home?" I said, "I remember you should go to the kiln today!" He then explained the reason and said that he couldn't go today. Then, when the conversation changed, he said with great pleasure, "You know what? I like this situation the most, and the thing is canceled - you suddenly have an extra day." His voice was almost cheering with excitement. I couldn't help laughing whe...

Thinking misunderstanding actually shows the irrational side of people. Many people think that they should be in a very rational state when analyzing problems and even making decisions. Even in the past hundred years, the study of economics has been based on the premise of "rational man". Until one man came along, and that man was Daniel Kahneman. Daniel Kahneman was the first psychologist in history to win the Nobel Prize in economics, and one of his important studies was the peak-end Law. T...

Thinking misunderstanding actually shows the irrational side of people. Many people think that they should be in a very rational state when analyzing problems and even making decisions. Even in the past hundred years, the study of economics has been based on the premise of "rational man". Until one man came along, and that man was Daniel Kahneman. Daniel Kahneman was the first psychologist in history to win the Nobel Prize in economics, and one of his important studies was the peak-end Law. T...

My life so far has been divided into two parts, before and after the age of 20, like everyone else, but not exactly. That year, my best friend got liver cancer, because she was studying in the Netherlands, so naturally she knew that euthanasia was legal in the Netherlands. In order to get me to sign a consent for euthanasia, she refused to play Demerol and deliberately showed me how her liver cancer was destroying her. She bit her arm every day until she bit her teeth off. Then she told me th...

My life so far has been divided into two parts, before and after the age of 20, like everyone else, but not exactly. That year, my best friend got liver cancer, because she was studying in the Netherlands, so naturally she knew that euthanasia was legal in the Netherlands. In order to get me to sign a consent for euthanasia, she refused to play Demerol and deliberately showed me how her liver cancer was destroying her. She bit her arm every day until she bit her teeth off. Then she told me th...

As one of the world's greatest educators for the last 40 years, Donny Bozan's approach has inspired people to do their best to develop and use their brains for richer, more meaningful lives. He invented mind mapping in the 1960s, which was followed by a decade-long BBC science-fiction series called Jump-Start the Brain, and a book of the same name that sold millions of copies. His ideas spread far and wide and helped people realize the extraordinary capabilities of the brain. But he...

As one of the world's greatest educators for the last 40 years, Donny Bozan's approach has inspired people to do their best to develop and use their brains for richer, more meaningful lives. He invented mind mapping in the 1960s, which was followed by a decade-long BBC science-fiction series called Jump-Start the Brain, and a book of the same name that sold millions of copies. His ideas spread far and wide and helped people realize the extraordinary capabilities of the brain. But he...

If you want to keep your skin youthful forever, be sure to switch to a vegetable-based diet. Eating Vegetarian One day a week Many people think that the spiritual practice is very hard, especially the requirement of vegetarian, is unbearable for many people. But to be honest, we monks don't think eating vegetarian is eating bitterness. Of course, we can't expect ordinary people to follow us and be vegetarian or mainly vegetarian. Zen for ordinary people, is let nature take its cours...

If you want to keep your skin youthful forever, be sure to switch to a vegetable-based diet. Eating Vegetarian One day a week Many people think that the spiritual practice is very hard, especially the requirement of vegetarian, is unbearable for many people. But to be honest, we monks don't think eating vegetarian is eating bitterness. Of course, we can't expect ordinary people to follow us and be vegetarian or mainly vegetarian. Zen for ordinary people, is let nature take its cours...

Every day is your "festival" although many people's life has been more or less influenced by Zen, minimalist trend has been recognized and accepted by more and more people, but in real life, a lot of inertial power still can not be eliminated, such as people's enthusiasm for various festivals. In Japan, there are various festivals throughout the year, starting with the first visit on New Year's Day. If they are Buddhists, they will celebrate the other Shore Festival and the Obo...

Every day is your "festival" although many people's life has been more or less influenced by Zen, minimalist trend has been recognized and accepted by more and more people, but in real life, a lot of inertial power still can not be eliminated, such as people's enthusiasm for various festivals. In Japan, there are various festivals throughout the year, starting with the first visit on New Year's Day. If they are Buddhists, they will celebrate the other Shore Festival and the Obo...

In the face of difficulties, take the initiative to change the perspective, give learning meaning. The same is learning, why some people three days fishing two days sun net, and some people can persevere? In addition to the rules mentioned before, another important reason is that they view learning from different perspectives. For example, in some people's eyes, study may only be homework and exams, a task that has to be completed, but in others' eyes, study may be a pursuit and cha...

In the face of difficulties, take the initiative to change the perspective, give learning meaning. The same is learning, why some people three days fishing two days sun net, and some people can persevere? In addition to the rules mentioned before, another important reason is that they view learning from different perspectives. For example, in some people's eyes, study may only be homework and exams, a task that has to be completed, but in others' eyes, study may be a pursuit and cha...