Personality growth is almost inevitably accompanied by realignment of real relationships. For example, if you used to be an ingratiating personality, the real relationships that surrounded you were, to varying degrees, the ones you traded in exchange for ceding your ego. After a mountain of growth, you finally stopped pleasing, no longer cut off the self, you began to straighten up to be a person, do things cleanly, at this time those who are accustomed to your pleasing mode, will inevitably ...

Personality growth is almost inevitably accompanied by realignment of real relationships. For example, if you used to be an ingratiating personality, the real relationships that surrounded you were, to varying degrees, the ones you traded in exchange for ceding your ego. After a mountain of growth, you finally stopped pleasing, no longer cut off the self, you began to straighten up to be a person, do things cleanly, at this time those who are accustomed to your pleasing mode, will inevitably ...

When you reach the heights of success, you will realize that most of the people around you are very good at what they do. This is because they have gone through the same difficulties and challenges and have grown in overcoming them. These people know very well how to appreciate what they have and treat others with care. What's more, these people don't have any sense of superiority. They do not belittle the efforts and achievements of others, nor do they view the world with themselves in mind....

When you reach the heights of success, you will realize that most of the people around you are very good at what they do. This is because they have gone through the same difficulties and challenges and have grown in overcoming them. These people know very well how to appreciate what they have and treat others with care. What's more, these people don't have any sense of superiority. They do not belittle the efforts and achievements of others, nor do they view the world with themselves in mind....

We will eventually realize that it is never others who need convincing, but rather ourselves who once longed for recognition. When you are no longer obsessed with changing others, it's like untying the ropes of self-bondage, and instead you can appreciate the world with greater ease. After all, roses do not have to grow into pines and cypresses, seagulls do not need to understand penguins, the world is wonderful because of the differences. Life is like a wilderness, some people go south to me...

We will eventually realize that it is never others who need convincing, but rather ourselves who once longed for recognition. When you are no longer obsessed with changing others, it's like untying the ropes of self-bondage, and instead you can appreciate the world with greater ease. After all, roses do not have to grow into pines and cypresses, seagulls do not need to understand penguins, the world is wonderful because of the differences. Life is like a wilderness, some people go south to me...

The most important secret to becoming confident and powerful is to always like yourself. True self-confidence comes from a deep inner acceptance and appreciation of myself. I have the courage to be open to new changes and ideas without being terrified by other people's reactions or self-doubting because of external judgments. I allow others to disapprove of me, but I don't care because of it. When you stop living to please others and focus on making yourself happy, you will find that this is ...

The most important secret to becoming confident and powerful is to always like yourself. True self-confidence comes from a deep inner acceptance and appreciation of myself. I have the courage to be open to new changes and ideas without being terrified by other people's reactions or self-doubting because of external judgments. I allow others to disapprove of me, but I don't care because of it. When you stop living to please others and focus on making yourself happy, you will find that this is ...

I found a perfect answer to this question in a book. Those who died yesterday may still be planning for tomorrow, those who died in the morning may still be planning for the night, maybe in a flash, everything will be gone, you never know what will happen next. People in this life are always waiting, waiting for the future, waiting for not busy, waiting for money, but when we wait until later, there are only regrets. We are too busy to enjoy, we ignore too much love and be loved, so please be...

I found a perfect answer to this question in a book. Those who died yesterday may still be planning for tomorrow, those who died in the morning may still be planning for the night, maybe in a flash, everything will be gone, you never know what will happen next. People in this life are always waiting, waiting for the future, waiting for not busy, waiting for money, but when we wait until later, there are only regrets. We are too busy to enjoy, we ignore too much love and be loved, so please be...

One of the things that I am particularly grateful for in the past two years is called “patience”. When I was young, I was ambitious and arrogant. I was always eager to accomplish something because I seemed to be a little bit smart. I also wanted to win the day, a big job (of course, when I look back at the “day”, I am also sitting on a well to watch the sky). That is, these years, finally understand that the direction of life never have their own rhythm. Spring and fall, you do not go through...

One of the things that I am particularly grateful for in the past two years is called “patience”. When I was young, I was ambitious and arrogant. I was always eager to accomplish something because I seemed to be a little bit smart. I also wanted to win the day, a big job (of course, when I look back at the “day”, I am also sitting on a well to watch the sky). That is, these years, finally understand that the direction of life never have their own rhythm. Spring and fall, you do not go through...

Never hate the lower end of the consciousness crowd in your loved ones and friends. Hatred is also a form of entanglement. The greatest wisdom is not to be entangled, to let go, not to have the obsession of correcting it, once you have the obsession of wanting to correct someone you are in big trouble, it is much more of a test for you, be humble, really, if you really understand particularly you will not spend that effort to correct anyone, just let it be where it is, don't change anyone if ...

Never hate the lower end of the consciousness crowd in your loved ones and friends. Hatred is also a form of entanglement. The greatest wisdom is not to be entangled, to let go, not to have the obsession of correcting it, once you have the obsession of wanting to correct someone you are in big trouble, it is much more of a test for you, be humble, really, if you really understand particularly you will not spend that effort to correct anyone, just let it be where it is, don't change anyone if ...