In ancient and modern times, in China and abroad, no one is alive without doing anything, not even babies. Sucking is what a baby does. If he is not allowed to do it, he will cry endlessly. If he is allowed to do it, he will be obedient and quiet. Broadly speaking, even mosquitoes have to do something: suck blood; even earthworms have to do something: burrow into the ground.

What a person does in his life can be summed up from many aspects - such as good things and bad things, good things and bad things, elegant things and common things, big things and small things?? and so on.

The things that all people in the world do in one lifetime can also be distinguished in a simpler way, which is nothing more than what they are willing to do, what they must do, and what they do not want to do.

If you think about it carefully, there are very few people in ancient times, all over the world, who only do what they want to do in their life, that is, they can not do anything they don't want to do. Probably, not at all, right? The kings and emperors of the past had to go to court to discuss government affairs, and that was not necessarily something they were willing to do every day.

Some people spend their lives doing things they don't want to do. For example, his or her career is by no means what he or she wants, but if it is changed, it is extremely difficult, "difficult to rise to the sky". Not to mention ancient times, regardless of foreign countries, only in China, only twenty years ago, there were many such people who were helpless all their lives.

And most of our lives are actually just doing what we have to do all day long. Day by day, gradually, we become indifferent to the things we are so willing to do, that we have so particularly longed to do. Not even thinking about it. It's as if our minds never had the urge to try to do the things that we had a special desire to do. Even if those things do not require the qualifications and capital of the world. Day by day, little by little, we've become people whose life processes are simply infused with necessities and miscellaneous things. We just pray that we don't get stuck with things we don't want to do. If so, we are thankful that we are very lucky. You may even feel that you have lived a very good life.

I think, this is one of the truths of life No one can escape these things. If you are sick, you have to be hospitalized, and you have to be hospitalized for treatment. Treatment is not only the doctor's business, but also the patient's cooperation. The lengthy phases of some treatments are more painful than some illnesses themselves. So the things that people don't want to do the most, suddenly become the things that they have to do. In the end, for the sake of life, the thing you don't want to do not only becomes the thing you must do, but also the thing you want to do the most. It's lest people think they're not doing well enough and don't want to do their due diligence with their own efforts.

Let's not talk about those people who are firmly stuck with things they don't want to do all their lives and are helpless! They are not necessarily destined to lose their luck. For example, some of them changed their faces when they heard about the gastroscope examination. They were lucky enough to have a stomach that had never been hurt before, and had never even taken any stomach medicine in their lives. For example, some of them were frightened when they heard the operation, and they were fortunate enough to never lie on the operating table in their lives. For example, some of them were most afraid of a difficult death, but they were fortunate enough to die peacefully without suffering at all. He died suddenly. Or die in deep sleep. Some even hummed a song and took the last hot bath in their lives before they died, and put on a new set of pajamas??

We can still get to know ourselves, that is, the truth about the lives of most people in this world!

The things we have to do, first and foremost, are the things that mean the fulcrum of our lives. Once we don't even do these things, or don't work hard, our life loses its stability, and it can't even last. For example, each of us must have a job and an income. Therefore, people with units have to go to work every day, and freelancers can't be too casual. When they should be diligent, they have to ask themselves to be tireless. The reason why very few people in this world are lucky is that they are lucky - what they must do is also what they are willing to do. Most people are not so lucky. Most people are good enough to have a job and an income. In the era of fierce competition for employment opportunities, even if it is not something you are willing to do, it must be regarded as a low-quality luck. Even if you plan to get rid of it, you will always consider it again and again, after thinking about it, and hesitating.

Because for most of us, what we have to do all day is often not only about our own lives, but also about our responsibilities and obligations. For example, the responsibilities and obligations of parents to their children; husband and wife; eldest son and eldest daughter to younger brothers and sisters? These responsibilities and obligations make the things that we ordinary people have to do all day long beyond willingness or unwillingness. So it has a special meaning. This special meaning, if not more pleasing to ourselves than those things we are willing to do, is more worthwhile than those things.

We do what we have to do, sometimes just so that we can one day do what we want without worry. The general rule is probably the same. Some people work diligently to do what they have to do, for several years as a day, or even for more than ten or twenty years, their life finally turns bright and bright, and they finally have the conditions to do what they want to do. The conditions are, of course, first and foremost created for themselves. Of course, there must be such a premise - what you are willing to do, you have always been thinking about, always yearning to do, and have not lost your thoughts??

We do what we have to do, sometimes just not so that we can one day do what we want without worry. We have often seen clearly that what we want to do is not separated from us by how hard we are doing what we have to do and how blameless we are

On the contrary, day by day, it gradually gets farther and farther away from us, and it becomes something destined to be missed in our life. No matter how much we have been thinking about it, how we have been yearning to do it. But we still do what we have to do so hard and so blamelessly. For what? For the next generation. For the next generation to do what they and they want to do to the best of their ability. For them and what they are willing to do no longer completely passively miss their own life. For them and them, have the greatest vitality in life, and not be stuck by those things that they are not willing to do at all. And then have the greatest vitality in life, so that what you must do and what you are willing to do are coordinated, at least partially consistent, at least not repeating yourself

The mistakes of life have completely ruined the conditions and opportunities to try to do what you want to do because you are stuck in what you have to do all day long.

