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How to deal with colleague relations is an old topic. In addition to maintaining your respect and sincerity for others, you also need skills, wisdom and even perseverance when you encounter abnormal, unexpected and difficult situations that cannot be solved by abnormal communication.
Deal with the person with honey and sword: smile and laugh In the face of this kind of person, if he is your boss, you should pretend to be a little dementia. You will agree to everything he asks you to do. He is kind. You should be more polite than him. When he talks to you with a smile, you nod your head fiercely with a smile. If you feel that what he wants you to do is too poisonous, you can't refuse or turn your face in person. You can only shirk with a smile and swear not to accept it to the death. If he is your colleague, the easiest way to deal with him is to pretend not to know him. Meet at work every day. If he wants to get close to you, you should find a reason to get away immediately. If you can't do the same job, try to avoid it. Don't do it with him. If you can't avoid it, learn to keep a diary, review yourself every day and keep work records. If he is your subordinate, just pay attention to three points: first, find an independent job or an independent working position for him; Second, he should not have any chance to get close to the supervisor above; Third, be serious about his expression without smiling.
Deal with the flatterer: don't be against him If you meet this kind of supervisor, you should have a good relationship with him. His flattery is harmless to you. When such people are your colleagues, you have to be careful. Do not be against him; there is no need to offend him. Usually meet or greet each other with a smile, and be kind. If you deliberately isolate him or provoke him, he may use you as a stepping stone to climb up. If he is your subordinate, treat his flattery calmly and see what his heart is.
Dealing with sour people: keep a distance Sour and thin people are less popular in the company. His characteristic is that when arguing with others, he often digs people's privacy and leaves no room for cynicism. At the same time, sarcasm is everywhere, which damages the other party's self-esteem and loses his face. Such people usually take pleasure in making fun of their colleagues and sarcasm at their boss. When you are criticized by your boss, he will say, "God has eyes and deserves it." When you quarrel with a colleague, he will say, "a dog bites a dog's mouth. Neither is a good thing." If you correct your subordinates and he knows it, he will also say: "some people are bullies and some people are born cheap. What world is this?" Sour and mean people are naturally smart and unreasonable. Because of his outrageous behavior, he has no friends in the company. He was able to survive because others were afraid of him and didn't want to pay attention to him. But if one day he gets angry, he will also be treated miserably. If unfortunately such people are your boss, the only thing you can do is change your department or job. But don't let him know when the matter has not been settled. Otherwise, you may not be able to bear his round of personal attack. If he is your colleague, keep a distance from him and don't annoy him. In case of loss, if you hear one or two exciting words or gossip, pretend not to hear it and don't get angry. Otherwise, you'll ask for trouble and annoy the ghost. If he is your subordinate, you have to spend more time on him. If you have nothing to do, chat with him, talk about the goodness of life, and tell him that kindness has its own advantages. Your love and education will sometimes bring an unexpected harvest.
How to deal with colleague relations is an old topic. In addition to maintaining your respect and sincerity for others, you also need skills, wisdom and even perseverance when you encounter abnormal, unexpected and difficult situations that cannot be solved by abnormal communication.
Deal with the person with honey and sword: smile and laugh In the face of this kind of person, if he is your boss, you should pretend to be a little dementia. You will agree to everything he asks you to do. He is kind. You should be more polite than him. When he talks to you with a smile, you nod your head fiercely with a smile. If you feel that what he wants you to do is too poisonous, you can't refuse or turn your face in person. You can only shirk with a smile and swear not to accept it to the death. If he is your colleague, the easiest way to deal with him is to pretend not to know him. Meet at work every day. If he wants to get close to you, you should find a reason to get away immediately. If you can't do the same job, try to avoid it. Don't do it with him. If you can't avoid it, learn to keep a diary, review yourself every day and keep work records. If he is your subordinate, just pay attention to three points: first, find an independent job or an independent working position for him; Second, he should not have any chance to get close to the supervisor above; Third, be serious about his expression without smiling.
