There is a girl who is brokenhearted, crying because she is unwilling in the park. A philosopher laughed and said: "You just lost a person who didn't love you, and he lost a person who loved him. His loss is greater than yours. What do you hate him for? The unwilling person should be him. ah."

Let's play a simple game of turning and thinking - turning your head and thinking, the joys and sorrows of life can also be different from different angles.

Question one

If there is a restaurant near your house, the food is expensive and unpalatable, and there are cockroaches crawling on the table, will you come again and again because it is convenient?

Answer: You will definitely say, what kind of rotten question is this, who is so stupid to spend money to buy guilt? But in the same situation, on another occasion, you may do similar stupid things yourself. Many men and women have complained that their lover or significant other is of bad character, half-hearted and irresponsible. Knowing that there is no good ending to be together, hatred is more than love, but "I don't know why" I have to mess with him and can't break up. To put it bluntly, it's just for the sake of unwillingness, for the sake of habit, isn't it the same as visiting a restaurant?

Question two

If you accidentally lost 100 bucks, only to know that it seemed to be lost somewhere you walked by, would you spend 200 bucks on the fare to get that 100 bucks back?

Answer: This is another super stupid question. However, similar things keep happening in life. When you do one thing wrong, you know that you have a problem, but you still refuse to admit your mistake. Instead, you spend twice as much time looking for excuses to make other people's impression of yourself greatly reduced. Being scolded by someone, but spending countless hours of sadness, the same reason. Getting angry over something, not at the expense of others, at the expense of money, at the expense of time, just for revenge, isn't it boring? Losing someone's feelings, knowing that everything is irreversible, is still so sad, and it lasts for several years, I also need to drink wine to drown my sorrows, and I will stand in the shape of a pin. In fact, it doesn't help at all, it just loses more.

Question three

Would you be afraid to go out because you open the newspaper and find that there are car accidents every day?

Answer: Of course not, this is called giving up food due to choking. However, many people have said: Seeing that the divorce rate is so high now, I don't dare to fall in love. It's quite reasonable to say. There are also many women who are worried about their other half after seeing many reports about an affair. Isn’t it a similar reaction? The so-called optimism is to believe: Although the road is difficult and dangerous, I am still the one who will cross the road safely, as long as I Be careful and don't be afraid to cross the road.

Question four

Do you think that it is very mindless to believe in success. Can anyone succeed in a business casually?

Answer: It is foolish to be overly optimistic. But it has been observed that someone always asks another question after listening to the advice that successful people have racked their brains for (for example, read more, practice more)? Isn't that difficult? We all want to learn English well in 3 minutes, Is it so easy to solve all the puzzles in 5 minutes? Of course change is hard. Success is only because you are not afraid of difficulties, so you can excel.

Once sitting in a taxi, I heard the taxi driver see high-end cars in front of and behind him, and sighed to himself: "Alas, why are other people so rich, and mine is so hard to earn?" On a whim, I asked him: "What do you think there is in this world? Is money easy to earn?" He smiled, but couldn't answer, and after a long while he said, "It seems that it is easier to earn with other people's money." Looking back, no one who succeeds has not spent time. We really shouldn't complain about difficulties.

Question five

Do you think someone who has never played basketball at all can be a good basketball coach?

Answer: Of course it is impossible. It is impossible for a layman to lead an expert. However, there are many people who don't know anything about a certain industry. They just hear that the industry is good for money, and immediately start a business. I have seen people who have no taste for clothes, or who don’t care about clothes at all, but their dream is to open a clothing store; people who never know how to turn on a computer want to make money in electronic stocks, but they hear rumors, but do not reflect on their lack of professional ability. , only complain when not me with.

Question six

Similar but not identical question: Do you think a basketball coach can lead a perfect win with his eyes closed without being on the basketball court?

Answer: Of course not. However, there are many friends who have no time to manage, but they also work hard to invest in opening cafes, restaurants, and companies that they don’t understand at all. They are eager to spend their spare money and become partners. Losing is always more than earning, but I also feel that I am just unlucky, not that I have a wrong idea.

Question seven

Would you rather regret it than try to see if you can turn the crisis around?

Answer: I am afraid no one will say: "Yes, I am such a coward". However, we often fight back when we shouldn’t, and dare not try to succeed for fear of failure. Take Chinese figure skating master Kwan Ying Shan's wonderful performance when she won the 2000 World Figure Skating Championship as an example: she was bent on winning the first place, but before the last competition, her total points only ranked third, in the final In the optional song project, she chose to make breakthroughs instead of making fewer mistakes. In the 4-minute long song, the most difficult triple jump is combined, and it also boldly jumps twice in a row. she

The defeat may have been ugly, but she succeeded. Her famous quote is: "Because I don't want to wait until I fail to regret that I didn't realize my potential." Because of this resilience, in 2001, she broke the prediction of reporters that she "won't win in odd-numbered years", and once again Win the Champions Cup.

Question eight

You have unlimited time and immortality, so what you want to do most should be postponed indefinitely?

Answer: No, no, no, who would say yes? Yet we often say, when I am old, I will travel around the world; when I retire, I will do what I want to do; when my children grow up , I can take it easy. We all mistakenly believe that we have unlimited time and energy. In fact, we can get closer to the dream step by step, without having to wait until we have time to get closer to it. If we can get closer to our dreams and ideals step by step now, we will not live half our lives and become the kind of people we least want to be in our ideals.

A bunch of dumb questions, aren't they? But some dumb questions do have their meaning. In life, everything has the ability to turn, it depends on how we think and how to turn. We won't make it in 3 minutes, but maybe it will only take 1 minute and life will be different.

