Recently, a survey of 2075 people conducted by the social survey center of China Youth Daily through public opinion china.com and sina.com showed that 93.3% of the respondents felt that the current youth's anxiety for success was more common. Among the respondents, the Post-70s accounted for 35.0%, and the post-80s accounted for 47.5% Why are more and more young people eager for success "There is a popular saying on the Internet: the back waves of the Yangtze River push the front waves, and the front waves die on the beach." Han Xiaohan, a white-collar post-80s generation in Beijing, said that this is a common anxiety. If a person has not achieved much by the age of 30, he is likely to do nothing in his life until he retires. Zhou Hong, a librarian at Xinshao No. 1 middle school in Shaoyang, Hunan Province, said that the media often hype cases of "juvenile success". There is a book called "success as soon as possible - teach you how to earn 5million before you are 30". This seems to tell the current youth that they should hurry to attend famous schools, earn big money and seize power. This is success. Where is the "early" mentality most obvious? According to the survey, the top three are "making money" (75.7%), "being famous" (49.5%) and "buying a house" (52.1%). Others include promotion (50.2%), marriage (31.8%), having children (23.1%), etc. Zhou Qian, an employee of a private enterprise in Beijing, has been afraid to answer calls from home recently because she has been pressed too hard. Looking back on his nearly 30 years of life, it seems that everything is "urged" by his mother. When she went to school, her mother urged Zhou Qian to go to college and refuse all her hobbies; After graduating from college, my mother urged me to find a decent job; Enter the workplace, and urge to find someone, get married quickly; This year is the year of the dragon. My mother often calls to urge her to have a "dragon baby" "As long as you talk on the phone, it's about having children, because people have had 'Dragon babies'. Is this my life or someone else's life?" Zhou Qian said. Sun Shijin, Dean of the Department of psychology of Fudan University, said in an interview with the reporter of China Youth Daily that from a psychological point of view, a person's childhood has the greatest impact on the formation of later personality. At present, most of the young people are only children and grow up in a sense of urgency. Their childhood education is "don't lose at the starting line" At the same time, some parents will unconsciously give their children their worries and insecurities. Gu Yingchun, vice president of the Chinese Sociological Society and a professor at Zhejiang University, said that the important reason for the mentality of "everything as soon as possible" is that "in the period of social transformation, the whole people are impetuous" Nowadays, the frame of reference of public opinion is biased. Success is always linked to money, power, fame, status and other factors. Guan Jian, an associate professor of social psychology at Nankai University, pointed out that the current social system only rewards some short-term behaviors. "Sharpening a sword in ten years" is not recognized, but people who "sharpen a knife in one year" are more likely to be recognized. Individuals are particularly vulnerable to the influence and hint of others in the environment, which also leads to more and more young people eager for success, hoping to quickly obtain material benefits and social status. The survey shows that the primary reason for young people to have the psychology of "everything as soon as possible" is "the wind of impetuous anxiety in society" (75.9%), followed by "pressure from parents and peers" (54.8%), and the third is "blindly following a single value" (48.4%). 54% of people think that youth should do everything as soon as possible is an act of overdraft in the future What problems will arise from the psychology of "everything as soon as possible"? 75.0% felt that it would make people more eager for quick success and instant benefits; 69.0% believed that it would increase the impetuous atmosphere in society; 65.5% of people choose to make money worship and materialism more rampant; 55.6% pointed out that it would make the standard of success more and more single. Sun Shijin believes that the only child is a group with strong achievement motivation. They work and live with the expectations of their parents and even the whole family, which leads them to want to be recognized immediately. However, if there is no solid foundation, individuals are easy to encounter setbacks and blows in this process, bear a stronger sense of frustration and powerlessness, and even produce psychological diseases. Gu Yingchun pointed out that this will make young people's mentality impetuous, it is difficult to calm down and think about what they want, and will become more eager for quick success and instant benefits, and even unscrupulous. "The so-called resentment of women, the phenomenon of fighting for fathers, counterfeiting, and the rampant practice of thick and dark learning are all the products of this psychology." In the survey, 54.0% of the people believed that young people are eager to succeed as soon as possible, which is an act of overdraft in the future. "I think this will make the whole society lack creativity and vitality." Guan Jian said that many young people will have the problem of weight versus quality. In academia, scholars will not spend decades to complete a book, but rush to publish a book a year. In terms of technology, there may be small inventions every year, but there will be no big innovations. In the long run, the overall development of the country will be built on a loose foundation, which is very dangerous. In the survey, 88.2% of the respondents admitted that the current popular view of "no hope without success at the age of 30" has brought great pressure to young people. For the view that "there is no hope if you are not successful at the age of 30", 65.9% opposed it, 14.4% agreed, and 19.7% said it was hard to say. So, what is the best age for success? In the survey, 64.3% of people preferred "30-40 years old"; 28.5% thought it was "40-50 years old"; 11.3% chose "18-30 years old"; 3.9% of people choose "50-60 years old" Another 16.1% said "any age is OK" 53.1% believed that the society should form a diversified standard of success How should young people deal with the anxiety of "everything as soon as possible"? 