I think this year, I have had a big cognitive change (I'm talking about a real change of thought and internalized in the heart and externalized in action, rather than simply "awareness"), that is: in front of myself, don't take yourself too seriously; in front of others, don't take yourself too seriously.

"Don't take yourself too seriously in front of yourself" means that we ourselves, in this world, have and there is only one. Everyone comes to the world in a unique way, and they will walk uniquely in the future. We only have this opportunity to be a human being. God only gives us decades of time to experience being a human being. Therefore, even if others don't cherish and disrespect you, you should cherish yourself, respect yourself, cherish your good life, and save yourself at ordinary times.

"Don't take yourself too seriously in front of others" means: Even if we think it's a big deal, it doesn't hurt or itch in the eyes of others. In the whole crowd and in human society, it is even more like a drop in the ocean. The world can't circle around you, and everything around you can't move around your will. The world has never been black or white, or evil. It only talks about balance, only says that things must be reversed, and things only spiral up and develop. Manpower can never compete with the power of heaven. Therefore, if you are coveted or critically hit by fate, you don't have to take it too seriously, don't exaggerate your efforts or mistakes too much, borrow strength when you come in, and lurk when you leave.

I think if a person can realize this and put it into all aspects of life, your sense of happiness will increase a lot.

I think this year, I have had a big cognitive change (I'm talking about a real change of thought and internalized in the heart and externalized in action, rather than simply "awareness"), that is: in front of myself, don't take yourself too seriously; in front of others, don't take yourself too seriously.

"Don't take yourself too seriously in front of yourself" means that we ourselves, in this world, have and there is only one. Everyone comes to the world in a unique way, and they will walk uniquely in the future. We only have this opportunity to be a human being. God only gives us decades of time to experience being a human being. Therefore, even if others don't cherish and disrespect you, you should cherish yourself, respect yourself, cherish your good life, and save yourself at ordinary times.

"Don't take yourself too seriously in front of others" means: Even if we think it's a big deal, it doesn't hurt or itch in the eyes of others. In the whole crowd and in human society, it is even more like a drop in the ocean. The world can't circle around you, and everything around you can't move around your will. The world has never been black or white, or evil. It only talks about balance, only says that things must be reversed, and things only spiral up and develop. Manpower can never compete with the power of heaven. Therefore, if you are coveted or critically hit by fate, you don't have to take it too seriously, don't exaggerate your efforts or mistakes too much, borrow strength when you come in, and lurk when you leave.

I think if a person can realize this and put it into all aspects of life, your sense of happiness will increase a lot.