There is a girl who is brokenhearted, crying because she is unwilling in the park. A philosopher laughed and said: "You just lost a person who didn't love you, and he lost a person who loved him. His loss is greater than yours. What do you hate him for? The unwilling person should be him. ah."

Let's play a simple game of turning and thinking - turning your head and thinking, the joys and sorrows of life can also be different from different angles.

Question one

If there is a restaurant near your house, the food is expensive and unpalatable, and there are cockroaches crawling on the table, will you come again and again because it is convenient?

Answer: You will definitely say, what kind of rotten question is this, who is so stupid to spend money to buy guilt? But in the same situation, on another occasion, you may do similar stupid things yourself. Many men and women have complained that their lover or significant other is of bad character, half-hearted and irresponsible. Knowing that there is no good ending to be together, hatred is more than love, but "I don't know why" I have to mess with him and can't break up. To put it bluntly, it's just for the sake of unwillingness, for the sake of habit, isn't it the same as visiting a restaurant?

Question two

If you accidentally lost 100 bucks, only to know that it seemed to be lost somewhere you walked by, would you spend 200 bucks on the fare to get that 100 bucks back?

Answer: This is another super stupid question. However, similar things keep happening in life. When you do one thing wrong, you know that you have a problem, but you still refuse to admit your mistake. Instead, you spend twice as much time looking for excuses to make other people's impression of yourself greatly reduced. Being scolded by someone, but spending countless hours of sadness, the same reason. Getting angry over something, not at the expense of others, at the expense of money, at the expense of time, just for revenge, isn't it boring? Losing someone's feelings, knowing that everything is irreversible, is still so sad, and it lasts for several years, I also need to drink wine to drown my sorrows, and I will stand in the shape of a pin. In fact, it doesn't help at all, it just loses more.

Question three

Would you be afraid to go out because you open the newspaper and find that there are car accidents every day?

Answer: Of course not, this is called giving up food due to choking. However, many people have said: Seeing that the divorce rate is so high now, I don't dare to fall in love. It's quite reasonable to say. There are also many women who are worried about their other half after seeing many reports about an affair. Isn’t it a similar reaction? The so-called optimism is to believe: Although the road is difficult and dangerous, I am still the one who will cross the road safely, as long as I Be careful and don't be afraid to cross the road.

Question four

Do you think that it is very mindless to believe in success. Can anyone succeed in a business casually?

Answer: It is foolish to be overly optimistic. But it has been observed that someone always asks another question after listening to the advice that successful people have racked their brains for (for example, read more, practice more)? Isn't that difficult? We all want to learn English well in 3 minutes, Is it so easy to solve all the puzzles in 5 minutes? Of course change is hard. Success is only because you are not afraid of difficulties, so you can excel.

Once sitting in a taxi, I heard the taxi driver see high-end cars in front of and behind him, and sighed to himself: "Alas, why are other people so rich, and mine is so hard to earn?" On a whim, I asked him: "What do you think there is in this world? Is money easy to earn?" He smiled, but couldn't answer, and after a long while he said, "It seems that it is easier to earn with other people's money." Looking back, no one who succeeds has not spent time. We really shouldn't complain about difficulties.

Question five

Do you think someone who has never played basketball at all can be a good basketball coach?

Answer: Of course it is impossible. It is impossible for a layman to lead an expert. However, there are many people who don't know anything about a certain industry. They just hear that the industry is good for money, and immediately start a business. I have seen people who have no taste for clothes, or who don’t care about clothes at all, but their dream is to open a clothing store; people who never know how to turn on a computer want to make money in electronic stocks, but they hear rumors, but do not reflect on their lack of professional ability. , only complain when not me with.

Question six

Similar but not identical question: Do you think a basketball coach can lead a perfect win with his eyes closed without being on the basketball court?

Answer: Of course not. However, there are many friends who have no time to manage, but they also work hard to invest in opening cafes, restaurants, and companies that they don’t understand at all. They are eager to spend their spare money and become partners. Losing is always more than earning, but I also feel that I am just unlucky, not that I have a wrong idea.

Question seven

Would you rather regret it than try to see if you can turn the crisis around?

Answer: I am afraid no one will say: "Yes, I am such a coward". However, we often fight back when we shouldn’t, and dare not try to succeed for fear of failure. Take Chinese figure skating master Kwan Ying Shan's wonderful performance when she won the 2000 World Figure Skating Championship as an example: she was bent on winning the first place, but before the last competition, her total points only ranked third, in the final In the optional song project, she chose to make breakthroughs instead of making fewer mistakes. In the 4-minute long song, the most difficult triple jump is combined, and it also boldly jumps twice in a row. she

The defeat may have been ugly, but she succeeded. Her famous quote is: "Because I don't want to wait until I fail to regret that I didn't realize my potential." Because of this resilience, in 2001, she broke the prediction of reporters that she "won't win in odd-numbered years", and once again Win the Champions Cup.

Question eight

You have unlimited time and immortality, so what you want to do most should be postponed indefinitely?

Answer: No, no, no, who would say yes? Yet we often say, when I am old, I will travel around the world; when I retire, I will do what I want to do; when my children grow up , I can take it easy. We all mistakenly believe that we have unlimited time and energy. In fact, we can get closer to the dream step by step, without having to wait until we have time to get closer to it. If we can get closer to our dreams and ideals step by step now, we will not live half our lives and become the kind of people we least want to be in our ideals.

A bunch of dumb questions, aren't they? But some dumb questions do have their meaning. In life, everything has the ability to turn, it depends on how we think and how to turn. We won't make it in 3 minutes, but maybe it will only take 1 minute and life will be different.