I wish I knew this earlier, at least to save me from mental stress and having clarity to focus forward in my life.

Do you believe in living a life of 'Happily Ever After'? It appears to be somehow pretty impossible, because the society voice that I was bombarded with, sounds like 'you never live life without pain'.

What if I can do something with the pain?

What if the pain is there to support my wellbeing and not causing me mental stress and burnt out?

What if the pain is there to show me my true alignment towards my wellbeing?

I wish I knew this earlier, yet somehow this truth of living happily ever after comes to me, as I study further what means to be 'wellbeing'.

Put simple, wellbeing is achieved when you are feeling good more than feeling bad in your every day's life. That puts you in a state of flow, a Zen mode where life just feels 'smooth and seamless'. Pure natural, everything feels like you are breathing really fine, regardless of ad-hoc errands or pampering yourself with a glass of fine wine.

Life itself, in every occurrence and existence just appears in perfect harmony, which supports the fittest survive and thrive rule. Isn't in this case, the fittest referring to a constant flow of wellbeing? Whatever fits remain, whatever excels stay. If the fittest is what remains, that means the flow of life itself supports wellness, supports a stream of wellbeing.

Take just the comets out there being extremely friendly with planet earth, never a collision seems to come destroy us and makes us disappear till date (and if we are destroyed, then life proves me wrong) and we are still evolving fine with NFT and Metaverse, launching rockets to Mars etc.

When wellbeing is achieved, then it will be easy for us to come into a phase of ongoing satisfaction. Do not get me wrong, there is still dissatisfaction going on, yet our wellbeing will always help us to balance out the energy of dissatisfaction and keep us towards our focus of our fittest, our wellness to support life force, to support our existence. Else, we can bid our goodbye (e.g. dying from state of dis-ease/ disease).

With ongoing satisfaction, this is where we can trust ourselves and trust others. We no longer feel the need to compare, be jealous of, confused of suffer from existential crisis. With trust comes respect. What we respect becomes something we adore and admire over time, that is where love and appreciation comes in.

When you love and appreciates your life and everything around you. you just enjoy and celebrate often. You dish out compliments sincerely, you are able to support the wellness of others on their journey. And the happily ever after continues where you continue to trust, respect, love and appreciate, enjoy, celebrate; trust more, respect more, love and appreciate more, enjoy more, celebrate more etc.

I did not get a full picture from Will Smith's "Pursuit of Happiness" back in my 20s, but I believed the seed did grew from there. And I am happy that, I have been given enough clarity now on where my coaching will help.

What is your take on this?

Do you believe in living a life of happily ever after? Or is it just a Disney Princess dream?

#happiness

#happilyeverafter

#lifecoaching

I wish I knew this earlier, at least to save me from mental stress and having clarity to focus forward in my life.

Do you believe in living a life of 'Happily Ever After'? It appears to be somehow pretty impossible, because the society voice that I was bombarded with, sounds like 'you never live life without pain'.

What if I can do something with the pain?

What if the pain is there to support my wellbeing and not causing me mental stress and burnt out?

What if the pain is there to show me my true alignment towards my wellbeing?

I wish I knew this earlier, yet somehow this truth of living happily ever after comes to me, as I study further what means to be 'wellbeing'.

Put simple, wellbeing is achieved when you are feeling good more than feeling bad in your every day's life. That puts you in a state of flow, a Zen mode where life just feels 'smooth and seamless'. Pure natural, everything feels like you are breathing really fine, regardless of ad-hoc errands or pampering yourself with a glass of fine wine.

Life itself, in every occurrence and existence just appears in perfect harmony, which supports the fittest survive and thrive rule. Isn't in this case, the fittest referring to a constant flow of wellbeing? Whatever fits remain, whatever excels stay. If the fittest is what remains, that means the flow of life itself supports wellness, supports a stream of wellbeing.

Take just the comets out there being extremely friendly with planet earth, never a collision seems to come destroy us and makes us disappear till date (and if we are destroyed, then life proves me wrong) and we are still evolving fine with NFT and Metaverse, launching rockets to Mars etc.

When wellbeing is achieved, then it will be easy for us to come into a phase of ongoing satisfaction. Do not get me wrong, there is still dissatisfaction going on, yet our wellbeing will always help us to balance out the energy of dissatisfaction and keep us towards our focus of our fittest, our wellness to support life force, to support our existence. Else, we can bid our goodbye (e.g. dying from state of dis-ease/ disease).

With ongoing satisfaction, this is where we can trust ourselves and trust others. We no longer feel the need to compare, be jealous of, confused of suffer from existential crisis. With trust comes respect. What we respect becomes something we adore and admire over time, that is where love and appreciation comes in.

When you love and appreciates your life and everything around you. you just enjoy and celebrate often. You dish out compliments sincerely, you are able to support the wellness of others on their journey. And the happily ever after continues where you continue to trust, respect, love and appreciate, enjoy, celebrate; trust more, respect more, love and appreciate more, enjoy more, celebrate more etc.

I did not get a full picture from Will Smith's "Pursuit of Happiness" back in my 20s, but I believed the seed did grew from there. And I am happy that, I have been given enough clarity now on where my coaching will help.

What is your take on this?

Do you believe in living a life of happily ever after? Or is it just a Disney Princess dream?

#happiness

#happilyeverafter

#lifecoaching