Deal with the flatterer: don't be against him If you meet this kind of supervisor, you should have a good relationship with him. His flattery is harmless to you. When such people are your colleagues, you have to be careful. Do not be against him; there is no need to offend him. Usually meet or greet each other with a smile, and be kind. If you deliberately isolate him or provoke him, he may use you as a stepping stone to climb up. If he is your subordinate, treat his flattery calmly and see what his heart is.
Dealing with sour people: keep a distance Sour and thin people are less popular in the company. His characteristic is that when arguing with others, he often digs people's privacy and leaves no room for cynicism. At the same time, sarcasm is everywhere, which damages the other party's self-esteem and loses his face. Such people usually take pleasure in making fun of their colleagues and sarcasm at their boss. When you are criticized by your boss, he will say, "God has eyes and deserves it." When you quarrel with a colleague, he will say, "a dog bites a dog's mouth. Neither is a good thing." If you correct your subordinates and he knows it, he will also say: "some people are bullies and some people are born cheap. What world is this?" Sour and mean people are naturally smart and unreasonable. Because of his outrageous behavior, he has no friends in the company. He was able to survive because others were afraid of him and didn't want to pay attention to him. But if one day he gets angry, he will also be treated miserably. If unfortunately such people are your boss, the only thing you can do is change your department or job. But don't let him know when the matter has not been settled. Otherwise, you may not be able to bear his round of personal attack. If he is your colleague, keep a distance from him and don't annoy him. In case of loss, if you hear one or two exciting words or gossip, pretend not to hear it and don't get angry. Otherwise, you'll ask for trouble and annoy the ghost. If he is your subordinate, you have to spend more time on him. If you have nothing to do, chat with him, talk about the goodness of life, and tell him that kindness has its own advantages. Your love and education will sometimes bring an unexpected harvest.
Dealing with people who sow discord: it's best to be cautious It is also a mouth. Some people use it to flatter, some people use it to satirize and harm others, and some people use it to stir up discord between right and wrong colleagues. Flattering others is to the detriment of others; Being mean is to benefit oneself at the expense of others; To sow discord is to make the company a mess, make people panic, turn civilization into barbarism, make people feel insecure and fight. This type of person brings great and rapid lethality to the company. As long as they are not careful or handled improperly, they may disappear and be left everywhere. There is no way to deal with this type of people. We can only prevent them from coming in, or stop or eliminate them as soon as they are found. Otherwise, the consequences will be unimaginable. When a divisive person becomes your boss, you should first pay attention to your words and deeds carefully, keep a distance from him, establish personal reputation in the company, and maintain a broad mind of "do what you can and leave when you can't". This kind of person is your colleague. In addition to being cautious in words and deeds and keeping a distance from him, the most important thing is that you have to contact other colleagues, establish joint defense and alliance relations, and isolate him. If he provokes and alienates anyone, don't be moved and unaffected by it. If he is your subordinate, you must find a way to get rid of him and isolate him. If he can't do it, he'll isolate you and take you away.
Dealing with talented people: study with an open mind This type of person is ambitious and has a broad vision, regardless of some small gains and losses. In his work, he does not forget to enrich himself and make good friends. In addition to completing his own work, he will also help others and guide colleagues. Wherever he goes, no matter whether he has stayed for a long time or has become a formal supervisor in the organization, he can influence people and control the behavior of the group under extremely natural circumstances. As the saying goes, "tigers eat meat all over the world", probably refers to this kind of people. A man of great talent and broad vision is often different from ordinary people, and his logical way of thinking also has its own personal characteristics. He can be patient when the time is not ripe. He can accept it willingly, whether it's sleeping on firewood or climbing under your crotch. However, when the time was ripe, he rose up like an eagle, and no one could compete with it. Not everyone with great talent and vision has made great achievements. However, he has his own style of doing things. Being neither humble nor arrogant, not anxious or impatient is his true color. When you meet a talented boss, you are with the right person. So follow suit. Don't leave each other for a moment. You'll be promoted with him. When you come to such a boss, you should consider learning from him. Because there is no feast that never ends. When the song ends, others will benefit a lot. Naturally, you won't be empty handed. Colleagues with great talent and vision can create a vigorous career if everyone has the same interests. If one mountain cannot accommodate two tigers, it can also be linked with the seals of the six countries. On the other hand, the Qin emperor combined the world horizontally and horizontally, taking what they need, enjoying their reputation and gaining their benefits. If none of the above works, you will help him succeed wholeheartedly and leave a reputation of knowing talent. With such subordinates, you should know this clearly. Knowing that he is not in the pool, he will surpass you one day. Accept him with an open mind and give him substantial financial support. It is called investment in accounting. It must be profitable at that time.
