In the latest episode of What I Know, veteran Nollywood actress Shaffy Bello sits down with media personality Tomike Adeoye and actor and film producer Elozonam Ogbolu for a raw, hilarious, and deeply relatable conversation about one of life's most cherished yet complicated relationships: friendship.

Titled "About Friendship, Growth & Boundaries," the episode dives into the real stuff—the kind of talks we have with our inner circle at 2 a.m., but rarely see unpacked so honestly on screen. From long-distance catch-ups that feel like no time has passed to the tricky art of setting boundaries (especially in cross-gender dynamics), the trio covers it all with laughter, personal stories, and zero filter.

One of the most debated moments? The question of inheriting "beef"—that unwritten rule where loyalty supposedly means automatically taking sides in your best friend's conflicts, even if you barely know the other person or suspect your friend might be in the wrong.

Elozonam didn't hold back:

"Inherit the beef. Hello. Hi. Goodbye."

For him, true loyalty means standing by your friend publicly, even while privately telling them they're wrong. It's ride-or-die energy—public allegiance first, honest feedback behind closed doors. Shaffy and Tomike weighed in too, acknowledging that while blind loyalty has its place in the deepest friendships, it depends on context. How close is the bond? Is it a genuine beef or a fleeting misunderstanding? Some situations call for full inheritance; others might warrant a more measured "cordial but distant" approach.

The discussion sparked real reactions online—viewers shared stories of inheriting fights only to watch their friend reconcile secretly, leaving them as the "bad guy." One comment summed it up perfectly:

"Don’t inherit the beef plssss, speaking from experience... they later use me to settle 😂😂😂."

It's a reminder that loyalty isn't one-size-fits-all.

Shaffy wrapped it beautifully:

"If you plant tomatoes, you cannot go back and dig out onions."

Friendships reward what you invest—nurture them with communication, consistency, and kindness, and they flourish. Neglect them, and they fade naturally.

This episode is more than celebrity chit-chat; it's a mirror for anyone who's ever questioned a friendship, felt the sting of distance, or wondered how far loyalty should stretch. Tomike's humor, Elozonam's grounded takes, and Shaffy's wisdom create a perfect balance—funny one minute, profound the next.

If you've ever navigated the beautiful mess of adult friendships, this one's for you. Scroll up and click play or head over to Shaffy Bello's YouTube channel and watch the full episode.

What about you—do you inherit the beef, or do you keep it cordial? Drop your thoughts below. Real friendships deserve real talks. 💛

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In the latest episode of What I Know, veteran Nollywood actress Shaffy Bello sits down with media personality Tomike Adeoye and actor and film producer Elozonam Ogbolu for a raw, hilarious, and deeply relatable conversation about one of life's most cherished yet complicated relationships: friendship.

Titled "About Friendship, Growth & Boundaries," the episode dives into the real stuff—the kind of talks we have with our inner circle at 2 a.m., but rarely see unpacked so honestly on screen. From long-distance catch-ups that feel like no time has passed to the tricky art of setting boundaries (especially in cross-gender dynamics), the trio covers it all with laughter, personal stories, and zero filter.

One of the most debated moments? The question of inheriting "beef"—that unwritten rule where loyalty supposedly means automatically taking sides in your best friend's conflicts, even if you barely know the other person or suspect your friend might be in the wrong.

Elozonam didn't hold back:

"Inherit the beef. Hello. Hi. Goodbye."

For him, true loyalty means standing by your friend publicly, even while privately telling them they're wrong. It's ride-or-die energy—public allegiance first, honest feedback behind closed doors. Shaffy and Tomike weighed in too, acknowledging that while blind loyalty has its place in the deepest friendships, it depends on context. How close is the bond? Is it a genuine beef or a fleeting misunderstanding? Some situations call for full inheritance; others might warrant a more measured "cordial but distant" approach.

The discussion sparked real reactions online—viewers shared stories of inheriting fights only to watch their friend reconcile secretly, leaving them as the "bad guy." One comment summed it up perfectly:

"Don’t inherit the beef plssss, speaking from experience... they later use me to settle 😂😂😂."

It's a reminder that loyalty isn't one-size-fits-all.

Shaffy wrapped it beautifully:

"If you plant tomatoes, you cannot go back and dig out onions."

Friendships reward what you invest—nurture them with communication, consistency, and kindness, and they flourish. Neglect them, and they fade naturally.

This episode is more than celebrity chit-chat; it's a mirror for anyone who's ever questioned a friendship, felt the sting of distance, or wondered how far loyalty should stretch. Tomike's humor, Elozonam's grounded takes, and Shaffy's wisdom create a perfect balance—funny one minute, profound the next.

If you've ever navigated the beautiful mess of adult friendships, this one's for you. Scroll up and click play or head over to Shaffy Bello's YouTube channel and watch the full episode.

What about you—do you inherit the beef, or do you keep it cordial? Drop your thoughts below. Real friendships deserve real talks. 💛

Click here to visit our blog.