Today, I intended to write about something entirely different. I wanted to focus on the future of fashion—how and why I see things unfolding in a specific way—but I’ve decided to save those thoughts for another time (most likely next week). Instead, I want to focus on a topic that has been on my mind recently. It's an issue that has led me to work on something beyond just a textual expression, a piece that will also be brought to life visually. This piece will be shared with you soon, as a few more details still need to be finalized. Until then, let me delve deeper into this topic through words, as I believe it is one that few of us truly consider—the impact emotional attachment has on us.

Since the dawn of time, the world we’ve inhabited or shaped has not been solely the one crafted by others, but the one we create through the stories we tell ourselves. Seeing things from this perspective, I believe that emotional attachment has played, and continues to play, a fundamental role in how we perceive and live in and with the world. It can be both a source of comfort and a weight that holds us back. Memories, relationships, and even past traumas are elements we cling to, as they form the foundation of our identities. Without them, we unconsciously fear losing the parts of ourselves we’ve carefully constructed over time. And yet, while the past offers invaluable lessons, it can also become a prison, trapping us in old patterns of thought and feeling. In these moments, we must learn how to emotionally detach from these experiences. This act of detachment is not one of coldness or indifference, as many might think, but a process that allows us to let go of emotional chains—to release the weight of the past and create space for something new. To witness true growth—both personal and collective—we must step away from the comfort of past experiences and embrace the uncertainty of change.

What I find intriguing about emotional attachment is that its nature often binds us to things we aren’t fully conscious of. For example, we tend to believe that it’s only the obvious traumas or regrets that we carry, but I believe the true impact of this attachment lies in the subtle, almost invisible ways we hold on to what once was. We become attached not only to people and events but also to the identities shaped by those experiences. While this attachment can feel validating, reinforcing who we believe we are and how we relate to the world, I also believe these attachments anchor us in old pain, preventing us from seeing beyond the familiar stories we’ve internalized. And if I were to look at society, I believe it encourages this attachment in many ways. Think about the glorification of nostalgia, the constant retelling of past struggles, or the social validation that comes from presenting oneself as someone who has “survived” life’s challenges.

One of the biggest problems I see with these attachments is that they can become incredibly self-limiting. When we cling to an outdated narrative of who we are, we close ourselves off to the possibility of transformation. We allow old wounds and the past to define our present and future selves, thus limiting our ability to grow. Emotional detachment, to me, is not about erasing the past or pretending it didn’t happen (as this is something I would never encourage anyone to do; the past is part of our narrative, shaping who we are today). Rather, I see detachment as a way to reframe our relationship with the past. It’s about acknowledging how our experiences have shaped us while refusing to let them dictate the choices we make moving forward. I strongly believe that by detaching from these past emotional investments, we free ourselves to evolve into more expansive versions of who we can become.

Regardless of how easy it may sound, the process of detachment is far from simple. I am personally on this journey, and many times I still find myself lost in the past, witnessing how it affects my present and, by extension, my future. It’s hard to detach from it because, in my experience, it often feels destructive. I have to dismantle the very structures I’ve relied on for a sense of identity. One of the things I am doing—and something I’m still learning to approach in the way I aspire to—is confronting the stories I tell myself: who I am, what I deserve, what I’ve lost. I’ve come to understand that while these stories are a meaningful part of my narrative, they are not the totality of my existence. This process of detachment invites us to step back and view our lives from a broader perspective, to see the past not as a prison but as a path that has brought us to where we are today. Only from this vantage point can we choose to move forward, unburdened by the weight of old narratives.

In many ways, emotional detachment can be likened to a kind of death—a death of the old self, defined by past experiences and attachments. This metaphorical death is not an option but a necessity if we want to make way for rebirth, for the emergence of a new self unbound by the limitations of the past. Take a look at nature. Just as it undergoes cycles of destruction and renewal to maintain its health and flourish, so too must we shed the parts of ourselves that no longer serve us to grow. It’s a painful and disorienting process—I fully agree with this—but it is through this discomfort that we gain the clarity and freedom needed for transformation.

As I mentioned earlier, I believe that this cycle of destruction and renewal is at the heart of all growth, whether personal or collective. We must be willing to let go of the old to make room for the new. And yet, this is even harder in today’s world, where attachment is glorified—whether to people, roles, material success, or other external markers. This entire process feels counterintuitive. We are taught that letting go is a form of failure, that it means giving up or abandoning something important. But in truth, it’s not about erasing the past; it’s about integrating it into the present in a way that allows us to move forward without being weighed down by it. Detachment is not about forgetting or rejecting what has shaped us. Rather, it’s about finding peace in knowing that while the past is a part of us, it does not define us.