Dealing with people who turn their faces ruthlessly: you should stay away The biggest characteristic of this type of person is that turning his face is like turning a book. Just turn it over. It's several sides in one turn. When he turns his face, you don't have to ask him the reason. You don't have to tell him the kindness and help to him in the past. He can't hear a word. He seems to have a kind of "ingratitude and revenge disease". You take care of him in every way. As long as a small matter doesn't go well with his heart, it will be overturned. This is like an ambitious wolf. The longer you raise it, the greater the danger to yourself. This situation is most often seen in the plot of domestic series. Thirty episodes, let him walk 29 episodes and a half. Finally, the screenwriter corrected him on the screen at the request of the audience. The ruthless person found that he used this way to deal with his interpersonal relationships, which was almost invincible and cheap everywhere. When he finds a new object, he can use it again. Anyway, every time we turn it, we are different people. Others can't remember and have no choice but to admit bad luck! If unfortunately your boss is such a ruthless person, when you work under him, you must remember to "leave one hand". When everything is done, you have to be careful of getting fired. How to turn passivity into initiative? When he wants to turn his face, you also tell him that I've been waiting for you for a long time. Why do you turn it today! Don't do this. I've seen too much of your means. If you have such a colleague, you don't have to see the same thing as him. In any case, there is no interest. You can do your own work. Whether you want to turn it over or not is up to you! Having such subordinates is the most nerve racking, and there is no good way. The most important thing is not to deal with him because he often turns over. Other subordinates will think you are bullying good and afraid of evil, which is not worth it.
Dealing with Cynics: turn a blind eye This type of people are very disgusted with some phenomena in society and think that society has changed, the world style is not ancient, and the people's hearts are becoming more and more sinister and unhappy. It's not good or bad to work with cynics. As long as what he is angry about is not the company's welfare system, it's just his personal behavior for you. There's nothing to say. When one day he has an opinion on the company's system and welfare, you will be blessed. He often sacrifices himself to seek some benefits for you. For a cynical subordinate, we should persuade him to absorb more new knowledge. Tell him that now that society is progressing and the atmosphere is open, his theory is outdated and should be put away, otherwise he will not keep up with the advanced generation. If you scold me to the point, you will be laughed at and I will lose face.
Dealing with people who respect their work and enjoy their group: you have to work hard This type of person is highly praised by the company and loved by colleagues because of their correct working attitude and methods. All his units and groups will have good productivity and performance. This type of person will infect other colleagues, make the organization develop in a positive direction and bring a cooperative and harmonious working environment to employees. When the company goes well, we will work together and share the results; When the company is not going well, we clench our teeth, work hard and create new vitality. When he is free at ordinary times, he will take the initiative to train novices and cultivate group strength; At the moment of busy work, he can influence his colleagues, support each other and tide over difficulties together. This type of person, whether your supervisor, colleagues or subordinates, when working with them, you should learn to respect their work and be happy with the group like him. As long as you show that you are not like that, you will be compared by him.
