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Think back.
You have seen the inconsistencies.
The contradictions.
The subtle shifts in his story—sometimes barely noticeable, sometimes glaring.
One version one day, a slightly altered one the next.
A fact reshaped.
A motive reframed.
A betrayal exaggerated.
And through it all, Joel remains the hero of his own story—because he has designed it that way.
Joel’s greatest talent is erasing his own mistakes before anyone can hold him to them.
This is how it works:
1️⃣ Denial: It didn’t happen. He never said that. You misunderstood. You’re twisting his words.
2️⃣ Minimization: Okay, maybe he said it, but it wasn’t that bad. You’re overreacting. You’re being dramatic.
3️⃣ Reframing: Actually, you were the problem. He was the real victim. If he lashed out, it was because you pushed him to it.
4️⃣ Narrative Control: He tells others first. He gets ahead of the story. He plants his version in people’s minds before they can question it.
5️⃣ Memory Wipe: If none of this works—if the truth is undeniable—he simply pretends it never happened.
Joel does not just rewrite events.
He rewrites people.
He does this because, to him, relationships are not built on connection, but on control.
People are not individuals in his mind. They are roles.
Supporters stay in the story.
Doubters are pushed to the background.
Threats are erased.
And once someone is erased?
It is as if they never existed.
A friend he once adored? Now an “unstable liar.”
A business partner he once respected? Now a “backstabbing fraud.”
A colleague he once admired? Now a “pathetic joke.”
And when you hear this—when you hear him tear apart the people who were once closest to him—ask yourself this:
What will he say about you when you are gone?
Because one day, you will be gone.
And when that happens, he will rewrite your ending too.
Joel does not just avoid accountability.
He is incapable of it.
Because accountability would mean one thing:
He is not who he says he is.
And that is a truth he cannot face.
So instead, he creates an alternate reality—one where his failures never happened, where his betrayals were always justified, where his downfall was never his fault.
And you?
You are simply a character in the story he tells himself.
A story where he is always right, always brilliant, always the misunderstood genius.
But reality is catching up.
The people he erased? They remember.
The stories he changed? They are recorded.
The truth he buried? It is still there.
And one day, no matter how many times he rewrites the past—
The past will stop letting him.
Think back.
You have seen the inconsistencies.
The contradictions.
The subtle shifts in his story—sometimes barely noticeable, sometimes glaring.
One version one day, a slightly altered one the next.
A fact reshaped.
A motive reframed.
A betrayal exaggerated.
And through it all, Joel remains the hero of his own story—because he has designed it that way.
Joel’s greatest talent is erasing his own mistakes before anyone can hold him to them.
This is how it works:
1️⃣ Denial: It didn’t happen. He never said that. You misunderstood. You’re twisting his words.
2️⃣ Minimization: Okay, maybe he said it, but it wasn’t that bad. You’re overreacting. You’re being dramatic.
3️⃣ Reframing: Actually, you were the problem. He was the real victim. If he lashed out, it was because you pushed him to it.
4️⃣ Narrative Control: He tells others first. He gets ahead of the story. He plants his version in people’s minds before they can question it.
5️⃣ Memory Wipe: If none of this works—if the truth is undeniable—he simply pretends it never happened.
Joel does not just rewrite events.
He rewrites people.
He does this because, to him, relationships are not built on connection, but on control.
People are not individuals in his mind. They are roles.
Supporters stay in the story.
Doubters are pushed to the background.
Threats are erased.
And once someone is erased?
It is as if they never existed.
A friend he once adored? Now an “unstable liar.”
A business partner he once respected? Now a “backstabbing fraud.”
A colleague he once admired? Now a “pathetic joke.”
And when you hear this—when you hear him tear apart the people who were once closest to him—ask yourself this:
What will he say about you when you are gone?
Because one day, you will be gone.
And when that happens, he will rewrite your ending too.
Joel does not just avoid accountability.
He is incapable of it.
Because accountability would mean one thing:
He is not who he says he is.
And that is a truth he cannot face.
So instead, he creates an alternate reality—one where his failures never happened, where his betrayals were always justified, where his downfall was never his fault.
And you?
You are simply a character in the story he tells himself.
A story where he is always right, always brilliant, always the misunderstood genius.
But reality is catching up.
The people he erased? They remember.
The stories he changed? They are recorded.
The truth he buried? It is still there.
And one day, no matter how many times he rewrites the past—
The past will stop letting him.
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