I often say that art is just a search, not a final destination, and reflecting on this, I believe that when we learn the art of emotionally detaching from the past, we realize that we’ve embarked on a continuous search with a broader perspective on life. We begin to understand that our identities are not fixed but fluid, constantly evolving in response to new experiences and challenges. This shift helps us embrace change rather than fear it and see every ending as a new beginning. Detachment gives us the freedom to step outside the narrow confines of our past selves and explore new ways of being in the world. I genuinely believe that through this process, we can find a deeper sense of peace and purpose, as these feelings are often burdened by the weight of old emotional attachments.

I mentioned it earlier, but I feel the need to address this again. The idea of detachment feels so foreign or even threatening in today’s society, where such high value is placed on emotional attachment. We are taught to hold on tightly to the things we care about, to cherish the memories of what once was, and to allow our pasts to shape our present. But this often leads to stagnation, preventing us from fully living in the moment, from truly living life instead of merely existing, or from embracing the endless possibilities of the future. We don’t need to turn our backs on the people or experiences that have mattered to us; we just need to start recognizing that everything in life is transient and that true peace comes from accepting its impermanence. When we learn to let go of our need to control the past, we open ourselves to the beauty of the present and the potential of the future.

As new chapters are being added to our narrative, we will undoubtedly encounter moments that challenge our ability to detach—moments when the pull of the past feels overwhelming, when the stories we’ve told ourselves seem too deeply ingrained to let go. But it is in these moments that the power of detachment becomes most apparent. By stepping back from the emotions that bind us, we gain the clarity to see the situation for what it truly is: a moment in time, a chapter in the story of our lives, but not the whole book. Detachment allows us to move through these moments with grace and resilience, knowing that every challenge is an opportunity for growth, and every ending a chance for rebirth.

In the end, emotional detachment is about finding serenity in the ashes of what once was. It is about embracing the cyclical nature of life and understanding that destruction is a necessary precursor to renewal. Through detachment, we find the strength to let go of the past, not with bitterness or regret, but with gratitude for the lessons it has taught us. We move forward lighter, freer, and more fully alive, ready to embrace the next chapter of our lives with an open heart and a clear mind.

Thank you!

Have a blessed day!🌹

Eduard🌹

Today, I intended to write about something entirely different. I wanted to focus on the future of fashion—how and why I see things unfolding in a specific way—but I’ve decided to save those thoughts for another time (most likely next week). Instead, I want to focus on a topic that has been on my mind recently. It's an issue that has led me to work on something beyond just a textual expression, a piece that will also be brought to life visually. This piece will be shared with you soon, as a few more details still need to be finalized. Until then, let me delve deeper into this topic through words, as I believe it is one that few of us truly consider—the impact emotional attachment has on us.

Since the dawn of time, the world we’ve inhabited or shaped has not been solely the one crafted by others, but the one we create through the stories we tell ourselves. Seeing things from this perspective, I believe that emotional attachment has played, and continues to play, a fundamental role in how we perceive and live in and with the world. It can be both a source of comfort and a weight that holds us back. Memories, relationships, and even past traumas are elements we cling to, as they form the foundation of our identities. Without them, we unconsciously fear losing the parts of ourselves we’ve carefully constructed over time. And yet, while the past offers invaluable lessons, it can also become a prison, trapping us in old patterns of thought and feeling. In these moments, we must learn how to emotionally detach from these experiences. This act of detachment is not one of coldness or indifference, as many might think, but a process that allows us to let go of emotional chains—to release the weight of the past and create space for something new. To witness true growth—both personal and collective—we must step away from the comfort of past experiences and embrace the uncertainty of change.

What I find intriguing about emotional attachment is that its nature often binds us to things we aren’t fully conscious of. For example, we tend to believe that it’s only the obvious traumas or regrets that we carry, but I believe the true impact of this attachment lies in the subtle, almost invisible ways we hold on to what once was. We become attached not only to people and events but also to the identities shaped by those experiences. While this attachment can feel validating, reinforcing who we believe we are and how we relate to the world, I also believe these attachments anchor us in old pain, preventing us from seeing beyond the familiar stories we’ve internalized. And if I were to look at society, I believe it encourages this attachment in many ways. Think about the glorification of nostalgia, the constant retelling of past struggles, or the social validation that comes from presenting oneself as someone who has “survived” life’s challenges.