66.2% of the people hoped that the youth would think independently and not blindly follow the crowd; 63.5% of the people suggested that young people should stick to the right path. "Youth is capital. There is no need for anxiety or inferiority complex." Liu Lei, an employee of Yicheng suburban middle school in Zaozhuang City, Shandong Province, said that we should firmly believe that everyone's potential is huge. No matter what you do, persistence is the key. Sun Shijin said that in this impetuous wind, it is very important for young people to learn to know themselves. First of all, ask yourself, "why can't I slow down? Life is like a long-distance race. Is everything you encounter now really as terrible as you think?" Then, with the spirit of introspection to think, dare to adhere to their own decisions. In the survey, 57.9% of people hope that the social environment will be more tolerant of young people, so that young people can grow up easily and freely; 50.7% of the people expect the media to guide them correctly and report the events of "juvenile success" rationally. "Now many parents have actually lost the potential of teenagers and delayed their future." Sun Shijin said that what parents should really give their children is a stable, safe and calm attitude. As the saying goes, "children and grandchildren have their own blessings" Enlightened parents should be tolerant, understanding and supportive of their children, and do not plan them according to their own intentions. Guan Jian suggested that the social reward mechanism should be improved from the perspective of encouraging long-term planning, so that young people can boldly step forward and take every step steadily. Gu Yingchun called on the mass media to shoulder more social responsibilities and weaken some "juvenile success" events. At the same time, we should pay more attention to publicity, and how successful people overcome difficulties and tide over difficulties in the process of achieving goals. In the survey, 53.1% believed that the society should form a diversified standard of success. What should be the criterion for judging success? The survey shows that the top two are "realizing self-worth" (76.2%) and "happy family" (60.9%). The next is: social status (44.9%), making enough money (42.3%), owning a house and car (30.4%), getting married and having children (22.5%), power (19.7%), fame (12.0%).

Recently, a survey of 2075 people conducted by the social survey center of China Youth Daily through public opinion china.com and sina.com showed that 93.3% of the respondents felt that the current youth's anxiety for success was more common. Among the respondents, the Post-70s accounted for 35.0%, and the post-80s accounted for 47.5% Why are more and more young people eager for success "There is a popular saying on the Internet: the back waves of the Yangtze River push the front waves, and the front waves die on the beach." Han Xiaohan, a white-collar post-80s generation in Beijing, said that this is a common anxiety. If a person has not achieved much by the age of 30, he is likely to do nothing in his life until he retires. Zhou Hong, a librarian at Xinshao No. 1 middle school in Shaoyang, Hunan Province, said that the media often hype cases of "juvenile success". There is a book called "success as soon as possible - teach you how to earn 5million before you are 30". This seems to tell the current youth that they should hurry to attend famous schools, earn big money and seize power. This is success. Where is the "early" mentality most obvious? According to the survey, the top three are "making money" (75.7%), "being famous" (49.5%) and "buying a house" (52.1%). Others include promotion (50.2%), marriage (31.8%), having children (23.1%), etc. Zhou Qian, an employee of a private enterprise in Beijing, has been afraid to answer calls from home recently because she has been pressed too hard. Looking back on his nearly 30 years of life, it seems that everything is "urged" by his mother. When she went to school, her mother urged Zhou Qian to go to college and refuse all her hobbies; After graduating from college, my mother urged me to find a decent job; Enter the workplace, and urge to find someone, get married quickly; This year is the year of the dragon. My mother often calls to urge her to have a "dragon baby" "As long as you talk on the phone, it's about having children, because people have had 'Dragon babies'. Is this my life or someone else's life?" Zhou Qian said. Sun Shijin, Dean of the Department of psychology of Fudan University, said in an interview with the reporter of China Youth Daily that from a psychological point of view, a person's childhood has the greatest impact on the formation of later personality. At present, most of the young people are only children and grow up in a sense of urgency. Their childhood education is "don't lose at the starting line" At the same time, some parents will unconsciously give their children their worries and insecurities. Gu Yingchun, vice president of the Chinese Sociological Society and a professor at Zhejiang University, said that the important reason for the mentality of "everything as soon as possible" is that "in the period of social transformation, the whole people are impetuous" Nowadays, the frame of reference of public opinion is biased. Success is always linked to money, power, fame, status and other factors. Guan Jian, an associate professor of social psychology at Nankai University, pointed out that the current social system only rewards some short-term behaviors. "Sharpening a sword in ten years" is not recognized, but people who "sharpen a knife in one year" are more likely to be recognized. Individuals are particularly vulnerable to the influence and hint of others in the environment, which also leads to more and more young people eager for success, hoping to quickly obtain material benefits and social status. The survey shows that the primary reason for young people to have the psychology of "everything as soon as possible" is "the wind of impetuous anxiety in society" (75.9%), followed by "pressure from parents and peers" (54.8%), and the third is "blindly following a single value" (48.4%). 