Personality growth is almost inevitably accompanied by realignment of real relationships. For example, if you used to be an ingratiating personality, the real relationships that surrounded you were, to varying degrees, the ones you traded in exchange for ceding your ego.

After a mountain of growth, you finally stopped pleasing, no longer cut off the self, you began to straighten up to be a person, do things cleanly, at this time those who are accustomed to your pleasing mode, will inevitably feel uncomfortable, uncomfortable. Human nature being what it is, you can't expect those people to high-five you for your growth.

And then there are subtle bumps and pulls in the relationship. The result of these collisions and tugs is that weak relationships that don't allow you to change and don't involve you in any way will be cleaned out.

As for the strong relationships that have interests and thus can't be cut off, they seem to be the same as always, but in fact, from the moment you stop trying to please, from the moment you dare to have collisions and pulls with the other side, they have been essentially adjusted and reconstructed.

Personality growth is almost inevitably accompanied by realignment of real relationships. For example, if you used to be an ingratiating personality, the real relationships that surrounded you were, to varying degrees, the ones you traded in exchange for ceding your ego.

After a mountain of growth, you finally stopped pleasing, no longer cut off the self, you began to straighten up to be a person, do things cleanly, at this time those who are accustomed to your pleasing mode, will inevitably feel uncomfortable, uncomfortable. Human nature being what it is, you can't expect those people to high-five you for your growth.

And then there are subtle bumps and pulls in the relationship. The result of these collisions and tugs is that weak relationships that don't allow you to change and don't involve you in any way will be cleaned out.

As for the strong relationships that have interests and thus can't be cut off, they seem to be the same as always, but in fact, from the moment you stop trying to please, from the moment you dare to have collisions and pulls with the other side, they have been essentially adjusted and reconstructed.