If we repeatedly feel pain about things that we cannot change, it means that we have fallen into a kind of "self" obsession or "self" obsession. In other words, it is not the other person that makes us suffer, but our obsession. This obsession is called "I can change others."

If we repeatedly feel pain about things that we cannot change, it means that we have fallen into a kind of "self" obsession or "self" obsession. In other words, it is not the other person that makes us suffer, but our obsession. This obsession is called "I can change others."