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In the past two days, there was a passage from Jiang Xun that I had always liked. Copy it in a small notebook. "All aesthetics of life aims to resist the word busy. Busy is the death of the soul. Don't be busy any more - you will begin to have aesthetics of life." At the end of the year when everyone was complaining about being busy and tired, I couldn't help typing out the following. Everyone is busy, "busy" seems to have become a synonym for "meaning". If I am very free today, and Wang Laosan sends out the words "I can only sleep four hours a day until midnight" in his circle of friends, then I seem to be far behind him. If other people get up early to catch a plane, don't sleep at night, and get to know friends and expand contacts while drinking and preparing, but I just drink tea and read books at home, will I be degenerated. This is the inner problem of many people. Unknowingly, he threw away his comfortable lifestyle and held his glasses everywhere to find another lifestyle. To tell the truth, there are many desperate Saburo and Sanniang in my vision. I admit that their enthusiasm for struggle has played a lot of free chicken blood for me. They are desperate. Their eyes are bright. Any "state" is already the best inspirational chicken soup. But I'm sorry, I'm getting more and more tired of this kind of behavior. If you really enjoy working overtime, really indulge in regular fever and headache, and really immerse in the superiority of "no time", then I can only say: you are sick. The pursuit of most normal people is spiritual relaxation and happiness. At least it must not be fatigue like a dog sticking out its tongue. But is it too unsightly for someone to whitewash his rough life with the word "hard force" every day? The poison radiation of contemporary success studies is too wide. One of them is that it makes many people feel that a successful person is a busy person who has no time. Therefore, if I am busy every day, I am about equal to a successful person. Don't deceive yourself. The above assumption may also be equivalent to "you are stupid and inefficient; or most of the decisions you make are wrong, and you can only continue to remedy & detours." Compared with those who work hard in the noise every day and beat themselves like a top, I now appreciate those who live with great relaxation and ease. For example, some friends will fly to Europe for a month after a month of intensive work; Or push off several shiny "small opportunities" and stay at home for days without washing your face or socializing; I have a very good friend who works in the CCTV news channel. She wishes she could work overtime every day without holidays. But one day, she exposed a beautiful oil painting in her circle of friends. She said that she had signed up for a weekend oil painting class to learn. I loved her very much at once. Like me, she especially disliked the seemingly "tall" situation of deliberately making friends. No matter how good the opportunity was, she wouldn't go to the people and adjustments she didn't like; And my special friend yangshanshan, whose life is also very enjoyable. In the model circle, he has never been affected by flashy habits, never tried hard to gather resources and create popularity, and exhausted himself. She once told me that people can decide what they see and hear. I choose not to touch some things because I think I may be adversely affected. People devote themselves to their own clothing design, like retro style to immerse in the end. The attitude towards life is really to let things be as they are. It is very natural and unrestrained. If you have the opportunity to travel and see the world, you can still do a small business. A few days ago, I found that she had taken her new clothes to Paris for shooting while playing. Didn't they work hard? But they don't enjoy life? I can never finish my work. My career can grow day by day, but is it really a good thing to continue to expand? I still remember when we went to Greece the year before last, the guide told us that a group of big Chinese bosses went to a local wine cellar to talk about cooperation with them. How many boxes of wine they bought every year was rejected by the owner of the wine cellar. They said that we only made so much wine every year, but we didn't do so much. If there were too many, I wouldn't have time to go to the bar to travel. Not only that, the cellar owner also introduced this group of big bosses who were stupid and rich to the neighboring cellar owners. This is not stupid. It's just that you don't make money yourself. You also take the initiative to send money to your competitors. Unfortunately, this is just the Chinese way of thinking. Now there are too many organizations that fight chicken blood, but which one is better? Anyway, the chicken blood I want to provide you is like this: the purpose of beating chicken blood is to enjoy life, enrich life experience, chew the achievements of struggle with our family, not the pleasure of beating chicken blood itself. Beating chicken blood itself is not pleasant. If you think it is, you can only say that you are ill. Besides, do you really think you need so much chicken blood? Call again when necessary, and shield when not required. Therefore, compared with those who shout that they have no time to eat breakfast, have no time to take a nap, or have no time to take a drip when they are ill, I prefer to arrange my life leisurely. Besides work, I also develop other interesting people. Even if his productivity is not so amazing. In an era of too much meaning, "less meaning" is a luxury. For example, having a meal with a group of friends who can't talk about cooperation, laughing and crying, is of special significance; For example, when other people watch art exhibitions and listen to concerts one after another, and the rich soul needs to be eaten alive, I will leisurely choose one I really like to see, which is of special significance; In this golden age, when a woman went to practice calligraphy and learn the tea ceremony at the weekend, I felt very appreciative; You can neither take the grade examination nor realize it, just learn to play for yourself. Finally, don't flaunt how hard you are. It's not popular now.