54% of people think that youth should do everything as soon as possible is an act of overdraft in the future What problems will arise from the psychology of "everything as soon as possible"? 75.0% felt that it would make people more eager for quick success and instant benefits; 69.0% believed that it would increase the impetuous atmosphere in society; 65.5% of people choose to make money worship and materialism more rampant; 55.6% pointed out that it would make the standard of success more and more single. Sun Shijin believes that the only child is a group with strong achievement motivation. They work and live with the expectations of their parents and even the whole family, which leads them to want to be recognized immediately. However, if there is no solid foundation, individuals are easy to encounter setbacks and blows in this process, bear a stronger sense of frustration and powerlessness, and even produce psychological diseases. Gu Yingchun pointed out that this will make young people's mentality impetuous, it is difficult to calm down and think about what they want, and will become more eager for quick success and instant benefits, and even unscrupulous. "The so-called resentment of women, the phenomenon of fighting for fathers, counterfeiting, and the rampant practice of thick and dark learning are all the products of this psychology." In the survey, 54.0% of the people believed that young people are eager to succeed as soon as possible, which is an act of overdraft in the future. "I think this will make the whole society lack creativity and vitality." Guan Jian said that many young people will have the problem of weight versus quality. In academia, scholars will not spend decades to complete a book, but rush to publish a book a year. In terms of technology, there may be small inventions every year, but there will be no big innovations. In the long run, the overall development of the country will be built on a loose foundation, which is very dangerous. In the survey, 88.2% of the respondents admitted that the current popular view of "no hope without success at the age of 30" has brought great pressure to young people. For the view that "there is no hope if you are not successful at the age of 30", 65.9% opposed it, 14.4% agreed, and 19.7% said it was hard to say. So, what is the best age for success? In the survey, 64.3% of people preferred "30-40 years old"; 28.5% thought it was "40-50 years old"; 11.3% chose "18-30 years old"; 3.9% of people choose "50-60 years old" Another 16.1% said "any age is OK" 53.1% believed that the society should form a diversified standard of success How should young people deal with the anxiety of "everything as soon as possible"? 66.2% of the people hoped that the youth would think independently and not blindly follow the crowd; 63.5% of the people suggested that young people should stick to the right path. "Youth is capital. There is no need for anxiety or inferiority complex." Liu Lei, an employee of Yicheng suburban middle school in Zaozhuang City, Shandong Province, said that we should firmly believe that everyone's potential is huge. No matter what you do, persistence is the key. Sun Shijin said that in this impetuous wind, it is very important for young people to learn to know themselves. First of all, ask yourself, "why can't I slow down? Life is like a long-distance race. Is everything you encounter now really as terrible as you think?" Then, with the spirit of introspection to think, dare to adhere to their own decisions. In the survey, 57.9% of people hope that the social environment will be more tolerant of young people, so that young people can grow up easily and freely; 50.7% of the people expect the media to guide them correctly and report the events of "juvenile success" rationally. "Now many parents have actually lost the potential of teenagers and delayed their future." Sun Shijin said that what parents should really give their children is a stable, safe and calm attitude. As the saying goes, "children and grandchildren have their own blessings" Enlightened parents should be tolerant, understanding and supportive of their children, and do not plan them according to their own intentions. Guan Jian suggested that the social reward mechanism should be improved from the perspective of encouraging long-term planning, so that young people can boldly step forward and take every step steadily. Gu Yingchun called on the mass media to shoulder more social responsibilities and weaken some "juvenile success" events. At the same time, we should pay more attention to publicity, and how successful people overcome difficulties and tide over difficulties in the process of achieving goals. In the survey, 53.1% believed that the society should form a diversified standard of success. What should be the criterion for judging success? The survey shows that the top two are "realizing self-worth" (76.2%) and "happy family" (60.9%). The next is: social status (44.9%), making enough money (42.3%), owning a house and car (30.4%), getting married and having children (22.5%), power (19.7%), fame (12.0%).