In 2025, I rediscovered a bug in my own operating system. I realised that I don’t become greedy because I want more money, status, or attention. I become greedy when three things collide at once:

• Endless opportunity.

• Non-stop effort.

• Near-zero barriers to entry.

When everything feels possible and accessible, my instinct is to keep going. One more idea. One more push. One more trade.

It appears to be ambition from the outside. Inside, it feels more like a highway with no speed limit and no exits. With no friction to start and no clear ceiling to stop, effort turns automatic. I stop choosing and start reacting. Motion replaces intention.

The real problem isn’t opportunity. It’s the absence of constraints. We tend to think of constraints as walls, but they’re actually directional markers. Without them, you don’t move faster. You just move everywhere.

Non-stop effort applied to infinite options creates the illusion of progress. You feel busy, even productive, but it’s like spinning a tire in loose gravel. A lot of noise, very little direction.

Over time, constant motion becomes numbing. It keeps me from asking the only question that matters: Is this actually mine to do?

When I don’t pause, I lose my internal compass. If I’m always “doing,” I’m too close to the canvas to understand the bigger picture. Distance is the only way to see clearly.

What I learned the hard way is simple and humbling. When I don’t define my own boundaries, the world does it for me. The noise decides my direction. And that quietly pulls me away from the person I’m trying to become.

Greed doesn’t always look like excess. Sometimes it looks like never stopping.

Learning to pause isn’t about doing less. It’s about protecting direction. Sometimes, the most disciplined move is letting an opportunity pass.

Saying no creates friction, but that friction is what keeps me on my own path.

In 2025, I rediscovered a bug in my own operating system. I realised that I don’t become greedy because I want more money, status, or attention. I become greedy when three things collide at once:

• Endless opportunity.

• Non-stop effort.

• Near-zero barriers to entry.

When everything feels possible and accessible, my instinct is to keep going. One more idea. One more push. One more trade.

It appears to be ambition from the outside. Inside, it feels more like a highway with no speed limit and no exits. With no friction to start and no clear ceiling to stop, effort turns automatic. I stop choosing and start reacting. Motion replaces intention.

The real problem isn’t opportunity. It’s the absence of constraints. We tend to think of constraints as walls, but they’re actually directional markers. Without them, you don’t move faster. You just move everywhere.

Non-stop effort applied to infinite options creates the illusion of progress. You feel busy, even productive, but it’s like spinning a tire in loose gravel. A lot of noise, very little direction.

Over time, constant motion becomes numbing. It keeps me from asking the only question that matters: Is this actually mine to do?

When I don’t pause, I lose my internal compass. If I’m always “doing,” I’m too close to the canvas to understand the bigger picture. Distance is the only way to see clearly.

What I learned the hard way is simple and humbling. When I don’t define my own boundaries, the world does it for me. The noise decides my direction. And that quietly pulls me away from the person I’m trying to become.

Greed doesn’t always look like excess. Sometimes it looks like never stopping.

Learning to pause isn’t about doing less. It’s about protecting direction. Sometimes, the most disciplined move is letting an opportunity pass.

Saying no creates friction, but that friction is what keeps me on my own path.