Society progresses on the sacrifices of previous generations.

The next generation will also benefit greatly from the sacrifice of the previous generation.

Why do some parents prefer to insist on doing hard work that is physically difficult, or do a job with very low income without any regrets after retirement? In order for their children to receive higher education, they can make their children Their lives move smoothly toward what they want to do.

The phrase "poor the world's parents" should really be changed to "respect the world's parents" at this point. And it would be really sad if the children could not understand this.

The most sympathetic are those people who finally, like putting down a heavy cross, got rid of what they had to do and did not even want to do for almost their entire life; finally one day he breathed a sigh of relief and said to himself-- Now, I can do what I want to do. Maybe it's just a visit to the hometown, or a trip to a certain place, or even just a plane ride or a sea boat? And the god of death suddenly came to hold his or her hand??

Therefore, I would like to say to the young people from poor backgrounds, if you have the ability, you don't have to do the things you want to do one by one. Think about it, how can you have such an ability? You are completely dependent on yourself? What sacrifices have your hard-working parents made? And you should ask in time: Mom and Dad, what are the things you are most willing to do in your life? We are now Just do something like that! For that long-term expectation in your heart!??

A young friend of mine who became a manager asked his parents this way, before the Spring Festival this year—and his parents said hesitantly, that they wanted to leave the city and relive their rural life for a few days.

When the son was very surprised: Then I have taken the company employees to the countryside a few times, and have played in the countryside a few times, why didn't you bring it up?

The parents said: We two old people, slowly and slowly, we will not drag you down and have fun!

When the son couldn't help but meditate, and then became sad.

During the Spring Festival, he resolutely refused all entertainment, and spent it with his parents in the countryside on the outskirts of Beijing.

Our ideal society looks like this:

There are fewer and fewer people who are stuck with things they don’t want to do just for survival Satisfy or indirectly satisfy your "will".

According to my analysis, most of the things that people are willing to do are actually things that are self-aware.

Times have advanced.

One of the signs is too - more and more people, not less, are living their lives without losing their sense of self-awareness.

Although most of us are still doing the things we have to do all day, these things have become more flexible and looser in relation to our lives over time, allowing us to start Having relatively autonomous time and energy to take care of what we want to do doesn't make it impossible.

What's more important is, do we still live by this kind of inertia as before??

In ancient and modern times, in China and abroad, no one is alive without doing anything, not even babies. Sucking is what a baby does. If he is not allowed to do it, he will cry endlessly. If he is allowed to do it, he will be obedient and quiet. Broadly speaking, even mosquitoes have to do something: suck blood; even earthworms have to do something: burrow into the ground.

What a person does in his life can be summed up from many aspects - such as good things and bad things, good things and bad things, elegant things and common things, big things and small things?? and so on.

The things that all people in the world do in one lifetime can also be distinguished in a simpler way, which is nothing more than what they are willing to do, what they must do, and what they do not want to do.

If you think about it carefully, there are very few people in ancient times, all over the world, who only do what they want to do in their life, that is, they can not do anything they don't want to do. Probably, not at all, right? The kings and emperors of the past had to go to court to discuss government affairs, and that was not necessarily something they were willing to do every day.

Some people spend their lives doing things they don't want to do. For example, his or her career is by no means what he or she wants, but if it is changed, it is extremely difficult, "difficult to rise to the sky". Not to mention ancient times, regardless of foreign countries, only in China, only twenty years ago, there were many such people who were helpless all their lives.

And most of our lives are actually just doing what we have to do all day long. Day by day, gradually, we become indifferent to the things we are so willing to do, that we have so particularly longed to do. Not even thinking about it. It's as if our minds never had the urge to try to do the things that we had a special desire to do. Even if those things do not require the qualifications and capital of the world. Day by day, little by little, we've become people whose life processes are simply infused with necessities and miscellaneous things. We just pray that we don't get stuck with things we don't want to do. If so, we are thankful that we are very lucky. You may even feel that you have lived a very good life.

I think, this is one of the truths of life No one can escape these things. If you are sick, you have to be hospitalized, and you have to be hospitalized for treatment. Treatment is not only the doctor's business, but also the patient's cooperation. The lengthy phases of some treatments are more painful than some illnesses themselves. So the things that people don't want to do the most, suddenly become the things that they have to do. In the end, for the sake of life, the thing you don't want to do not only becomes the thing you must do, but also the thing you want to do the most. It's lest people think they're not doing well enough and don't want to do their due diligence with their own efforts.

Let's not talk about those people who are firmly stuck with things they don't want to do all their lives and are helpless! They are not necessarily destined to lose their luck. For example, some of them changed their faces when they heard about the gastroscope examination. They were lucky enough to have a stomach that had never been hurt before, and had never even taken any stomach medicine in their lives. For example, some of them were frightened when they heard the operation, and they were fortunate enough to never lie on the operating table in their lives. For example, some of them were most afraid of a difficult death, but they were fortunate enough to die peacefully without suffering at all. He died suddenly. Or die in deep sleep. Some even hummed a song and took the last hot bath in their lives before they died, and put on a new set of pajamas??

