There is a British proverb: "The only thing that disgusts the sun is its too strong light, all things are dim in front of it, but it does not know how to restrain." This proverb tells us that even if a person has too much light , if you don't know how to converge, you will be hated. With brilliance and self-discipline, you will be more respected.

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At the Asian Games, the Chinese men's swimming team won the medley competition. Ning Zetao, who made the last stroke, contributed greatly. In addition, he won two gold medals in freestyle. He is regarded as the future leader of Asian swimming. . At the celebration, Ning Zetao was with his teammates. He deliberately didn't stand in the middle, and even stepped back behind his teammates from time to time. In the interview, he didn't talk much, and the few words were all about the support and help of the coach and teammates. Many events, if only invited him alone, rather than with teammates, he will refuse. Compared with those who became famous early and uninhibited, Ning Zetao's restraint and low-key were widely praised. Master Hongyi said: "When you get along with others, don't show off your talents and show your talents, otherwise, jealousy, slander and obstacles will all come." questioned himself. Knowing how to restrain one's own light can avoid disasters and make the road ahead less bumpy.

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Zhang Jiahui has been out for many years and has won many honors. There are many trophies in his study. One day, he was with some friends. After dinner, someone asked to visit his house. Zhang Jiahui agreed, but made an excuse to leave in an hour. why? Among these friends, there is a friend surnamed Lin, who used to join him in the industry back then. His friend took him around and took care of him everywhere. Later, because I could not see hope, I changed careers, and I have always regretted it in my heart. In order not to irritate this friend, Zhang Jiahui asked his assistant to go home and put away all the trophies in his study. In front of friends, Zhang Jiahui knows how to restrain his brilliance and not let his trophy reflect the loss of his friends. This kind of carefulness is because he knows how to care about the feelings of others and be sympathetic to the feelings of others. The place where your light shines may be the place where others are lost and sad. Don't show off, don't show off, know how to restrain your own light and not let your own light burn others, it is the wisdom of communication and life.

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After Mo Yan won the Nobel Prize, he participated in the National People's Congress. In the lounge, the media reporters surrounded him, he became the focus for a while, and the other committee members became the background. When the reporter asked him to speak, Mo Yan said, "I have nothing to say. I am a new member and I have come to study. The old member should be invited to speak more." The low-key and restrained sentence shifted the focus to the other members. A symposium was held, and the writers gathered together. Mo Yan is still the focus, but he said: "The Nobel Prize is an important award, but it is definitely not the highest award. It only represents the views and opinions of the Nobel Prize judges. Me. There are many writers in China who write better than me, and I am more fortunate than them." This remark won warm applause. Wearing the laurel of "the first Chinese to win the Nobel Prize in Literature", Mo Yan is so humble in front of his peers, which is introverted. The moon converges its light to make the stars shine. The more successful people are, the more introverted they know, because they know that only by letting others shine can they gain everyone's support.

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The wise are restrained, and the unwise are arrogant. Some people are proud of their "going" and proud of their "victory", which is a manifestation of arrogance and ignorance. Knowing how to be restrained is like a full ear of grain, the more mature it is, the lower its head will be. Introverted people, despite their achievements, never feel that they are better than others or look down on others. It is a virtue. People with this kind of character tend to achieve more and gain more respect.

There is a British proverb: "The only thing that disgusts the sun is its too strong light, all things are dim in front of it, but it does not know how to restrain." This proverb tells us that even if a person has too much light , if you don't know how to converge, you will be hated. With brilliance and self-discipline, you will be more respected.

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At the Asian Games, the Chinese men's swimming team won the medley competition. Ning Zetao, who made the last stroke, contributed greatly. In addition, he won two gold medals in freestyle. He is regarded as the future leader of Asian swimming. . At the celebration, Ning Zetao was with his teammates. He deliberately didn't stand in the middle, and even stepped back behind his teammates from time to time. In the interview, he didn't talk much, and the few words were all about the support and help of the coach and teammates. Many events, if only invited him alone, rather than with teammates, he will refuse. Compared with those who became famous early and uninhibited, Ning Zetao's restraint and low-key were widely praised. Master Hongyi said: "When you get along with others, don't show off your talents and show your talents, otherwise, jealousy, slander and obstacles will all come." questioned himself. Knowing how to restrain one's own light can avoid disasters and make the road ahead less bumpy.

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Zhang Jiahui has been out for many years and has won many honors. There are many trophies in his study. One day, he was with some friends. After dinner, someone asked to visit his house. Zhang Jiahui agreed, but made an excuse to leave in an hour. why? Among these friends, there is a friend surnamed Lin, who used to join him in the industry back then. His friend took him around and took care of him everywhere. Later, because I could not see hope, I changed careers, and I have always regretted it in my heart. In order not to irritate this friend, Zhang Jiahui asked his assistant to go home and put away all the trophies in his study. In front of friends, Zhang Jiahui knows how to restrain his brilliance and not let his trophy reflect the loss of his friends. This kind of carefulness is because he knows how to care about the feelings of others and be sympathetic to the feelings of others. The place where your light shines may be the place where others are lost and sad. Don't show off, don't show off, know how to restrain your own light and not let your own light burn others, it is the wisdom of communication and life.

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After Mo Yan won the Nobel Prize, he participated in the National People's Congress. In the lounge, the media reporters surrounded him, he became the focus for a while, and the other committee members became the background. When the reporter asked him to speak, Mo Yan said, "I have nothing to say. I am a new member and I have come to study. The old member should be invited to speak more." The low-key and restrained sentence shifted the focus to the other members. A symposium was held, and the writers gathered together. Mo Yan is still the focus, but he said: "The Nobel Prize is an important award, but it is definitely not the highest award. It only represents the views and opinions of the Nobel Prize judges. Me. There are many writers in China who write better than me, and I am more fortunate than them." This remark won warm applause. Wearing the laurel of "the first Chinese to win the Nobel Prize in Literature", Mo Yan is so humble in front of his peers, which is introverted. The moon converges its light to make the stars shine. The more successful people are, the more introverted they know, because they know that only by letting others shine can they gain everyone's support.

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The wise are restrained, and the unwise are arrogant. Some people are proud of their "going" and proud of their "victory", which is a manifestation of arrogance and ignorance. Knowing how to be restrained is like a full ear of grain, the more mature it is, the lower its head will be. Introverted people, despite their achievements, never feel that they are better than others or look down on others. It is a virtue. People with this kind of character tend to achieve more and gain more respect.