Deal with complacent people: try to follow him A complacent man has his own opinion on everything. The reason why he is complacent is that he has always been in a very favorable situation, so that he has never tasted the pain of failure. Therefore, we are not afraid of failure. Since God cares for him so much, as long as God doesn't die, he will be cared for again. He can't accept other people's opinions, and if others are smart enough, he doesn't have to argue with him. We should know that a person who has not failed for a long time is because of his wisdom, not his luck. Friends, I believe that the word "wisdom" is easy to write, but it is not easy to understand. If he is your boss, don't throw up ideas in front of him. Try to follow his instructions and he will make them clear. Because he's afraid you're stupid, he'll say it again. Finally, I'll ask you again, okay? He won't rest assured until you understand. Sometimes, he will politely ask you once, do you have any opinion on his practice? At this point, you immediately confirm his practice. At this time, if you hesitate a little or ask two more questions, you will be sneered at by him. Colleagues with such people can't follow him too much. Only by letting him taste the bitter fruit of failure can he really change and help him. For such subordinates, hand over some difficult jobs to him. If you succeed, you won't praise it; If you fail, leave it to others. Let others succeed and let them know that there are people outside of people and there are days outside of heaven. Without training him and telling him how to do things, he can't listen. It is absolutely beneficial for him to spend more energy on others.
Dealing with people who sow discord: it's best to be cautious It is also a mouth. Some people use it to flatter, some people use it to satirize and harm others, and some people use it to stir up discord between right and wrong colleagues. Flattering others is to the detriment of others; Being mean is to benefit oneself at the expense of others; To sow discord is to make the company a mess, make people panic, turn civilization into barbarism, make people feel insecure and fight. This type of person brings great and rapid lethality to the company. As long as they are not careful or handled improperly, they may disappear and be left everywhere. There is no way to deal with this type of people. We can only prevent them from coming in, or stop or eliminate them as soon as they are found. Otherwise, the consequences will be unimaginable. When a divisive person becomes your boss, you should first pay attention to your words and deeds carefully, keep a distance from him, establish personal reputation in the company, and maintain a broad mind of "do what you can and leave when you can't". This kind of person is your colleague. In addition to being cautious in words and deeds and keeping a distance from him, the most important thing is that you have to contact other colleagues, establish joint defense and alliance relations, and isolate him. If he provokes and alienates anyone, don't be moved and unaffected by it. If he is your subordinate, you must find a way to get rid of him and isolate him. If he can't do it, he'll isolate you and take you away.
Dealing with talented people: study with an open mind This type of person is ambitious and has a broad vision, regardless of some small gains and losses. In his work, he does not forget to enrich himself and make good friends. In addition to completing his own work, he will also help others and guide colleagues. Wherever he goes, no matter whether he has stayed for a long time or has become a formal supervisor in the organization, he can influence people and control the behavior of the group under extremely natural circumstances. As the saying goes, "tigers eat meat all over the world", probably refers to this kind of people. A man of great talent and broad vision is often different from ordinary people, and his logical way of thinking also has its own personal characteristics. He can be patient when the time is not ripe. He can accept it willingly, whether it's sleeping on firewood or climbing under your crotch. However, when the time was ripe, he rose up like an eagle, and no one could compete with it. Not everyone with great talent and vision has made great achievements. However, he has his own style of doing things. Being neither humble nor arrogant, not anxious or impatient is his true color. When you meet a talented boss, you are with the right person. So follow suit. Don't leave each other for a moment. You'll be promoted with him. When you come to such a boss, you should consider learning from him. Because there is no feast that never ends. When the song ends, others will benefit a lot. Naturally, you won't be empty handed. Colleagues with great talent and vision can create a vigorous career if everyone has the same interests. If one mountain cannot accommodate two tigers, it can also be linked with the seals of the six countries. On the other hand, the Qin emperor combined the world horizontally and horizontally, taking what they need, enjoying their reputation and gaining their benefits. If none of the above works, you will help him succeed wholeheartedly and leave a reputation of knowing talent. With such subordinates, you should know this clearly. Knowing that he is not in the pool, he will surpass you one day. Accept him with an open mind and give him substantial financial support. It is called investment in accounting. It must be profitable at that time.
