When I saw the Devil Wears Prada movie I was in love with all the characters. I was feeling inspired by all of them, especially Miranda. Her clothes, makeup, and style, all of it were on point.

I was fascinated by this luxurious woman that I passed down all the negative comments and ridiculously requires.

I saw this movie when I was about 10 years old. In my imagination, this kind of behavior that Miranda has in the movie was only a fantasy. There are no people like this. Everyone is nice to each other. In the eyes of a child, there is no negative, only joy, and excitement.

Maybe that is a way we try to see the world as adults from the perspective of a child. Maybe then we will feel alive by something.
Fast forward, 13 years later, I see the world differently. I saw lots of Miranda. Pressure everywhere, to achieve the impossible. In a world where there are many ‘’Miranda,‘’ nothing that you do will be appreciated truly.
Reading the book helped me teleport in my experience.

I resonate with most of the stories that are being told there.

Being emotionally abusive to someone isn’t glamorous. Neither Dior nor Givenchy could hide it. The monstrosity and the attitudine which Miranda has is …... I have been beside Miranda, and I tell you that I was unhappy and exhausted all the time. How could you be happy, or how could you think positively if you are surrounded by such people? How? When I had enough I took my life into my own hands. I decide. When I started to realize what was happening to me I understood the fact that I need to eliminate this kind o person IMMEDIATELY from my life.

And I tell you that it was amazing to finally close the door with that person. In this process of taking control over my life, I was feeling hesitant. ‘’Maybe she is right, I am the problem!’’, or ‘’If I could do this better maybe our relationship will be better’’.

In each case, I WASN’T THE PROBLEM. An emotional abuser does not matter the status, clothes, or vocabulary it is going to be an emotional abuser. Learn from them what you can and then run for your life. Your life isn’t meant to be lived miserably. Happiness and joy are for everyone.

When I saw the Devil Wears Prada movie I was in love with all the characters. I was feeling inspired by all of them, especially Miranda. Her clothes, makeup, and style, all of it were on point.

I was fascinated by this luxurious woman that I passed down all the negative comments and ridiculously requires.

I saw this movie when I was about 10 years old. In my imagination, this kind of behavior that Miranda has in the movie was only a fantasy. There are no people like this. Everyone is nice to each other. In the eyes of a child, there is no negative, only joy, and excitement.

Maybe that is a way we try to see the world as adults from the perspective of a child. Maybe then we will feel alive by something.
Fast forward, 13 years later, I see the world differently. I saw lots of Miranda. Pressure everywhere, to achieve the impossible. In a world where there are many ‘’Miranda,‘’ nothing that you do will be appreciated truly.
Reading the book helped me teleport in my experience.

I resonate with most of the stories that are being told there.

Being emotionally abusive to someone isn’t glamorous. Neither Dior nor Givenchy could hide it. The monstrosity and the attitudine which Miranda has is …... I have been beside Miranda, and I tell you that I was unhappy and exhausted all the time. How could you be happy, or how could you think positively if you are surrounded by such people? How? When I had enough I took my life into my own hands. I decide. When I started to realize what was happening to me I understood the fact that I need to eliminate this kind o person IMMEDIATELY from my life.

And I tell you that it was amazing to finally close the door with that person. In this process of taking control over my life, I was feeling hesitant. ‘’Maybe she is right, I am the problem!’’, or ‘’If I could do this better maybe our relationship will be better’’.

In each case, I WASN’T THE PROBLEM. An emotional abuser does not matter the status, clothes, or vocabulary it is going to be an emotional abuser. Learn from them what you can and then run for your life. Your life isn’t meant to be lived miserably. Happiness and joy are for everyone.