When a child needs to boost his or her immune system, he or she often falls "intentionally or unintentionally." A wound infection caused by grime stimulates the immune system, which in turn boosts the body's natural defenses, making it a highly effective way to help yourself. This is how many children start their growth spurt. We tend to think that our children don't know this, but in fact their higher consciousness is watching over them all the time and only allows what is best for them to happen to them, even if it means hurting their bodies. However, this natural instinct (or pure intelligence) is gradually distorted when the child senses a different reaction from the outside world. The reactions we make in life are basically driven by the ego, that is, the fear of separation.

Without fear, we don't have to respond to the outside world, we just have to follow our natural instincts. Because the sense of separation exists only in the ego consciousness, everything we see through this consciousness, which seems real, is not real. The sense of separation seems so real because the oneness within us recedes. Many of us have been criticized for not being able to eat our mothers' meals. We probably weren't hungry at that time, or there were other reasons such as physical discomfort or bad mood, or simply because our mother's food didn't taste good and we lost our appetite. However, this perfectly normal physiological reaction has earned us the criticism "You're so spoiled!" "I know not how to be blessed when I am blessed!" Many years ago, a patient told me about his eating disorder. "I've never been able to eat a good meal at the table like a normal person," he said. When I asked him about his childhood eating habits, he reluctantly told me that his mother used to throw food at him that he couldn't eat. The mother herself did not get enough love and appreciation, so she only knew how to teach her son in this way, thinking that only in this way, he will cherish the food she cooked. But this "reasonable" approach to education has seriously interfered with children's eating habits. These days, it's common to cultivate "good behavior" at the dinner table. However, this parental care is the single biggest reason for the high rates of eating disorders and obesity. Early in childhood, these children are taught that it is wrong to follow their body's feelings, and later they are even less able to analyze or decode their body's language.

When a child needs to boost his or her immune system, he or she often falls "intentionally or unintentionally." A wound infection caused by grime stimulates the immune system, which in turn boosts the body's natural defenses, making it a highly effective way to help yourself. This is how many children start their growth spurt. We tend to think that our children don't know this, but in fact their higher consciousness is watching over them all the time and only allows what is best for them to happen to them, even if it means hurting their bodies. However, this natural instinct (or pure intelligence) is gradually distorted when the child senses a different reaction from the outside world. The reactions we make in life are basically driven by the ego, that is, the fear of separation.

Without fear, we don't have to respond to the outside world, we just have to follow our natural instincts. Because the sense of separation exists only in the ego consciousness, everything we see through this consciousness, which seems real, is not real. The sense of separation seems so real because the oneness within us recedes. Many of us have been criticized for not being able to eat our mothers' meals. We probably weren't hungry at that time, or there were other reasons such as physical discomfort or bad mood, or simply because our mother's food didn't taste good and we lost our appetite. However, this perfectly normal physiological reaction has earned us the criticism "You're so spoiled!" "I know not how to be blessed when I am blessed!" Many years ago, a patient told me about his eating disorder. "I've never been able to eat a good meal at the table like a normal person," he said. When I asked him about his childhood eating habits, he reluctantly told me that his mother used to throw food at him that he couldn't eat. The mother herself did not get enough love and appreciation, so she only knew how to teach her son in this way, thinking that only in this way, he will cherish the food she cooked. But this "reasonable" approach to education has seriously interfered with children's eating habits. These days, it's common to cultivate "good behavior" at the dinner table. However, this parental care is the single biggest reason for the high rates of eating disorders and obesity. Early in childhood, these children are taught that it is wrong to follow their body's feelings, and later they are even less able to analyze or decode their body's language.