Although the world is big, it is only between heaven and earth. Calmly facing the changes of life and the prosperity of the world, we should be magnanimous, width, height, thickness, strength, moderation, length and depth. 1、 Magnanimous As the saying goes, the prime minister can prop a boat in his belly, and his belly can accommodate things that are difficult to tolerate in the world. It means to be measured and broad-minded. Only in this way, you can make friends from all over the world and achieve a career. In ancient times, Liu Bang, corporal Li Xian, Zhang Liang, Han Xin and others were all used for it. Liu Bei paid three visits to the thatched cottage and invited Zhuge and others. Small enough to ignore personal gains and losses, ignore gossip, accept failures and setbacks calmly, treat people or things that have hurt you generously, don't care about and retaliate, just laugh it off, then there will always be a beautiful world in front of you, and you will be happy forever. 2、 Speak in moderation Silence is golden. It is a famous saying. Misfortune comes from the mouth and is well known. On the one hand, there are many mistakes in speaking. We must speak moderately. We don't say everything on any occasion. Why? First, offend people. When people are happy, you pour cold water on them; People do funerals, you tell jokes; Second, speak jargon. If you pretend to understand, you feel happy, but others think you are shallow; Third, be courteous. If you see a beautiful woman, you can't stop it. If you say more, your tail will be exposed, and the beautiful woman will be scared away; Fourth, don't say big things. Maybe it's boasting or pessimism. It inadvertently reveals its emotions and leaves a bad impression. 3、 Reading has thickness Reading has thickness. The thickness here is not the height measured by a ruler, but the quality of the book content. What is good to read? First of all, the content of the book should have a correct life orientation and be positive. No matter long or short articles, as long as they can enlighten people's hearts and persuade people to be good, they are good books. Secondly, reading does not necessarily have much depth. Poetry, essays, fables, fairy tales and other forms, as long as they are in simple terms, give people life experience and philosophy. Is a good book, is a good article. Third, apply what you have learned. If reading becomes a tool for you to realize your ideal, you must read it carefully and master the methods and forms to read good books. Du Fu said: reading breaks thousands of volumes and writing is like God. 4、 The field of view has a width Stand high and see far. Think too much, you can't see far. Only by standing on the shoulders of a giant can you see his head. The so-called vision is that in your perspective, there should be a vast field. No matter what you do or how you behave, you should look far away. You should not only see points, but not see each other. Don't haggle over the immediate gains and losses. If you get a drop of water and feel complacent, you may lose a sea. Taking a step back is the embodiment of the width of vision. 5、 Theory has depth The so-called theory is to say it with reason. And depth is your reason to be sufficient. Only in this way can we speak with people with a strong sense of reason. How many people reason with others without deep theory, and the results are laughable. White cat and black cat are also theories. At first, no one believed them. Later, it was demonstrated that they played a positive role in the early stage of reform and opening up. Later, with the deepening of reform, the scientific outlook on development replaced them and became a new term and theory of reform. All this has been proved by practice. For individuals, high-profile work and low-key life are also his theories. Its depth is that they must be enthusiastic and interested in work, and they must hold their tails. 6、 Work hard Whether working or being your own boss, if you don't work hard, have no ambition and motivation, your work performance will certainly not work. As a result, you will either be fired or go bankrupt. Therefore, we must have strength in our work, forge ahead and open up and close up. Everyone has goals, big or small, and the way to achieve the goals is to work. When the work intensity is increased and the performance is improved, it is possible to achieve the goals. 7、 Have a high degree of career People all hope to achieve something in life and have a high degree of career. However, people have different backgrounds, experiences and educational backgrounds, so they are engaged in different occupations. A big career is a career, and a small one is a job. Entrepreneurs and businessmen have strong capital; Artists, actors and athletes master superb skills. Their career is very high and enviable. The career of ordinary people is their work. Although it is ordinary, they will also do it as a career in their heart. Every day, it keeps raising its height. 8、 Life has length The rich, the poor, men and women are all keeping in good health, or walking fast, or yoga, or slimming down, or giving up drinking and smoking. All they want is to live a long life and a few more years. How to prolong life? First, exercise. Keep fit and get rid of bad habits. Second, in a good mood. No hurry, no impatience, no worry, no depression, no struggle, no this, no that. Third, eat a good meal. Eat just right, more and less, match well, and eat healthily; Fourth, the law of life should be adjusted well. Go to bed when you should, play when you want, go to bed early and get up early.