What do women want from men? What do men want from women?

These questions confuse many people, and arguments often devolve into men blaming women and women blaming men. As I have promised to do with this blog, I will cut through all the noise and get down to the brass tacks without mincing words. (Or going through the corners.)

Both men and women have short-term and long-term mating strategies (this will be the topic for another time, so I will not go into details here.) The summary is that short-term mating strategies for both genders are based purely on physical attraction and nothing else. Whenever both genders go for something longer, they look beyond the physical attributes. For this article, I will focus on the long-term mating strategies.

What do women want from men? When a woman assesses a man after the short-term physical attraction has been subdued, she seeks a man who can care for her physically and emotionally. A proxy for this is how wealthy or potentially wealthy he could be. She is looking out for the lifestyle she can get now or what she will be able to get in the future. Physical attributes such as height and size begin to take a back seat because a wealthy or influential man can provide physical security for her by proxy. Since he can command resources and other men, she will feel protected. Regardless of what women say, if a man cannot provide emotional and physical security, she will never stick with the man long-term. This is why it is possible for a woman to love a man dearly and still go and marry another man. And then cheat on the man she married with the man she loves. And then get the man she married to raise the child she bore for the ex-boyfriend. To top it all off, most women who do this will give the ex-boyfriend's name to the child as a constant reminder of who she loves. In summary, what women want from men are their resources, which provide their desired lifestyle.

What do men want from women? Like the woman, the man begins to look closer at the woman when he is ready to commit to her. The most critical attribute to him is her sexuality, which is evidenced by her physical attributes - the round ass, the plump breasts, the soft skin, etc. Her mental state then follows this. All women are neurotic - the more neurotic they are, the more difficult they are to manage. Nobody can do anything about this neuroticism, but each woman has a certain level. Some women are incredibly neurotic, but they are so hot that many men don't care. So, there is a delicate balance here. Unfortunately, a woman may have very low neuroticism and be calm and easygoing but may not be attractive enough for most men to consider committing to her. In summary, what men want from women are their sexuality and their ability to have children for them (if the man wants children).

Everything else feeds from this. When a woman says she loves a man, she is saying that she loves the lifestyle he can, or potentially can, provide. When a man says he loves a woman, what he is saying is that he loves that her sexuality belongs to him and nobody else. Some men may feel offended by this, but yes, that woman loves you because of your money. Lose it, and she's gone. Some women may also feel offended by this, but yes, that man loves you because of your sexuality. Give it to another man, and he's gone.

From this, we can deduce that the functional equivalent of a wealthy man is a hot girl. This is also why the functional equivalent of a man who cannot provide is a wife who cheats (or cheats). Most men will grumble when women leave them because they came to hard times, but other men accept the reality that it is what it is. This is why it is mental when women think cheating between men and women is equal. But from their behavior, the truth appears. When a man is highly valued and cheats, the woman will not leave. In fact, despite how loud women cry about cheating men, women line up to be the third and fourth side chicks of a highly valued man. But very few men stay after their wife cheats, and if they stay, the relationship or marriage never stays the same again. The men who remain usually stay for personal reasons, and the women know that the marriage/relationship is dead for all intents and purposes. Fuck around, find out.

What do women want from men? What do men want from women?

These questions confuse many people, and arguments often devolve into men blaming women and women blaming men. As I have promised to do with this blog, I will cut through all the noise and get down to the brass tacks without mincing words. (Or going through the corners.)

Both men and women have short-term and long-term mating strategies (this will be the topic for another time, so I will not go into details here.) The summary is that short-term mating strategies for both genders are based purely on physical attraction and nothing else. Whenever both genders go for something longer, they look beyond the physical attributes. For this article, I will focus on the long-term mating strategies.

What do women want from men? When a woman assesses a man after the short-term physical attraction has been subdued, she seeks a man who can care for her physically and emotionally. A proxy for this is how wealthy or potentially wealthy he could be. She is looking out for the lifestyle she can get now or what she will be able to get in the future. Physical attributes such as height and size begin to take a back seat because a wealthy or influential man can provide physical security for her by proxy. Since he can command resources and other men, she will feel protected. Regardless of what women say, if a man cannot provide emotional and physical security, she will never stick with the man long-term. This is why it is possible for a woman to love a man dearly and still go and marry another man. And then cheat on the man she married with the man she loves. And then get the man she married to raise the child she bore for the ex-boyfriend. To top it all off, most women who do this will give the ex-boyfriend's name to the child as a constant reminder of who she loves. In summary, what women want from men are their resources, which provide their desired lifestyle.

What do men want from women? Like the woman, the man begins to look closer at the woman when he is ready to commit to her. The most critical attribute to him is her sexuality, which is evidenced by her physical attributes - the round ass, the plump breasts, the soft skin, etc. Her mental state then follows this. All women are neurotic - the more neurotic they are, the more difficult they are to manage. Nobody can do anything about this neuroticism, but each woman has a certain level. Some women are incredibly neurotic, but they are so hot that many men don't care. So, there is a delicate balance here. Unfortunately, a woman may have very low neuroticism and be calm and easygoing but may not be attractive enough for most men to consider committing to her. In summary, what men want from women are their sexuality and their ability to have children for them (if the man wants children).

Everything else feeds from this. When a woman says she loves a man, she is saying that she loves the lifestyle he can, or potentially can, provide. When a man says he loves a woman, what he is saying is that he loves that her sexuality belongs to him and nobody else. Some men may feel offended by this, but yes, that woman loves you because of your money. Lose it, and she's gone. Some women may also feel offended by this, but yes, that man loves you because of your sexuality. Give it to another man, and he's gone.

From this, we can deduce that the functional equivalent of a wealthy man is a hot girl. This is also why the functional equivalent of a man who cannot provide is a wife who cheats (or cheats). Most men will grumble when women leave them because they came to hard times, but other men accept the reality that it is what it is. This is why it is mental when women think cheating between men and women is equal. But from their behavior, the truth appears. When a man is highly valued and cheats, the woman will not leave. In fact, despite how loud women cry about cheating men, women line up to be the third and fourth side chicks of a highly valued man. But very few men stay after their wife cheats, and if they stay, the relationship or marriage never stays the same again. The men who remain usually stay for personal reasons, and the women know that the marriage/relationship is dead for all intents and purposes. Fuck around, find out.