Recently, I read the masterpiece "La Traviata" by Mr. Dumas, a famous French writer in the 19th century, and sighed deeply. I have to admit: people who have been in love always have a deeper understanding of the hardships and sweetness of pursuing love than those who have never been in love. The first time I read "La Traviata" was in 2000, and that was when I couldn't understand the unforgettable true love and encounter between the son and the prostitute in "La Traviata", and I didn't have much sympathy for Margaret.

After reading this again, there are two gains. One is to fully understand the crazy words and behaviors of men and women in love, and to understand the true meaning of true love. The second is to deeply recognize the cruelty and cruelty of the real society, and deplore the heroine's experience very much, and also hate the society that made her suffer this kind of experience.

Mr. Dumas' description of young people's love psychology and behavior is very delicate and true, which can evoke the warm and crazy memories of men and women who have long been numb in their marriages when they were in love.

Mr. Armand, a 24-year-old male protagonist who just graduated with the help of his parents, met a Parisian socialite by chance, a 22-year-old beautiful girl who was born in a poor village and had to come to Paris to seek a life. Grete, deeply attracted by her beauty and holy appearance, fell in love with her at first sight, and did not despise her because of her prostitute status, and insisted on meeting and dating according to solemn etiquette. Through half a year of anonymously caring and visiting the sick Margaret, he won the sincere love of Margaret, who was lonely and painful on the outside. However, because of the huge debt owed by Margaret because of the luxurious life in the past, she cannot be the mistress of several noble sons at the same time, in order to obtain funds to repay the debt and maintain the current decent life. This made Armand, who wanted to monopolize Marguerite's love but had no financial strength to save his beloved woman, was very jealous and bitter. He was helpless and complained about himself. He had many conflicts with Marguerite, misunderstood and hurt her many times, but soon Regret the pain and feel that Margaret should not be blamed. Men and women in love always hurt those they love.

Margaret understands love, her love is deep, she knows that loving someone is not only about taking and controlling, but also about tolerance and sacrifice. This stubborn girl's relationship with Armand has nothing to do with money, and she didn't ask Armand for a penny. In order to give Armand a pure love, Margaret made a huge sacrifice. After refusing to communicate with the old Duke and Count G and losing the source of funds, in order to repay the huge debt, in order not to put Armand's economic pressure, she resolutely bid farewell to the past. Living a life of luxury and beauty, Dian sold her carriage, diamonds, jewelry and furniture, and wanted to settle in the country with Armand through thick and thin.

However, cruel society and secular prejudice will not allow a prostitute who pursues true love and is dedicated to goodness to become a new person. Happiness is always short, and suffering is always long. While they were planning a bright future in the Paris countryside, the fatherly and admirable M. Duval (Father Armand) came to Paris with worldly pressures to force the two to part. After being rejected by his son Armand, the old father found Marguerite. Our understanding girl, after realizing the painstaking care and pleading of her old father, made the decision to sacrifice herself to fulfill her lover - she painfully and deliberately communicated with the duke and the count again, and wrote a letter of refusal to reject Armand's request. Feelings, in order to achieve the purpose of causing Armand's hatred, despair and forgetting towards her. Armand, our heartbroken and desperate, lost his mind, bred hatred, and resorted to many measures, including making out and cohabiting with a prostitute in front of Marguerite, to avenge her "betrayal of love", let us poor girl She was severely mentally tortured to the point that she had to paralyze her soul through indulgence and alcoholism, which seriously damaged her already weak body. As a result, within three months, Armand, who she missed day and night, left Paris to go out to perform. During this period, poor Margaret died because of severe lung disease and coughing up blood.

What touched me the most was: our tolerant and kind Marguerite, she did not blame Armand for misunderstanding and hurt her, she endured it silently, and she expressed all her affection for Armand in the writings she wrote when she was increasingly ill. in the diary. She told Armand: "In those days you came up with something new to insult me ​​every day, insults that I could say happily accepted, because apart from the fact that they were proof that you always loved me, I seemed to feel The more you torture me, the more noble I will appear in your eyes when you know the truth."

When Armand, who was traveling, returned to Paris to receive the news of Margaret's death and those deplorable diaries, he understood everything and deeply regretted his selfishness and recklessness. What a sighing story, what a touching love story. As the lyrics of "Later" wrote: "Later, I finally learned how to love. It's a pity that you have long gone and disappeared into the sea of ​​people. Later, I finally realized in tears that some people will never stop once they miss them."

It is a little gratifying that our hero, M. Armand, is not as ruthless and indifferent as those aristocratic sons who have enjoyed Marguerite's body when they learn that she is seriously ill and has no entertainment value, but repents of herself. fault and try to make amends for the deceased lover. He traveled to Paris and Margaret's hometown while sick, and with the authorization of her relatives, he bought a permanent cemetery for the poor girl, and entrusted the cemetery administrator to buy a bunch of Margaret's favorite camellias to sacrifice to her every day. 's grave.

"This feeling can be reminisced, but it was lost at the time." Young people, cherish your lover, believe in your lover, understand your lover, be tolerant of your lover, don't hurt him (her) easily, and don't let people have a grudge for life!

