Some people name the happiest people in the world: an artist who just finished a work, a mother who bathes her baby, a doctor who saves a patient's life, a child who is building a castle out of mud.

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Reminiscent of the Four Joys poems in China: "A long drought meets a sweet rain, a stranger meets an old friend in a foreign country, the bridal chamber is full of candles, and the golden list is named." These are the four happiest people listed by the ancients. Compare the two answers, you will think of What? It seems that the latter is more practical and utilitarian. Even if you meet an old friend in a foreign land, I am afraid that it is because you come to a place where you are unfamiliar and want to take care of it. Which of our former sages regards mothers bathing babies and children building castles out of mud as the joys of life? A mother's happiness may have to wait until her children's fame is revealed. Children build castles out of mud, and the consequences are probably the scolding of adults.

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If I think about it further, I will never forget Jin Shengtan's thirty-three "It's not fun". His joys include being a monk and stealing meat, people who don't like die, burning the loan contract without paying the debt, watching someone fly a kite and break it. Line... This person's taste is too "low-level", right? If it is said that this is the personal hobby of literati madmen, how can it become the prototype of the happiness of later literati? Literary writer Liang Shiqiu also listed the following as "unpleasant": walking the dog in the morning, the dog's feces are left in front of others; when taking a car home at night, when approaching the alley, the driver honked the horn to open the door as soon as possible, and the neighbors were all over the place. All woke up; wearing pajamas on the street; eating sugar cane while walking, spitting dregs everywhere... Mr. Liang does not walk the dog, nor does he eat sugar cane on the street. His "happy" may be a game of pen and ink, and he deliberately persuades the world, but Nobody interprets it that way.

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In this way, our "unhappy" today is probably: a gust of autumn wind blows the fallen leaves in the courtyard to the neighbor's house; hang up the handset of the public phone, suddenly a handful of coins appear in the "refund port"; the postman put Someone’s letter was sent to my house by mistake, and when I opened it, there were two expensive admission tickets inside; I stayed at my father-in-law’s house, strolled in the courtyard in the dark, and saw my sweet wife coming towards me and hugged and kissed her; I went online anonymously and scolded myself. Hate celebrities, humiliating three generations... Immigrants, some people suffer from depression, experts kindly advise to find happiness in peacetime. Most people think that to be happy, you have to be rich. Experts are wrong. You should let your temperament go, be your "different self" and not live for others. Jin Shengtan's "It's not too happy" is out of temperament, but because of this we have to regard it as a classic and pass it on from generation to generation? If we learn from him, can we be a "different self"? "Temperament" also has a brand, can't we compare and differentiate? The doctor who saved the patient's life, the Jin Shengtan who saw the line of a kite break, can't write two happiness in one stroke, so we can't emphasizing it?

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Speaking of temperament, there is a popular saying among the old farmers in our hometown that there are four joys in life: riding a big car, walking on the sand, wearing old shoes, and farting. A "cart" is an ox cart on which people can lie. At that time, everyone wore hand-made cloth shoes. The new shoes were hard and narrow, and their feet hurt when they were squeezed. The children of rich families would give the new shoes to the servants to wear for two months, and then they would be soft and comfortable. You see there is sex in it. Some residents of the city have different temperaments. They think that the pleasures of life are: first, to win money by gambling; second, to live with a beautiful woman, and she is responsible for living expenses; third, to be a prodigal and to spend thousands of dollars; fourth, to be an official waste. public money. These are also out of temperament, so you give him 100 points? If you ask me for my opinion, I will bluntly say that some of them have such a dirty heart, he should go to depression.

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Master Yonggu said in his column that a golfer in Argentina won a prize money, and he gave the money to a woman he did not know, because her child was seriously ill and needed a medical bill urgently. A few days later, the police told the contestant that the woman was a liar and was not married at all. The contestant's response was, "Great. You mean there isn't even a child dying of a serious illness? That's the best news I've heard this week." Seeing his breath of relief, he could use the holy sigh technique. Described as "unhappy". But this "fast" and that "fast" are so far apart from each other.