Dealing with people who turn their faces ruthlessly: you should stay away The biggest characteristic of this type of person is that turning his face is like turning a book. Just turn it over. It's several sides in one turn. When he turns his face, you don't have to ask him the reason. You don't have to tell him the kindness and help to him in the past. He can't hear a word. He seems to have a kind of "ingratitude and revenge disease". You take care of him in every way. As long as a small matter doesn't go well with his heart, it will be overturned. This is like an ambitious wolf. The longer you raise it, the greater the danger to yourself. This situation is most often seen in the plot of domestic series. Thirty episodes, let him walk 29 episodes and a half. Finally, the screenwriter corrected him on the screen at the request of the audience. The ruthless person found that he used this way to deal with his interpersonal relationships, which was almost invincible and cheap everywhere. When he finds a new object, he can use it again. Anyway, every time we turn it, we are different people. Others can't remember and have no choice but to admit bad luck! If unfortunately your boss is such a ruthless person, when you work under him, you must remember to "leave one hand". When everything is done, you have to be careful of getting fired. How to turn passivity into initiative? When he wants to turn his face, you also tell him that I've been waiting for you for a long time. Why do you turn it today! Don't do this. I've seen too much of your means. If you have such a colleague, you don't have to see the same thing as him. In any case, there is no interest. You can do your own work. Whether you want to turn it over or not is up to you! Having such subordinates is the most nerve racking, and there is no good way. The most important thing is not to deal with him because he often turns over. Other subordinates will think you are bullying good and afraid of evil, which is not worth it.
Dealing with Cynics: turn a blind eye This type of people are very disgusted with some phenomena in society and think that society has changed, the world style is not ancient, and the people's hearts are becoming more and more sinister and unhappy. It's not good or bad to work with cynics. As long as what he is angry about is not the company's welfare system, it's just his personal behavior for you. There's nothing to say. When one day he has an opinion on the company's system and welfare, you will be blessed. He often sacrifices himself to seek some benefits for you. For a cynical subordinate, we should persuade him to absorb more new knowledge. Tell him that now that society is progressing and the atmosphere is open, his theory is outdated and should be put away, otherwise he will not keep up with the advanced generation. If you scold me to the point, you will be laughed at and I will lose face.
Dealing with people who respect their work and enjoy their group: you have to work hard This type of person is highly praised by the company and loved by colleagues because of their correct working attitude and methods. All his units and groups will have good productivity and performance. This type of person will infect other colleagues, make the organization develop in a positive direction and bring a cooperative and harmonious working environment to employees. When the company goes well, we will work together and share the results; When the company is not going well, we clench our teeth, work hard and create new vitality. When he is free at ordinary times, he will take the initiative to train novices and cultivate group strength; At the moment of busy work, he can influence his colleagues, support each other and tide over difficulties together. This type of person, whether your supervisor, colleagues or subordinates, when working with them, you should learn to respect their work and be happy with the group like him. As long as you show that you are not like that, you will be compared by him.
Deal with complacent people: try to follow him A complacent man has his own opinion on everything. The reason why he is complacent is that he has always been in a very favorable situation, so that he has never tasted the pain of failure. Therefore, we are not afraid of failure. Since God cares for him so much, as long as God doesn't die, he will be cared for again. He can't accept other people's opinions, and if others are smart enough, he doesn't have to argue with him. We should know that a person who has not failed for a long time is because of his wisdom, not his luck. Friends, I believe that the word "wisdom" is easy to write, but it is not easy to understand. If he is your boss, don't throw up ideas in front of him. Try to follow his instructions and he will make them clear. Because he's afraid you're stupid, he'll say it again. Finally, I'll ask you again, okay? He won't rest assured until you understand. Sometimes, he will politely ask you once, do you have any opinion on his practice? At this point, you immediately confirm his practice. At this time, if you hesitate a little or ask two more questions, you will be sneered at by him. Colleagues with such people can't follow him too much. Only by letting him taste the bitter fruit of failure can he really change and help him. For such subordinates, hand over some difficult jobs to him. If you succeed, you won't praise it; If you fail, leave it to others. Let others succeed and let them know that there are people outside of people and there are days outside of heaven. Without training him and telling him how to do things, he can't listen. It is absolutely beneficial for him to spend more energy on others.
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