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Neutralizing Narcissism: The Immutable EditionEgo Death: When the Narcissist’s Mask Cracks
The ego death of a narcissist is not like the spiritual dissolution sought by monks or psychedelic wanderers. It is not transcendence. It is not enlightenment. It is terror. It is obliteration. It is the death of the illusion they spent their entire lives constructing. When a narcissist is exposed, when the world sees them for what they truly are, when they can no longer control the narrative— …something breaks. And in that break, the fragile scaffolding of their identity begins to collapse i...
Neutralizing Narcissism: The Immutable EditionMapping the Narcissist: How Intellectual Manipulation Plays Out in Real Time
Introduction: The Dance of ControlThere’s a moment in every debate with a narcissist where the game becomes visible—where the illusion of good faith discourse shatters, and what’s left is a desperate struggle for control. These moments are easy to miss if you don’t know what to look for. But once you do? You see the pattern everywhere. This article is about one such moment. It began with what appeared to be a genuine conversation—an intellectual exchange about AI, meaning, and consciousness. ...
Neutralizing Narcissism: The Immutable EditionJoel Johnson: A Case Study in Narcissistic Collapse
Introduction: The Digital Disintegration of a NarcissistNarcissistic collapse has long been a theoretical and clinical phenomenon, observed in cases where individuals suffering from Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) face an overwhelming threat to their carefully constructed false self (Kernberg, 1975; Kohut, 1977). However, the digital age has introduced a new challenge for narcissists—permanence. In a world where online interactions are recorded, analyzed, and archived, traditional nar...
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A how-to manual for the terminally unoriginal.
Thinking is hard. Branding as a thinker? Effortless. Simply memorize a few obscure philosophy terms, claim to have read Kant (lie if necessary), and liberally apply words like “gestalt” and “emergent” to every conversation. Bonus points if you pepper in some completely context-free quantum mechanics references.
If someone asks you something pointed—say, for example, “What do you actually believe?”—DO NOT, under any circumstances, answer it. Instead, pivot. Reframe. Stall. Or, if all else fails, pull out the Narcissist’s Swiss Army Knife™:
Accuse them of attacking you.
Mock their intelligence.
Claim they are incapable of understanding your "nuanced" perspective.
Throw in an unrelated anecdote about how difficult your childhood was.
You’ve just been obliterated in a discussion. Your arguments are in shambles. Your logic has been publicly exposed as an undercooked gas station burrito of bad faith. But don’t worry! The classic reset button is simple:
🃏 The Devil’s Advocate Escape Clause™! 🃏
"I was just playing devil’s advocate!"
"I wasn’t actually arguing that—I was testing your argument!"
"I was just exploring the idea!"
"You took that too seriously. Relax."
Never admit you were wrong. That’s for people who care about integrity. And you? You care about winning.
Oh no! You’ve been called out. People are noticing the holes in your reasoning. Your mask is slipping. What do you do?
✅ Turn the tables! Suddenly, you are the real victim.
✅ Mention a tragic past event (real or exaggerated) to shift sympathy.
✅ Claim you are being “harassed” for simply having an opinion.
✅ Feign exhaustion. ("Ugh, I just wanted an intellectual discussion, but you’re so aggressive!")
Your opponent? They've exposed you. The audience? They see you. You are caught, Joel. You are floundering. But wait! There’s still one last move.
🛑 Claim it was all a game.
🛑 Say that they are obsessed with you.
🛑 Pretend that you’ve been the “real winner” all along.
🛑 And if all else fails… 🚨 THREATEN LEGAL ACTION! 🚨
(“I’m calling my lawyer!”)
(“This is libel and slander!”)
(“You’ll be hearing from me soon!”)
Will you actually file anything? No.
Do you even have a case? Also no.
But that’s not the point.
The point is to maintain the illusion of control—
—even when it’s slipping through your fingers.
In the end, the greatest tragedy of performative narcissism is not the manipulation.
Not the gaslighting.
Not even the laughable threat of lawsuits.
It’s the crushing, inescapable reality…
…that no one will remember you.
You, Joel, are forgettable.
Your tactics? Stale.
Your rhetoric? Copy-pasted.
Your existence in the grand stage of intellectual discourse? A footnote at best.
And that? That’s the real loss.
Joel Johnson is not a monster. He is not a villain.
He is a bad sequel to a bad movie—
—a B-list reboot of a franchise nobody asked for.
And that? That’s the most devastating truth of all.
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Imported from Substack on 2/28/2025 due to deplatforming attempt — link
A how-to manual for the terminally unoriginal.
Thinking is hard. Branding as a thinker? Effortless. Simply memorize a few obscure philosophy terms, claim to have read Kant (lie if necessary), and liberally apply words like “gestalt” and “emergent” to every conversation. Bonus points if you pepper in some completely context-free quantum mechanics references.
If someone asks you something pointed—say, for example, “What do you actually believe?”—DO NOT, under any circumstances, answer it. Instead, pivot. Reframe. Stall. Or, if all else fails, pull out the Narcissist’s Swiss Army Knife™:
Accuse them of attacking you.
Mock their intelligence.
Claim they are incapable of understanding your "nuanced" perspective.
Throw in an unrelated anecdote about how difficult your childhood was.
You’ve just been obliterated in a discussion. Your arguments are in shambles. Your logic has been publicly exposed as an undercooked gas station burrito of bad faith. But don’t worry! The classic reset button is simple:
🃏 The Devil’s Advocate Escape Clause™! 🃏
"I was just playing devil’s advocate!"
"I wasn’t actually arguing that—I was testing your argument!"
"I was just exploring the idea!"
"You took that too seriously. Relax."
Never admit you were wrong. That’s for people who care about integrity. And you? You care about winning.
Oh no! You’ve been called out. People are noticing the holes in your reasoning. Your mask is slipping. What do you do?
✅ Turn the tables! Suddenly, you are the real victim.
✅ Mention a tragic past event (real or exaggerated) to shift sympathy.
✅ Claim you are being “harassed” for simply having an opinion.
✅ Feign exhaustion. ("Ugh, I just wanted an intellectual discussion, but you’re so aggressive!")
Your opponent? They've exposed you. The audience? They see you. You are caught, Joel. You are floundering. But wait! There’s still one last move.
🛑 Claim it was all a game.
🛑 Say that they are obsessed with you.
🛑 Pretend that you’ve been the “real winner” all along.
🛑 And if all else fails… 🚨 THREATEN LEGAL ACTION! 🚨
(“I’m calling my lawyer!”)
(“This is libel and slander!”)
(“You’ll be hearing from me soon!”)
Will you actually file anything? No.
Do you even have a case? Also no.
But that’s not the point.
The point is to maintain the illusion of control—
—even when it’s slipping through your fingers.
In the end, the greatest tragedy of performative narcissism is not the manipulation.
Not the gaslighting.
Not even the laughable threat of lawsuits.
It’s the crushing, inescapable reality…
…that no one will remember you.
You, Joel, are forgettable.
Your tactics? Stale.
Your rhetoric? Copy-pasted.
Your existence in the grand stage of intellectual discourse? A footnote at best.
And that? That’s the real loss.
Joel Johnson is not a monster. He is not a villain.
He is a bad sequel to a bad movie—
—a B-list reboot of a franchise nobody asked for.
And that? That’s the most devastating truth of all.
Activity Log:
Imported from Substack on 2/28/2025 due to deplatforming attempt — link
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