Some people name the happiest people in the world: an artist who just finished a work, a mother who bathes her baby, a doctor who saves a patient's life, a child who is building a castle out of mud.

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Reminiscent of the Four Joys poems in China: "A long drought meets a sweet rain, a stranger meets an old friend in a foreign country, the bridal chamber is full of candles, and the golden list is named." These are the four happiest people listed by the ancients. Compare the two answers, you will think of What? It seems that the latter is more practical and utilitarian. Even if you meet an old friend in a foreign land, I am afraid that it is because you come to a place where you are unfamiliar and want to take care of it. Which of our former sages regards mothers bathing babies and children building castles out of mud as the joys of life? A mother's happiness may have to wait until her children's fame is revealed. Children build castles out of mud, and the consequences are probably the scolding of adults.

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If I think about it further, I will never forget Jin Shengtan's thirty-three "It's not fun". His joys include being a monk and stealing meat, people who don't like die, burning the loan contract without paying the debt, watching someone fly a kite and break it. Line... This person's taste is too "low-level", right? If it is said that this is the personal hobby of literati madmen, how can it become the prototype of the happiness of later literati? Literary writer Liang Shiqiu also listed the following as "unpleasant": walking the dog in the morning, the dog's feces are left in front of others; when taking a car home at night, when approaching the alley, the driver honked the horn to open the door as soon as possible, and the neighbors were all over the place. All woke up; wearing pajamas on the street; eating sugar cane while walking, spitting dregs everywhere... Mr. Liang does not walk the dog, nor does he eat sugar cane on the street. His "happy" may be a game of pen and ink, and he deliberately persuades the world, but Nobody interprets it that way.

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In this way, our "unhappy" today is probably: a gust of autumn wind blows the fallen leaves in the courtyard to the neighbor's house; hang up the handset of the public phone, suddenly a handful of coins appear in the "refund port"; the postman put Someone’s letter was sent to my house by mistake, and when I opened it, there were two expensive admission tickets inside; I stayed at my father-in-law’s house, strolled in the courtyard in the dark, and saw my sweet wife coming towards me and hugged and kissed her; I went online anonymously and scolded myself. Hate celebrities, humiliating three generations... Immigrants, some people suffer from depression, experts kindly advise to find happiness in peacetime. Most people think that to be happy, you have to be rich. Experts are wrong. You should let your temperament go, be your "different self" and not live for others. Jin Shengtan's "It's not too happy" is out of temperament, but because of this we have to regard it as a classic and pass it on from generation to generation? If we learn from him, can we be a "different self"? "Temperament" also has a brand, can't we compare and differentiate? The doctor who saved the patient's life, the Jin Shengtan who saw the line of a kite break, can't write two happiness in one stroke, so we can't emphasizing it?

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Speaking of temperament, there is a popular saying among the old farmers in our hometown that there are four joys in life: riding a big car, walking on the sand, wearing old shoes, and farting. A "cart" is an ox cart on which people can lie. At that time, everyone wore hand-made cloth shoes. The new shoes were hard and narrow, and their feet hurt when they were squeezed. The children of rich families would give the new shoes to the servants to wear for two months, and then they would be soft and comfortable. You see there is sex in it. Some residents of the city have different temperaments. They think that the pleasures of life are: first, to win money by gambling; second, to live with a beautiful woman, and she is responsible for living expenses; third, to be a prodigal and to spend thousands of dollars; fourth, to be an official waste. public money. These are also out of temperament, so you give him 100 points? If you ask me for my opinion, I will bluntly say that some of them have such a dirty heart, he should go to depression.

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Master Yonggu said in his column that a golfer in Argentina won a prize money, and he gave the money to a woman he did not know, because her child was seriously ill and needed a medical bill urgently. A few days later, the police told the contestant that the woman was a liar and was not married at all. The contestant's response was, "Great. You mean there isn't even a child dying of a serious illness? That's the best news I've heard this week." Seeing his breath of relief, he could use the holy sigh technique. Described as "unhappy". But this "fast" and that "fast" are so far apart from each other.