In the past two days, there was a passage from Jiang Xun that I had always liked. Copy it in a small notebook. "All aesthetics of life aims to resist the word busy. Busy is the death of the soul. Don't be busy any more - you will begin to have aesthetics of life." At the end of the year when everyone was complaining about being busy and tired, I couldn't help typing out the following. Everyone is busy, "busy" seems to have become a synonym for "meaning". If I am very free today, and Wang Laosan sends out the words "I can only sleep four hours a day until midnight" in his circle of friends, then I seem to be far behind him. If other people get up early to catch a plane, don't sleep at night, and get to know friends and expand contacts while drinking and preparing, but I just drink tea and read books at home, will I be degenerated. This is the inner problem of many people. Unknowingly, he threw away his comfortable lifestyle and held his glasses everywhere to find another lifestyle. To tell the truth, there are many desperate Saburo and Sanniang in my vision. I admit that their enthusiasm for struggle has played a lot of free chicken blood for me. They are desperate. Their eyes are bright. Any "state" is already the best inspirational chicken soup. But I'm sorry, I'm getting more and more tired of this kind of behavior. If you really enjoy working overtime, really indulge in regular fever and headache, and really immerse in the superiority of "no time", then I can only say: you are sick. The pursuit of most normal people is spiritual relaxation and happiness. At least it must not be fatigue like a dog sticking out its tongue. But is it too unsightly for someone to whitewash his rough life with the word "hard force" every day? The poison radiation of contemporary success studies is too wide. One of them is that it makes many people feel that a successful person is a busy person who has no time. Therefore, if I am busy every day, I am about equal to a successful person. Don't deceive yourself. The above assumption may also be equivalent to "you are stupid and inefficient; or most of the decisions you make are wrong, and you can only continue to remedy & detours." Compared with those who work hard in the noise every day and beat themselves like a top, I now appreciate those who live with great relaxation and ease. For example, some friends will fly to Europe for a month after a month of intensive work; Or push off several shiny "small opportunities" and stay at home for days without washing your face or socializing; I have a very good friend who works in the CCTV news channel. She wishes she could work overtime every day without holidays. But one day, she exposed a beautiful oil painting in her circle of friends. She said that she had signed up for a weekend oil painting class to learn. I loved her very much at once. Like me, she especially disliked the seemingly "tall" situation of deliberately making friends. No matter how good the opportunity was, she wouldn't go to the people and adjustments she didn't like; And my special friend yangshanshan, whose life is also very enjoyable. In the model circle, he has never been affected by flashy habits, never tried hard to gather resources and create popularity, and exhausted himself. She once told me that people can decide what they see and hear. I choose not to touch some things because I think I may be adversely affected. People devote themselves to their own clothing design, like retro style to immerse in the end. The attitude towards life is really to let things be as they are. It is very natural and unrestrained. If you have the opportunity to travel and see the world, you can still do a small business. A few days ago, I found that she had taken her new clothes to Paris for shooting while playing. Didn't they work hard? But they don't enjoy life? I can never finish my work. My career can grow day by day, but is it really a good thing to continue to expand? I still remember when we went to Greece the year before last, the guide told us that a group of big Chinese bosses went to a local wine cellar to talk about cooperation with them. How many boxes of wine they bought every year was rejected by the owner of the wine cellar. They said that we only made so much wine every year, but we didn't do so much. If there were too many, I wouldn't have time to go to the bar to travel. Not only that, the cellar owner also introduced this group of big bosses who were stupid and rich to the neighboring cellar owners. This is not stupid. It's just that you don't make money yourself. You also take the initiative to send money to your competitors. Unfortunately, this is just the Chinese way of thinking. Now there are too many organizations that fight chicken blood, but which one is better? Anyway, the chicken blood I want to provide you is like this: the purpose of beating chicken blood is to enjoy life, enrich life experience, chew the achievements of struggle with our family, not the pleasure of beating chicken blood itself. Beating chicken blood itself is not pleasant. If you think it is, you can only say that you are ill. Besides, do you really think you need so much chicken blood? Call again when necessary, and shield when not required. Therefore, compared with those who shout that they have no time to eat breakfast, have no time to take a nap, or have no time to take a drip when they are ill, I prefer to arrange my life leisurely. Besides work, I also develop other interesting people. Even if his productivity is not so amazing. In an era of too much meaning, "less meaning" is a luxury. For example, having a meal with a group of friends who can't talk about cooperation, laughing and crying, is of special significance; For example, when other people watch art exhibitions and listen to concerts one after another, and the rich soul needs to be eaten alive, I will leisurely choose one I really like to see, which is of special significance; In this golden age, when a woman went to practice calligraphy and learn the tea ceremony at the weekend, I felt very appreciative; You can neither take the grade examination nor realize it, just learn to play for yourself. Finally, don't flaunt how hard you are. It's not popular now.
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