Learning to accept imperfection is contrary to the notion that we are inherently sinful. It is not in our nature to judge. We learn judgment slowly in order to navigate the ebb and flow of life and explore our true selves. This critical personality trait is acquired by almost everyone, both to experience the opposites of the world and to be aware of the oneness within. The idea that we are all in this world with a great purpose is consistent with existentialism, and if we don't agree with it, then suffering through life is meaningless and cruel, and it means that we have made a huge mistake in being human. But it runs counter to our fundamental nature and beliefs. Of course, there are still some unanswered questions in our minds, such as how someone who was as innocent as a baby could end up a murderer who hates people. Take school shootings in the United States as an example. Psychologists might say that these children must be physically and mentally abused, which is why they become so violent, or because they watch too many violent programs, or because guns are so easy to get, which is why they are able to shoot their classmates and teachers. All this makes sense, but it lacks a higher vision. None of the explanations are sufficient, and this is true of any situation involving conflict. To better understand the source of this assertion, we must first look deep into our own childhood. Early in childhood, most people have developed a sense of shame that they are not good enough.

As toddlers, we may feel the warmth and loving recognition of our parents when we successfully take our first steps or climb the stairs. But we also notice a hint of discontent or disappointment on our parents' faces when we don't manage gravity properly and don't get what they want. Although we all unconsciously perceive our parents' subtle responses, we take their preferences to heart. This basic pattern will be repeated in various forms throughout the rest of our lives. Parents sometimes approve, sometimes ignore, and sometimes strongly disagree with our behavior. In fact, it is normal for us to fall when we are toddlers. In fact, just like a baby bird learning to take off, a child growing up can benefit physically, emotionally, and spiritually by working his or her way back up after a fall. It is by overcoming the obstacles that seem to be holding us back that we learn the most important skills in life. I have seen many children hurt their knees or elbows while playing. In most cases, their first reaction is to look at their mother and see how she reacts. If the mother shows signs of fear, worry or even anger, the child will burst into tears. But if the mother just smiled or smiled, the child showed no obvious pain and even laughed along. In the first case, the child saw the pain of falling as a bad thing to be afraid of, while in the second case, the child did not receive any negative signals to make them unhappy.

Learning to accept imperfection is contrary to the notion that we are inherently sinful. It is not in our nature to judge. We learn judgment slowly in order to navigate the ebb and flow of life and explore our true selves. This critical personality trait is acquired by almost everyone, both to experience the opposites of the world and to be aware of the oneness within. The idea that we are all in this world with a great purpose is consistent with existentialism, and if we don't agree with it, then suffering through life is meaningless and cruel, and it means that we have made a huge mistake in being human. But it runs counter to our fundamental nature and beliefs. Of course, there are still some unanswered questions in our minds, such as how someone who was as innocent as a baby could end up a murderer who hates people. Take school shootings in the United States as an example. Psychologists might say that these children must be physically and mentally abused, which is why they become so violent, or because they watch too many violent programs, or because guns are so easy to get, which is why they are able to shoot their classmates and teachers. All this makes sense, but it lacks a higher vision. None of the explanations are sufficient, and this is true of any situation involving conflict. To better understand the source of this assertion, we must first look deep into our own childhood. Early in childhood, most people have developed a sense of shame that they are not good enough.

As toddlers, we may feel the warmth and loving recognition of our parents when we successfully take our first steps or climb the stairs. But we also notice a hint of discontent or disappointment on our parents' faces when we don't manage gravity properly and don't get what they want. Although we all unconsciously perceive our parents' subtle responses, we take their preferences to heart. This basic pattern will be repeated in various forms throughout the rest of our lives. Parents sometimes approve, sometimes ignore, and sometimes strongly disagree with our behavior. In fact, it is normal for us to fall when we are toddlers. In fact, just like a baby bird learning to take off, a child growing up can benefit physically, emotionally, and spiritually by working his or her way back up after a fall. It is by overcoming the obstacles that seem to be holding us back that we learn the most important skills in life. I have seen many children hurt their knees or elbows while playing. In most cases, their first reaction is to look at their mother and see how she reacts. If the mother shows signs of fear, worry or even anger, the child will burst into tears. But if the mother just smiled or smiled, the child showed no obvious pain and even laughed along. In the first case, the child saw the pain of falling as a bad thing to be afraid of, while in the second case, the child did not receive any negative signals to make them unhappy.