One of the biggest problems I see with these attachments is that they can become incredibly self-limiting. When we cling to an outdated narrative of who we are, we close ourselves off to the possibility of transformation. We allow old wounds and the past to define our present and future selves, thus limiting our ability to grow. Emotional detachment, to me, is not about erasing the past or pretending it didn’t happen (as this is something I would never encourage anyone to do; the past is part of our narrative, shaping who we are today). Rather, I see detachment as a way to reframe our relationship with the past. It’s about acknowledging how our experiences have shaped us while refusing to let them dictate the choices we make moving forward. I strongly believe that by detaching from these past emotional investments, we free ourselves to evolve into more expansive versions of who we can become.

Regardless of how easy it may sound, the process of detachment is far from simple. I am personally on this journey, and many times I still find myself lost in the past, witnessing how it affects my present and, by extension, my future. It’s hard to detach from it because, in my experience, it often feels destructive. I have to dismantle the very structures I’ve relied on for a sense of identity. One of the things I am doing—and something I’m still learning to approach in the way I aspire to—is confronting the stories I tell myself: who I am, what I deserve, what I’ve lost. I’ve come to understand that while these stories are a meaningful part of my narrative, they are not the totality of my existence. This process of detachment invites us to step back and view our lives from a broader perspective, to see the past not as a prison but as a path that has brought us to where we are today. Only from this vantage point can we choose to move forward, unburdened by the weight of old narratives.

In many ways, emotional detachment can be likened to a kind of death—a death of the old self, defined by past experiences and attachments. This metaphorical death is not an option but a necessity if we want to make way for rebirth, for the emergence of a new self unbound by the limitations of the past. Take a look at nature. Just as it undergoes cycles of destruction and renewal to maintain its health and flourish, so too must we shed the parts of ourselves that no longer serve us to grow. It’s a painful and disorienting process—I fully agree with this—but it is through this discomfort that we gain the clarity and freedom needed for transformation.

As I mentioned earlier, I believe that this cycle of destruction and renewal is at the heart of all growth, whether personal or collective. We must be willing to let go of the old to make room for the new. And yet, this is even harder in today’s world, where attachment is glorified—whether to people, roles, material success, or other external markers. This entire process feels counterintuitive. We are taught that letting go is a form of failure, that it means giving up or abandoning something important. But in truth, it’s not about erasing the past; it’s about integrating it into the present in a way that allows us to move forward without being weighed down by it. Detachment is not about forgetting or rejecting what has shaped us. Rather, it’s about finding peace in knowing that while the past is a part of us, it does not define us.

I often say that art is just a search, not a final destination, and reflecting on this, I believe that when we learn the art of emotionally detaching from the past, we realize that we’ve embarked on a continuous search with a broader perspective on life. We begin to understand that our identities are not fixed but fluid, constantly evolving in response to new experiences and challenges. This shift helps us embrace change rather than fear it and see every ending as a new beginning. Detachment gives us the freedom to step outside the narrow confines of our past selves and explore new ways of being in the world. I genuinely believe that through this process, we can find a deeper sense of peace and purpose, as these feelings are often burdened by the weight of old emotional attachments.

I mentioned it earlier, but I feel the need to address this again. The idea of detachment feels so foreign or even threatening in today’s society, where such high value is placed on emotional attachment. We are taught to hold on tightly to the things we care about, to cherish the memories of what once was, and to allow our pasts to shape our present. But this often leads to stagnation, preventing us from fully living in the moment, from truly living life instead of merely existing, or from embracing the endless possibilities of the future. We don’t need to turn our backs on the people or experiences that have mattered to us; we just need to start recognizing that everything in life is transient and that true peace comes from accepting its impermanence. When we learn to let go of our need to control the past, we open ourselves to the beauty of the present and the potential of the future.

As new chapters are being added to our narrative, we will undoubtedly encounter moments that challenge our ability to detach—moments when the pull of the past feels overwhelming, when the stories we’ve told ourselves seem too deeply ingrained to let go. But it is in these moments that the power of detachment becomes most apparent. By stepping back from the emotions that bind us, we gain the clarity to see the situation for what it truly is: a moment in time, a chapter in the story of our lives, but not the whole book. Detachment allows us to move through these moments with grace and resilience, knowing that every challenge is an opportunity for growth, and every ending a chance for rebirth.

In the end, emotional detachment is about finding serenity in the ashes of what once was. It is about embracing the cyclical nature of life and understanding that destruction is a necessary precursor to renewal. Through detachment, we find the strength to let go of the past, not with bitterness or regret, but with gratitude for the lessons it has taught us. We move forward lighter, freer, and more fully alive, ready to embrace the next chapter of our lives with an open heart and a clear mind.

Thank you!

Have a blessed day!🌹

Eduard🌹