Recently, I read the masterpiece "La Traviata" by Mr. Dumas, a famous French writer in the 19th century, and sighed deeply. I have to admit: people who have been in love always have a deeper understanding of the hardships and sweetness of pursuing love than those who have never been in love. The first time I read "La Traviata" was in 2000, and that was when I couldn't understand the unforgettable true love and encounter between the son and the prostitute in "La Traviata", and I didn't have much sympathy for Margaret.

After reading this again, there are two gains. One is to fully understand the crazy words and behaviors of men and women in love, and to understand the true meaning of true love. The second is to deeply recognize the cruelty and cruelty of the real society, and deplore the heroine's experience very much, and also hate the society that made her suffer this kind of experience.

Mr. Dumas' description of young people's love psychology and behavior is very delicate and true, which can evoke the warm and crazy memories of men and women who have long been numb in their marriages when they were in love.

Mr. Armand, a 24-year-old male protagonist who just graduated with the help of his parents, met a Parisian socialite by chance, a 22-year-old beautiful girl who was born in a poor village and had to come to Paris to seek a life. Grete, deeply attracted by her beauty and holy appearance, fell in love with her at first sight, and did not despise her because of her prostitute status, and insisted on meeting and dating according to solemn etiquette. Through half a year of anonymously caring and visiting the sick Margaret, he won the sincere love of Margaret, who was lonely and painful on the outside. However, because of the huge debt owed by Margaret because of the luxurious life in the past, she cannot be the mistress of several noble sons at the same time, in order to obtain funds to repay the debt and maintain the current decent life. This made Armand, who wanted to monopolize Marguerite's love but had no financial strength to save his beloved woman, was very jealous and bitter. He was helpless and complained about himself. He had many conflicts with Marguerite, misunderstood and hurt her many times, but soon Regret the pain and feel that Margaret should not be blamed. Men and women in love always hurt those they love.

Margaret understands love, her love is deep, she knows that loving someone is not only about taking and controlling, but also about tolerance and sacrifice. This stubborn girl's relationship with Armand has nothing to do with money, and she didn't ask Armand for a penny. In order to give Armand a pure love, Margaret made a huge sacrifice. After refusing to communicate with the old Duke and Count G and losing the source of funds, in order to repay the huge debt, in order not to put Armand's economic pressure, she resolutely bid farewell to the past. Living a life of luxury and beauty, Dian sold her carriage, diamonds, jewelry and furniture, and wanted to settle in the country with Armand through thick and thin.

However, cruel society and secular prejudice will not allow a prostitute who pursues true love and is dedicated to goodness to become a new person. Happiness is always short, and suffering is always long. While they were planning a bright future in the Paris countryside, the fatherly and admirable M. Duval (Father Armand) came to Paris with worldly pressures to force the two to part. After being rejected by his son Armand, the old father found Marguerite. Our understanding girl, after realizing the painstaking care and pleading of her old father, made the decision to sacrifice herself to fulfill her lover - she painfully and deliberately communicated with the duke and the count again, and wrote a letter of refusal to reject Armand's request. Feelings, in order to achieve the purpose of causing Armand's hatred, despair and forgetting towards her. Armand, our heartbroken and desperate, lost his mind, bred hatred, and resorted to many measures, including making out and cohabiting with a prostitute in front of Marguerite, to avenge her "betrayal of love", let us poor girl She was severely mentally tortured to the point that she had to paralyze her soul through indulgence and alcoholism, which seriously damaged her already weak body. As a result, within three months, Armand, who she missed day and night, left Paris to go out to perform. During this period, poor Margaret died because of severe lung disease and coughing up blood.

What touched me the most was: our tolerant and kind Marguerite, she did not blame Armand for misunderstanding and hurt her, she endured it silently, and she expressed all her affection for Armand in the writings she wrote when she was increasingly ill. in the diary. She told Armand: "In those days you came up with something new to insult me ​​every day, insults that I could say happily accepted, because apart from the fact that they were proof that you always loved me, I seemed to feel The more you torture me, the more noble I will appear in your eyes when you know the truth."

When Armand, who was traveling, returned to Paris to receive the news of Margaret's death and those deplorable diaries, he understood everything and deeply regretted his selfishness and recklessness. What a sighing story, what a touching love story. As the lyrics of "Later" wrote: "Later, I finally learned how to love. It's a pity that you have long gone and disappeared into the sea of ​​people. Later, I finally realized in tears that some people will never stop once they miss them."

It is a little gratifying that our hero, M. Armand, is not as ruthless and indifferent as those aristocratic sons who have enjoyed Marguerite's body when they learn that she is seriously ill and has no entertainment value, but repents of herself. fault and try to make amends for the deceased lover. He traveled to Paris and Margaret's hometown while sick, and with the authorization of her relatives, he bought a permanent cemetery for the poor girl, and entrusted the cemetery administrator to buy a bunch of Margaret's favorite camellias to sacrifice to her every day. 's grave.

"This feeling can be reminisced, but it was lost at the time." Young people, cherish your lover, believe in your lover, understand your lover, be tolerant of your lover, don't hurt him (her) easily, and don't let people have a grudge for life!