We can still get to know ourselves, that is, the truth about the lives of most people in this world!

The things we have to do, first and foremost, are the things that mean the fulcrum of our lives. Once we don't even do these things, or don't work hard, our life loses its stability, and it can't even last. For example, each of us must have a job and an income. Therefore, people with units have to go to work every day, and freelancers can't be too casual. When they should be diligent, they have to ask themselves to be tireless. The reason why very few people in this world are lucky is that they are lucky - what they must do is also what they are willing to do. Most people are not so lucky. Most people are good enough to have a job and an income. In the era of fierce competition for employment opportunities, even if it is not something you are willing to do, it must be regarded as a low-quality luck. Even if you plan to get rid of it, you will always consider it again and again, after thinking about it, and hesitating.

Because for most of us, what we have to do all day is often not only about our own lives, but also about our responsibilities and obligations. For example, the responsibilities and obligations of parents to their children; husband and wife; eldest son and eldest daughter to younger brothers and sisters? These responsibilities and obligations make the things that we ordinary people have to do all day long beyond willingness or unwillingness. So it has a special meaning. This special meaning, if not more pleasing to ourselves than those things we are willing to do, is more worthwhile than those things.

We do what we have to do, sometimes just so that we can one day do what we want without worry. The general rule is probably the same. Some people work diligently to do what they have to do, for several years as a day, or even for more than ten or twenty years, their life finally turns bright and bright, and they finally have the conditions to do what they want to do. The conditions are, of course, first and foremost created for themselves. Of course, there must be such a premise - what you are willing to do, you have always been thinking about, always yearning to do, and have not lost your thoughts??

We do what we have to do, sometimes just not so that we can one day do what we want without worry. We have often seen clearly that what we want to do is not separated from us by how hard we are doing what we have to do and how blameless we are

On the contrary, day by day, it gradually gets farther and farther away from us, and it becomes something destined to be missed in our life. No matter how much we have been thinking about it, how we have been yearning to do it. But we still do what we have to do so hard and so blamelessly. For what? For the next generation. For the next generation to do what they and they want to do to the best of their ability. For them and what they are willing to do no longer completely passively miss their own life. For them and them, have the greatest vitality in life, and not be stuck by those things that they are not willing to do at all. And then have the greatest vitality in life, so that what you must do and what you are willing to do are coordinated, at least partially consistent, at least not repeating yourself

The mistakes of life have completely ruined the conditions and opportunities to try to do what you want to do because you are stuck in what you have to do all day long.

Society progresses on the sacrifices of previous generations.

The next generation will also benefit greatly from the sacrifice of the previous generation.

Why do some parents prefer to insist on doing hard work that is physically difficult, or do a job with very low income without any regrets after retirement? In order for their children to receive higher education, they can make their children Their lives move smoothly toward what they want to do.

The phrase "poor the world's parents" should really be changed to "respect the world's parents" at this point. And it would be really sad if the children could not understand this.

The most sympathetic are those people who finally, like putting down a heavy cross, got rid of what they had to do and did not even want to do for almost their entire life; finally one day he breathed a sigh of relief and said to himself-- Now, I can do what I want to do. Maybe it's just a visit to the hometown, or a trip to a certain place, or even just a plane ride or a sea boat? And the god of death suddenly came to hold his or her hand??

Therefore, I would like to say to the young people from poor backgrounds, if you have the ability, you don't have to do the things you want to do one by one. Think about it, how can you have such an ability? You are completely dependent on yourself? What sacrifices have your hard-working parents made? And you should ask in time: Mom and Dad, what are the things you are most willing to do in your life? We are now Just do something like that! For that long-term expectation in your heart!??

A young friend of mine who became a manager asked his parents this way, before the Spring Festival this year—and his parents said hesitantly, that they wanted to leave the city and relive their rural life for a few days.

When the son was very surprised: Then I have taken the company employees to the countryside a few times, and have played in the countryside a few times, why didn't you bring it up?

The parents said: We two old people, slowly and slowly, we will not drag you down and have fun!

When the son couldn't help but meditate, and then became sad.

During the Spring Festival, he resolutely refused all entertainment, and spent it with his parents in the countryside on the outskirts of Beijing.

Our ideal society looks like this:

There are fewer and fewer people who are stuck with things they don’t want to do just for survival Satisfy or indirectly satisfy your "will".

According to my analysis, most of the things that people are willing to do are actually things that are self-aware.

Times have advanced.

One of the signs is too - more and more people, not less, are living their lives without losing their sense of self-awareness.

Although most of us are still doing the things we have to do all day, these things have become more flexible and looser in relation to our lives over time, allowing us to start Having relatively autonomous time and energy to take care of what we want to do doesn't make it impossible.

What's more important is, do we still live by this kind of inertia as before??