Dear Jo, With all the bad experiences with men in general, I think you let them off too easy. I think that fear of ending up alone, that fear of not truly getting seen or loved gets to you. I think you need to actually believe internally that you’re the best woman anyone can get. While it is ideal to want to feel whole and enough and strong on your own, accepting that you aren’t there is okay too, with yourself, with others even a guy you’re attracted to. If he doesn’t like you with all of th...