
A Culture of Intimacy: a thesis for building enduring web3 communities
We need more intimacy on the internet, but not the kind of intimacy you might think. As operators in tech, we’re bombarded with oversimplified notions of growth fixated on exponential increases across quantitative metrics. Consider the ubiquity of crude mantras like number go up and up only. This strategy is misdirected within DAOs where the foundational function is community-building. While multi-thousand email waitlists may be beneficial for distribution, high-velocity member growth in earl...

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This is Body Language: a weekly web3 serial about human-scale interoperability, and the existential tensions that flow from this pursuit. Subscribe.
We need to reimagine our mental models for working within decentralized teams. This looks like shifting our orientation to our work from one of team management over to team facilitation. The primary function of facilitation is to remove obstacles, to get out of people’s way so that the people in the room can have the conversation that only they can have at that moment in time.* This requires listening.
When I talk about listening I’m talking about the kind of listening you do in an Adirondack pasture at 5 am in June.
At 5 am in an Adirondack pasture in June the immediate world is only just awakening...or so you think. The story you have is that you’re alone in a field. But when you listen - like really listen - you recognize there is an entire symphony beneath the silence: the shuffle of dewy grass under your boots, the white throated sparrows singing, “Oh sweet Canada,” the flutter of their wings as they fly from the fencepost.
If listening is the ability to answer the question What did this person say?, hearing is the ability to answer the question What does this person mean? Facilitation is listening to what everyone says, but more importantly it’s hearing everything that’s not said.
I wasn’t really hearing until I learned to listen. Hearing happens when you move the listening from your cognition into your body. You hear the sparrow’s song and it leaves an artifact in your mind that you can still recall years later. A field recording.**
What are the field recordings of us, building web3? How are we integrating our learnings into our bodies to memorialize this generationally defining culture shift? I ask this with the recognition that what we do today matters for the people who onboard tomorrow and each successive day ad infinitum.
Another way to think about digital coordination is the act of listening, hearing, and taking action. Every time we synch over Zoom, Google Meet, Discord, Twitter spaces, etc. we’re engaging in coordination, attempting to collectively decide what is the most elegant next step. We’re doing this with few templates, with literally no precedence. The lack of preexisting case law is what makes the legal implications of our choices so murky. Like a pasture at 5 am, we’re so early.
And yet we’re also not. The hubris to believe that this is the first time humans have attempted to design something revolutionary is painfully foolish. If we listen to one another we may just be able to hear the ways in which we have all done this before. The precedence lives in our bodies.
*adrienne maree brown taught me everything I know about this.
**Field Recordings is the name of one of my favorite winemakers.
This weekly serial investigates the tensions that flow from our pursuit of the next phase of digital evolution. As we’re building the infrastructure, finding shared purpose, and establishing digital coordination norms at dizzying speed, it’s easy to forget that we’re still complex and divergent humans collectively traumatized by a previously unimaginable global pandemic. Body language is here to help us remember.

This is Body Language: a weekly web3 serial about human-scale interoperability, and the existential tensions that flow from this pursuit. Subscribe.
We need to reimagine our mental models for working within decentralized teams. This looks like shifting our orientation to our work from one of team management over to team facilitation. The primary function of facilitation is to remove obstacles, to get out of people’s way so that the people in the room can have the conversation that only they can have at that moment in time.* This requires listening.
When I talk about listening I’m talking about the kind of listening you do in an Adirondack pasture at 5 am in June.
At 5 am in an Adirondack pasture in June the immediate world is only just awakening...or so you think. The story you have is that you’re alone in a field. But when you listen - like really listen - you recognize there is an entire symphony beneath the silence: the shuffle of dewy grass under your boots, the white throated sparrows singing, “Oh sweet Canada,” the flutter of their wings as they fly from the fencepost.
If listening is the ability to answer the question What did this person say?, hearing is the ability to answer the question What does this person mean? Facilitation is listening to what everyone says, but more importantly it’s hearing everything that’s not said.
I wasn’t really hearing until I learned to listen. Hearing happens when you move the listening from your cognition into your body. You hear the sparrow’s song and it leaves an artifact in your mind that you can still recall years later. A field recording.**
What are the field recordings of us, building web3? How are we integrating our learnings into our bodies to memorialize this generationally defining culture shift? I ask this with the recognition that what we do today matters for the people who onboard tomorrow and each successive day ad infinitum.
Another way to think about digital coordination is the act of listening, hearing, and taking action. Every time we synch over Zoom, Google Meet, Discord, Twitter spaces, etc. we’re engaging in coordination, attempting to collectively decide what is the most elegant next step. We’re doing this with few templates, with literally no precedence. The lack of preexisting case law is what makes the legal implications of our choices so murky. Like a pasture at 5 am, we’re so early.
And yet we’re also not. The hubris to believe that this is the first time humans have attempted to design something revolutionary is painfully foolish. If we listen to one another we may just be able to hear the ways in which we have all done this before. The precedence lives in our bodies.
*adrienne maree brown taught me everything I know about this.
**Field Recordings is the name of one of my favorite winemakers.
This weekly serial investigates the tensions that flow from our pursuit of the next phase of digital evolution. As we’re building the infrastructure, finding shared purpose, and establishing digital coordination norms at dizzying speed, it’s easy to forget that we’re still complex and divergent humans collectively traumatized by a previously unimaginable global pandemic. Body language is here to help us remember.

A Culture of Intimacy: a thesis for building enduring web3 communities
We need more intimacy on the internet, but not the kind of intimacy you might think. As operators in tech, we’re bombarded with oversimplified notions of growth fixated on exponential increases across quantitative metrics. Consider the ubiquity of crude mantras like number go up and up only. This strategy is misdirected within DAOs where the foundational function is community-building. While multi-thousand email waitlists may be beneficial for distribution, high-velocity member growth in earl...

Decentralized Media In web3 Is Not What You Think It Is
Let me start by saying what decentralized media is not: decentralized media is not decentralized content creation. steph 🪽🎀 @hhhuuunnn333yyy Decentralized media is not decentralized content creation 79 11:13 AM • Jul 5, 2022 Decentralized content creation is a skeuomorphic mental model that we ported from web2. Web2 social apps already provide the conditions for decentralized content creation. We can look to the meme and narrative network effects enabled by web2 social as a starting place f...

It’s All Connection, It Always Has Been
Like 29,999 (supposedly) other crypto mfers, I went to Denver last week. Things were feeling a bit stale for me online this first half of Q1. Crypto in Jan 2023 was a very different place than crypto in Jan 2022. It’s winter in all interpretations of the word. And even within exploring the chillier side of crypto with fellow operators, covering such boilerplate bear market themes like downsizing, burn rate, runway, focus — vibes were undeniably electric at ETH Denver. https://zora.co/collecti...
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