Be frank, not capricious. The difference between the two is that frankness is guided by healthy nature, conforms to the ID, and does not care about utilitarianism, customs and public opinion. Self willed is dominated by wrong emotions, stubborn opinions, unable to listen to the voice of conscience and good advice. On specific occasions, the two are easy to be confused. The general rule is that in the eyes of others, willfulness is often regarded as willfulness, and in their own eyes, willfuln...